EP 19: Breaking Relationship H.A.B.I.T.T.'s & Tips for Trapping the Perfect Husband
Release Date: 06/06/2024
New Trailer - 2025
Red Flags Everywhere
Love, dating, heartbreak, healing — and all the messy moments in between. This heartbreakingly hilarious podcast dives into the red flags we miss, the cycles we repeat, and the tools we need to grow. Hosted by actor and failed relationship expert James Arthur M., it brings raw honesty, pop culture, and Black queer perspective to relationships, identity, and self-worth. This trailer offers a taste of what’s ahead in Season 2: deeper lessons, bigger laughs, and more green lights in love. Subscribe and join the healing. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm...
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Ep 31 New Year, New Us: Manifesting Goals and Relationship Lessons
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What better way to start 2025 than by reflecting on the past and setting intentions for the future? This week, James and Sarah are celebrating the Red Flags Everywhere one-year anniversary with a special New Year episode! From relationship goals to vision boards, they’re diving deep into what they’ve learned, what they’re letting go of, and how they’re leveling up for the year ahead. Together, they revisit last year’s dating resolutions (spoiler: they’ve got receipts), reflect on standout lessons from 30+ episodes of the show, and set their sights on the big five dreams for 2025....
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EP 30: When Exes Haunt: Navigating Ghosts of Relationships Past
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What do you do when your ex comes back into your life like a ghost from the past? Well, James is being haunted by the ex of all exes—the one who inspired this very podcast! To help him unpack this unexpected twist, he’s calling in backup from his sista friend, Mackenzie Green. Together, they dive into the big questions: Do you respond? Do you block? And most importantly, how do you trust your gut when the past comes knocking? Whether you’re facing your own Michael Myers situation or just curious about why this keeps happening, James and Mackenzie have you covered with laughs, wisdom, and...
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EP29: Have a Little Faith!
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Ever wonder how faith, intention, and a little vulnerability can transform the way you approach love? And what happens when a “wild meet-cute” throws all your carefully curated plans out the window? This week on Red Flags Everywhere, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Sade Spence, who brings her signature humor and wisdom to a conversation about navigating modern love. From her jaw-dropping meet-cute, to the lessons she’s learned about spotting red flags and celebrating green ones, Sade’s story reminds us that sometimes love is equal parts faith, self-awareness, and being...
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EP28: Black Love Matters: Finding Joy and Community Amidst the Chaos
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In the wake of a tumultuous election season and a world brimming with uncertainty, how do we protect our peace, foster love, and build connections that matter? This week we’re joined by the brilliant Shantira Jackson—writer, comedian, and voice of resilience—as we dive into navigating relationships, identity, and self-care amidst world turmoil. Shantira opens up about finding joy and love in the chaos, leaning into her community, and prioritizing her well-being in a world that often feels overwhelming. Together, we unpack the impact of politics on identity and relationships, the...
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EP 27 If They're Holding a Fish... Its a Miss...
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Ever felt ready to call it quits on dating apps, exhausted from swiping through red flags and fleeting connections? This week, we’re diving deep into the dating trenches with Marvel's own Ray Lowe, who found her person after almost giving up on online dating. From identifying red flags to recognizing the surprising green lights, Ray’s story is all about resilience and self-growth. She shares the faith it took to keep looking, the personal work she did to prepare for real connection, and how reconnecting with her spirituality helped her know what she truly wanted in a relationship. Plus, we...
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Ep 26 All is Fair in love and Cosplay
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Have you ever felt like you were cosplaying in your own life, playing different roles in your relationships, and ignoring the red flags in the process? Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Judy Stephens, producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and author of Cosplay the Marvel Way. From her experience navigating cosplay culture to advocating for diverse voices at Marvel, Judy shares how dressing up as superheroes can help you uncover your authentic self. She opens up about dating in the cosplay community (is mixing your passions with your love life a good idea)?...
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EP25: To Me, My Love Warriors: From Red Flags, to Weddings,& X-Men 97
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We’re joined by the talented JP Karliak—voice of iconic characters like Morph from X-Men ’97, the Joker, Boss Baby (Netflix) the Green Goblin, and many more. JP shares his personal experiences navigating red flags, balancing mental and emotional well-being, and embracing the chaos of life. We also dive into queer/straight friend dynamics, JP’s unforgettable wedding and the compromises that made it special, and his advocacy work for LGBTQIA+ representation through his organization Queer Vox. Plus, JP offers invaluable advice for aspiring LGBTQIA+ voice actors on how to find and love...
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EP24: She Literally Wrote the Book on Red Flags
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Have you ever ignored a glaring red flag, hoping things would magically work out, only to find yourself trapped in yet another relationship disaster? You’re not alone! In this episode, we’re joined by Brianna McCabe, author of , to help us dive deep into the red flags we often overlook and why we ignore them. Brianna shares personal stories and insights from her book, reflecting on her own journey of self-discovery, healing, and breaking toxic patterns. We’ll also discuss how to cultivate self-love, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to spot those elusive green flags in...
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EP23: Caught in the Swipe: Date, Survive, Repeat
Red Flags Everywhere
Have you ever found yourself endlessly swiping left on dating apps, wondering why nothing clicks? Or maybe you've seen the red flags but kept going anyway—only to end up in a relationship horror story that you can't believe you survived. You're not alone. In today's episode, we're here with Josh Saleh, my brother from another mother! Josh is a fellow entertainment host—who also hosts for Marvel. He's here to help us explore why so many of us get stuck in that loop, the red flags we've ignored, and the wild situations we've lived to tell about. We'll also discuss how to break free...
info_outlineToday we welcome the multi-talented Matt McConkey, actor, writer, and co-host of the "Homophilia" podcast and host of "Just Like Matt." We dive into a candid discussion about mental health, including James' recent breakthrough and recovery. Matt gives us his tips for breaking relationship patterns through his acrynom HABITT. Plus, Matt shares his journey to finding lasting love and offers tips for trapping the perfect husband!
Our guest today is Matt McConkey (he/him): a TV writer and actor whose credits include KENAN and AMERICAN AUTO. He's also the host of the podcasts "And Just Like Matt" and "Homophilia" for World of Wonder. IG: @themattgrassi
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Credits:
Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm
Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays
Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty