Red Flags Everywhere
Red Flags Everywhere is hosted by James Arthur Martin: A failed relationship expert on the journey to help us all end unhealthy relationship patterns. With experts and non experts alike, we will heal, laugh, cry, and grow together on a journey to be our best loving selves, helping us to find and maintain the love we deserve.
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New Trailer - 2025
05/13/2025
New Trailer - 2025
Love, dating, heartbreak, healing — and all the messy moments in between. This heartbreakingly hilarious podcast dives into the red flags we miss, the cycles we repeat, and the tools we need to grow. Hosted by actor and failed relationship expert James Arthur M., it brings raw honesty, pop culture, and Black queer perspective to relationships, identity, and self-worth. This trailer offers a taste of what’s ahead in Season 2: deeper lessons, bigger laughs, and more green lights in love. Subscribe and join the healing. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with Us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Check out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel SUPPORT THE SHOW: We love creating this podcast for you, Love Warriors! If you enjoy the show, consider joining us on Patreon for exclusive bonus content, behind-the-scenes moments, and other exciting perks. Click here to support us and keep the conversations going!
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Ep 31 New Year, New Us: Manifesting Goals and Relationship Lessons
01/09/2025
Ep 31 New Year, New Us: Manifesting Goals and Relationship Lessons
What better way to start 2025 than by reflecting on the past and setting intentions for the future? This week, James and Sarah are celebrating the Red Flags Everywhere one-year anniversary with a special New Year episode! From relationship goals to vision boards, they’re diving deep into what they’ve learned, what they’re letting go of, and how they’re leveling up for the year ahead. Together, they revisit last year’s dating resolutions (spoiler: they’ve got receipts), reflect on standout lessons from 30+ episodes of the show, and set their sights on the big five dreams for 2025. Plus, Sarah surprises James with some thought-provoking questions to kick off the year—and you won’t want to miss the chance to reflect, reset, and start your own “new year, new you” journey! Bio: Sarah (She/Her) is a Queer Brooklyn based Podcast Producer and Editor. Past shows include: Minority Korner, The Queerience and Get on Up! She loves to cook and is an avid BTS fan. You can find her talking walks and creating the next project. -------- Credits: Host/Producer: James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor: Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music: Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Check out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can’t do this show without you! Join us on Patreon for bonus content, behind-the-scenes insights, and other exciting perks. Click to become a member and support content you love!
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EP 30: When Exes Haunt: Navigating Ghosts of Relationships Past
12/20/2024
EP 30: When Exes Haunt: Navigating Ghosts of Relationships Past
What do you do when your ex comes back into your life like a ghost from the past? Well, James is being haunted by the ex of all exes—the one who inspired this very podcast! To help him unpack this unexpected twist, he’s calling in backup from his sista friend, Mackenzie Green. Together, they dive into the big questions: Do you respond? Do you block? And most importantly, how do you trust your gut when the past comes knocking? Whether you’re facing your own Michael Myers situation or just curious about why this keeps happening, James and Mackenzie have you covered with laughs, wisdom, and a few petty confessions. Our guest this week is Mackenzie Green (she/her): Vice President of Social at Future Media and co-host of The Taylor Strecker Show. With over a decade of digital marketing experience, Mackenzie is also a proud blerd, dog mom, marathon runner, and advocate for women and girls through her work with organizations like the Shoebox Project and the Girl Scouts of Greater Los Angeles. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with Us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Check out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel SUPPORT THE SHOW: We love creating this podcast for you, Love Warriors! If you enjoy the show, consider joining us on Patreon for exclusive bonus content, behind-the-scenes moments, and other exciting perks. Click here to support us and keep the conversations going! dating, red flags everywhere, relationship advice, exes, boundaries, Mackenzie Green, relationships, humor, growth, heartbreak, self-growth
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EP29: Have a Little Faith!
12/06/2024
EP29: Have a Little Faith!
Ever wonder how faith, intention, and a little vulnerability can transform the way you approach love? And what happens when a “wild meet-cute” throws all your carefully curated plans out the window? This week on Red Flags Everywhere, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Sade Spence, who brings her signature humor and wisdom to a conversation about navigating modern love. From her jaw-dropping meet-cute, to the lessons she’s learned about spotting red flags and celebrating green ones, Sade’s story reminds us that sometimes love is equal parts faith, self-awareness, and being open to the unexpected. Along the way, we dive into her exciting career—did we mention she’s worked with Marvel?—and the intentional steps she’s taken to balance ambition with authentic connection. Our guest this week is Sade Spence (she/her): a multifaceted journalist, content creator, and entertainment host whose passion for pop culture, nerdom, and storytelling knows no bounds. Sade has hosted for Marvel, Variety, and AMC Theaters, bringing her signature charm and sharp insights to every project. When she’s not interviewing your favorite stars or diving into the latest superhero saga as host of the Official Marvel Podcast, she’s empowering the next generation of hosts through her workshops and coaching programs. Follow her on Instagram and TikTok: @SadeASpence and @SadeTV to keep up with her latest adventures—and maybe even learn a hosting tip or two! a vibrant journalist, content creator, and entertainment host Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) Connect with Us: Instagram: Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Facebook Group: Check out video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We love creating this podcast for you, Love Warriors! If you enjoy the show, consider joining us on Patreon for exclusive bonus content, behind-the-scenes moments, and other exciting perks. Click here to support us and keep the conversations going! KEYWORDS: dating, red flags everywhere, relationship advice, faith, intention, green flags, Marvel, relationships, vulnerability, self-growth, storytelling, meet-cute, humor
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EP28: Black Love Matters: Finding Joy and Community Amidst the Chaos
11/22/2024
EP28: Black Love Matters: Finding Joy and Community Amidst the Chaos
In the wake of a tumultuous election season and a world brimming with uncertainty, how do we protect our peace, foster love, and build connections that matter? This week we’re joined by the brilliant Shantira Jackson—writer, comedian, and voice of resilience—as we dive into navigating relationships, identity, and self-care amidst world turmoil. Shantira opens up about finding joy and love in the chaos, leaning into her community, and prioritizing her well-being in a world that often feels overwhelming. Together, we unpack the impact of politics on identity and relationships, the value of intentional self-care, and why this is the time to refocus on personal growth and Black love. Plus, Shantira shares hilarious anecdotes, insightful advice, and powerful reminders of what it means to thrive while staying true to yourself. Whether you're navigating dating in uncertain times or rediscovering your own power, this episode is here to inspire and uplift. Our guest today is Shantira Jackson (she/her): Shantira Jackson (she/her) is a writer, comedian, and creative powerhouse known for her work on Big Mouth, Human Resources, Amber Ruffin Show, and the Saved by the Bell reboot. A Florida native, Shantira brings a sharp wit and profound insights to her work, which often centers on social commentary, Black joy, and embracing authenticity. When she’s not writing for hit shows, she’s channeling her energy into self-care, community building, and finding the best churros around. Follow Shantira: Watch Big Mouth Season 7, Human Resources Season 2, and her episodes of Saved by the Bell Reboot on Peacock. Credits: Host/Producer: James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor: Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music: Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Check out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can’t do this show without you! Join us on Patreon for bonus content, behind-the-scenes insights, and other exciting perks. Click to become a member and support content you love!
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EP 27 If They're Holding a Fish... Its a Miss...
10/31/2024
EP 27 If They're Holding a Fish... Its a Miss...
Ever felt ready to call it quits on dating apps, exhausted from swiping through red flags and fleeting connections? This week, we’re diving deep into the dating trenches with Marvel's own Ray Lowe, who found her person after almost giving up on online dating. From identifying red flags to recognizing the surprising green lights, Ray’s story is all about resilience and self-growth. She shares the faith it took to keep looking, the personal work she did to prepare for real connection, and how reconnecting with her spirituality helped her know what she truly wanted in a relationship. Plus, we unpack why sometimes, finding the love you deserve means being ready for a ‘boring,’ steady love—in the best way. Our guest today is Ray Lowe (she/her): Ray Lowe (she/her) is a Marvel event host and producer with a knack for storytelling, style, and embracing all things geek culture. Based in New Orleans, Ray is a former fashion editor turned stylist whose love for creativity and comic culture makes her the ultimate professional geek. When she’s not on the red carpet or hosting for Marvel, you can find her collecting vintage fashion, curating her wardrobe, and caring for her beloved cats. Ray's journey through dating apps and her fresh take on love and resilience bring a grounded perspective to today’s conversation. IG: @rayasunshiine Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Check out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can’t do this show without you! Join us on Patreon to get access to bonus content, behind-the-scenes insights, and other exciting perks. Click here to become a member and support content you love
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Ep 26 All is Fair in love and Cosplay
10/03/2024
Ep 26 All is Fair in love and Cosplay
Have you ever felt like you were cosplaying in your own life, playing different roles in your relationships, and ignoring the red flags in the process? Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Judy Stephens, producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and author of Cosplay the Marvel Way. From her experience navigating cosplay culture to advocating for diverse voices at Marvel, Judy shares how dressing up as superheroes can help you uncover your authentic self. She opens up about dating in the cosplay community (is mixing your passions with your love life a good idea)? Plus Judy spills the tea on red and green flags you can spot based on someone’s cosplay choices. Our guest today is Judy Stephens (she/her): a cosplay producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and co-author of . You can follow Judy on Instagram and TikTok at @omgdjjudy and check out her latest projects, including her upcoming book Super Visible: The Story of the Women of Marvel. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! ------ KEYWORDS: dating, red flags everywhere, LGBTQ, Black podcast, relationships, relationship advice
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EP25: To Me, My Love Warriors: From Red Flags, to Weddings,& X-Men 97
09/19/2024
EP25: To Me, My Love Warriors: From Red Flags, to Weddings,& X-Men 97
We’re joined by the talented JP Karliak—voice of iconic characters like Morph from X-Men ’97, the Joker, Boss Baby (Netflix) the Green Goblin, and many more. JP shares his personal experiences navigating red flags, balancing mental and emotional well-being, and embracing the chaos of life. We also dive into queer/straight friend dynamics, JP’s unforgettable wedding and the compromises that made it special, and his advocacy work for LGBTQIA+ representation through his organization Queer Vox. Plus, JP offers invaluable advice for aspiring LGBTQIA+ voice actors on how to find and love their unique voices in an industry that can often push conformity. And as co-founder of NerdsVote, JP highlights the importance of getting out the vote—because your voice matters! Our guest today is JP Karliak (he/him): A versatile voice actor known for roles like Morph in X-Men ’97, the Joker, and the Green Goblin. JP is the founder of Queer Vox, advocating for LGBTQIA+ representation in voice acting, and co-founder of NerdsVote, encouraging voter registration. To learn more about JP, follow him on Instagram at @jpkarliak, @queervoxacademy, and @nerdsvote. You can also visit jpkarliak.com, queervox.org, and nerdsvote.com. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with Us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel Webstie: Support the Show: We can’t do this show without you! Become a member of our community and get access to bonus content, features, and other awesome perks. Click here to learn more!
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EP24: She Literally Wrote the Book on Red Flags
09/06/2024
EP24: She Literally Wrote the Book on Red Flags
Have you ever ignored a glaring red flag, hoping things would magically work out, only to find yourself trapped in yet another relationship disaster? You’re not alone! In this episode, we’re joined by Brianna McCabe, author of , to help us dive deep into the red flags we often overlook and why we ignore them. Brianna shares personal stories and insights from her book, reflecting on her own journey of self-discovery, healing, and breaking toxic patterns. We’ll also discuss how to cultivate self-love, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to spot those elusive green flags in relationships. Plus, Brianna offers practical advice for anyone trying to navigate the tricky waters of dating and relationships, especially if you’re tired of falling into the same traps. Our guest today is Brianna McCabe (she/her): an author, marketing professional, and professor with a mission to teach self-love, set boundaries, and break free from toxic relationship patterns. To learn more about Brianna and her work, you can follow her on Instagram and Tik Tok: @thebriannamccabe or grab a copy of her book The Red Flags I’ve Ignored on Amazon. Website: Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with Us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel Support the Show: We can’t do this show without you! Become a member of our community and get access to bonus content, features, and other awesome perks. Click here to learn more!
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EP23: Caught in the Swipe: Date, Survive, Repeat
08/22/2024
EP23: Caught in the Swipe: Date, Survive, Repeat
Have you ever found yourself endlessly swiping left on dating apps, wondering why nothing clicks? Or maybe you've seen the red flags but kept going anyway—only to end up in a relationship horror story that you can't believe you survived. You're not alone. In today's episode, we're here with Josh Saleh, my brother from another mother! Josh is a fellow entertainment host—who also hosts for Marvel. He's here to help us explore why so many of us get stuck in that loop, the red flags we've ignored, and the wild situations we've lived to tell about. We'll also discuss how to break free from old habits and be open to new possibilities, and just how important sexual compatibility is. Plus, Josh gets really candid about some dating horror stories. And just for fun, we're going to play a few rounds of Josh’s hit new party game "Change My Mind", as it pertains to green flags and the things we’re looking for in a partner- and what often gets overlooked. Our guest today is Josh Saleh (he/him): a dynamic entertainment host known for his work with Marvel as a hosts for red carpets, comic con, and their YouTube channel. He’s had a winning appearance on hit shows like "Let’s Make a Deal." Josh is also the creator of "Change My Mind," a new and exciting party game that’s taking the market by storm.To learn more about Josh and his work, you can follow him on Instagram at @joshdsaleh and check out "Change My Mind" on Amazon. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Checkout video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click here to find out more!
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EP22: I Aint Afraid of No Rejection!
08/04/2024
EP22: I Aint Afraid of No Rejection!
As we dive headfirst into Hot Boy Summer, we're excited to tackle a topic that affects us all: rejection. Today, we're thrilled to have Damon Jacobs, our resident therapist and mental health expert, guide us through understanding and overcoming the fear of rejection. Join us as Damon shares his profound insights on vulnerability, inner strength, and the importance of embracing rejection to grow personally and in relationships. Discover practical strategies to push through fear, reclaim your power, and build healthier connections. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, Damon's expertise offers invaluable perspectives for everyone. Tune in for an episode full of revelations, growth, and empowerment. It's Hot Boy Summer, and we're here to make it unforgettable! Our guest today is Damon L. Jacobs (he/him): a licensed therapist and author dedicated to helping individuals navigate mental health challenges and build fulfilling lives. Based in New York City, he is the author of two books titled, "" and "." He is best known for championing the use of pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) in The New York Times, USA Today, ABC News, MSNBC, NPR, and more. Visit Damon's website at DamonLJacobs.com and check out his series, "Tub Talks with Damon," on YouTube. IG: @damonljacobs. Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more!
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EP21: Match Maker Match Maker Make Me A Match
07/11/2024
EP21: Match Maker Match Maker Make Me A Match
As we dive headfirst into Hot Boy Summer, we're thrilled to have the expert guidance of Tammy Shaklee, founder and certified matchmaker at H4M Matchmakers, and a leading LGBTQ relationship expert. Join us as Tammy helps navigate the dating world, sharing her journey into matchmaking, and focusing on supporting the LGBTQ community. Discover common red flags people often overlook, learn why compatibility is key, and understand the benefits of a matchmaker versus using apps.With invaluable advice on first date mistakes and tips to ease dating anxiety, Tammy's expertise offers new perspectives for everyone—whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between. Tune in for an episode full of revelations, love, and passion. It's Hot Boy Summer, and we're here to make it unforgettable! Our guest today is Tammy Shaklee (she/her): a leading LGBTQ Relationship Expert and President of H4M Matchmaking, where she has successfully paired thousands of LGBTQ clients seeking long-term relationships since 2012. Based in Austin, Texas, Tammy uses her background in broadcast journalism to identify true compatibility and regularly contributes to LGBTQ media. Book a complimentary consultation with your certified matchmaker today, call: , IG: @h4mmatchmaking, Website: , Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more!
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EP20: Order Order in the Court of Love!
07/11/2024
EP20: Order Order in the Court of Love!
We sit down with the dynamic Attorney Symone Redwine, a powerful trial attorney, law professor, aspiring comedian, and legal commentator. Known for her blend of sharp legal acumen and bold Southern attitude, Symone shares her insights on the red flags people often ignore in legal disputes. From the necessity of prenups to the importance of background checks, Symone provides invaluable advice for navigating relationships and legal matters. She also opens up about the red flags she overlooked in her own life, offering lessons on self-awareness and understanding personal and partner capacities. Our guest today is Symone Redwine (she/her): a powerful trial attorney and law professor with beauty, brains, and a bold Southern attitude. A Cornell Law graduate, she's also a legal and social commentator, frequently appearing on TMZ, ABC News, FOX, and her YouTube channel "Girl, Is That Legal?" where she provides insightful and often humorous commentary on a range of issues from celebrity legal drama to relationship matters. Website: , IG: @attorneysymoneredwine We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP 19: Breaking Relationship H.A.B.I.T.T.'s & Tips for Trapping the Perfect Husband
06/06/2024
EP 19: Breaking Relationship H.A.B.I.T.T.'s & Tips for Trapping the Perfect Husband
Today we welcome the multi-talented Matt McConkey, actor, writer, and co-host of the "Homophilia" podcast and host of "Just Like Matt." We dive into a candid discussion about mental health, including James' recent breakthrough and recovery. Matt gives us his tips for breaking relationship patterns through his acrynom HABITT. Plus, Matt shares his journey to finding lasting love and offers tips for trapping the perfect husband! Our guest today is Matt McConkey (he/him): a TV writer and actor whose credits include KENAN and AMERICAN AUTO. He's also the host of the podcasts "And Just Like Matt" and "Homophilia" for World of Wonder. IG: @themattgrassi : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP18: What Do You do When You Hate Your Friends Boo?
05/23/2024
EP18: What Do You do When You Hate Your Friends Boo?
We're tackling a topic that's all too familiar: the delicate dance between our friends and our significant others. Join us as we dive deep into the murky waters of friend-partner compatibility. Why is it that sometimes the people we love most just can't seem to get along? Are there underlying tensions we're unaware of, or is it simply a clash of personalities? Is it possible to maintain harmony between our significant other and our friends, or are we doomed to forever play referee in our own lives? And who better to help us unravel these complexities than James' best friend/sista friend, Nnekay Fitz-Clarke, a returning guest, librarian, and all-around crafty woman, Nnekay shares her insights and experiences. Plus, we'll find out if there were any exes of James' where she saw the red flags and knew it wouldn't work out. Our guest today is Nnekay FitzClarke: former co-host and creator of Minority Korner Podcast, she is an all-star librarian, she calls herself an all-around sassy broad who likes to think she knows a thing or two. IG: @nnekay We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP17: Can The Stars Align for You?
05/09/2024
EP17: Can The Stars Align for You?
Join us on a celestial odyssey as we delve into the fascinating world of astrology with the brilliant astrostoryteller, Renee Nichols of Astrology by Renee. In this episode, we'll explore the profound impact of astrology on our romantic connections, uncovering red flags, and recurring patterns in past relationships. Ever wondered how astrology influences compatibility or conflict in relationships? Or how it can guide us through challenging times? Renee shares her journey into astrology and provides valuable insights for skeptics curious to explore its role in relationships. Get ready for a journey of love, self-discovery, and celestial wisdom as we uncover the mysteries of the cosmos together. Renee Nichols (she/her): is a silly, queer, poly, vegan, neurospicy, anticapitalist astro-storyteller in her final year of Astrology University's Professional Astrologer program. She uses astrology to help people better understand and accept themselves and step onto a path of greater authenticity and joy. You can find Renee online at and @astrologybyrenee on socials including instagram, tiktok, Facebook, and youtube. She offers 1:1 and couples counseling which you can schedule on her website, . We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP16: Red Flags in the Workplace: Signs Your Job is Toxic & It's Time To Leave!
04/27/2024
EP16: Red Flags in the Workplace: Signs Your Job is Toxic & It's Time To Leave!
Ever felt like your workplace is more of a battleground than a professional environment? Us too! Inspired by Nickelodeon's 'Quiet on Set' documentary, we're diving into workplace dynamics. From toxic environments to red flags, we're sharing experiences, discussing why we’ve stayed, and like any bad relationship, this signs it’s time to leave when that workplace is no longer serving you. With insights from experts and our guest, Mackenzie Green, we uncover signs of toxicity and the importance of a supportive workplace culture that fosters belonging, we explore what makes a workplace thrive. Tune in to learn how to recognize when it's time to walk away and find your green light in the workplace! Guest: Mackenzie Green (she/her):: Mackenzie is the Vice President of Social at Future Media, bringing over 12 years of social media and digital marketing experience with brands like Betches, Telemundo, and BET+. She holds degrees from the University of Miami and Columbia Business School. Mackenzie is actively involved in philanthropy, serving on the US board for the Shoebox Project and the board of the Girls Scouts of Greater Los Angeles. She's also a co-host on The Taylor Strecker Show and hosts The LA Comic Con Podcast. Mackenzie is a proud blerd, marathon runner, dog mom, and memory athlete We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: SOCIAL MEDIA: IG - @MissUSAtoMBA, TIK TOK: x : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP15: Red Flags & Resumes: Are Some Professions a Recipe for Relationship Disaster?
04/11/2024
EP15: Red Flags & Resumes: Are Some Professions a Recipe for Relationship Disaster?
What are the worst professions to date? Brace yourselves as we spill the tea on which careers have us expertly dodging red flags left, right, and center. Curious about the link between career choices and relationship success? Prepare to have your questions answered as we dive deep, shedding light on our own experiences, as well as the data, uncovering the professions with the highest divorce rates and unveiling the hidden warning signs you might encounter along the dating journey. We're not here to bash anyone's job title just here to shed light on the potential pitfalls and empower you to navigate the dating scene with confidence and grace! Plus we get honest- were there times when the red flag was US? And everyone talks about setting boundaries- but how do you do it!?!? Guest: Rene Colvert (she/her):: powerhouse in the world of entertainment, having created shows for some of the biggest platforms including Amazon Studios, Disney +, Headspace, iHeartMedia, Imagine Entertainment, Moonbug Entertainment, SiriusXM, Spotify, and World of Wonder. With a passion for joyful inclusion, Rene brings her unique energy and perspective to every project she touches. For seven years, Rene hosted “Can I Pet Your Dog” podcast, capturing the hearts of listeners with her infectious enthusiasm and unwavering love for our furry friends. A true dog lover at heart, Rene's motto is simple: if she sees a dog, she's going to pet it. And don't underestimate her—she's pretty sure she can run faster scared than you can mad. We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod Email: redflagseverywherepodcast@gmail.com TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP14: From Red Flags to Roses:: She Found Love In A Bachelor Place w/Tessa Tookes
03/21/2024
EP14: From Red Flags to Roses:: She Found Love In A Bachelor Place w/Tessa Tookes
Our special guest, from Bachelor Nation, is non other than Tessa Tookes, here for an an eye-opening discussion packed with love, resilience, and the pursuit of authenticity in the midst of fame and challenges! Join us as Tessa, known for her journey on Season 26 of The Bachelor and Season 2 of Canada’s Bachelor in Paradise, shares candid insights into the rollercoaster ride of searching for love on reality TV. In this heartfelt conversation, Tessa dives into the highs and lows of being a hopeful romantic in the spotlight, especially as a Black woman, and the invaluable lessons she's gleaned along the way, finding her own truth, identity, and power. Discover Tessa's reflections on self-discovery, navigating relationships across different backgrounds, and the profound significance of allyship in love. We delve into her powerful experience confronting systemic racism, including a poignant moment during wedding dress shopping, and the unwavering support of her fiancé that affirmed their bond. Get ready for an an episode that is sure to inspire, uplift, and ignite your passion for real, unfiltered conversations about love and identity. Guest:Tessa Tookes (she/her) is a beloved figure from Bachelor Nation, known for her appearances on The Bachelor and Canada's Bachelor in Paradise. She's also an HR professional with a passion for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) initiatives, and a model showcasing versatility and charisma. IG: @tessa.tookes We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP13: It's Either a 'Hell YES!' or a 'Hell NO!'
02/22/2024
EP13: It's Either a 'Hell YES!' or a 'Hell NO!'
Should you get back together with your ex? Have you ever been petty during a breakup? Is your partner a black hole or a binary star? How do you know when to leave? What do you do if your friends boo is cheating on them? We answer all these questions and more with comedian Glorelys Mora fresh out of a three year situationship and has some learning lessons and wisdom to part on to you all! She ultimately walked away from something that was not serving her, but depleting her, and what happened after she put herself first! We chat about why emotional intimacy is more vulnerable than physical intimacy and should be proceeded with caution. Inspired by JLO’s new... art project- we talk about- if you get back together with your ex what the data shows of how often folks do this, and the rate at which they stay together. Guest: Glorelys Mora (she/her) - stand-up comic, actor, writer, & tia. She's been featured on Netflix is a Joke, Audible's ‘Michelle Rojas is Not Okay.’ Social Media: @glorelysmora. on percentage of people who get back together with their ex (from helloprenup.com) We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP12: It Was the Best of Valentine's, It Was the Worst of Valentine's...
02/15/2024
EP12: It Was the Best of Valentine's, It Was the Worst of Valentine's...
It’s our Valentine’s Day episode and we have actor and social media's Earl of Dad Jokes Lucas Alifano to help us through! Have you ever had a good Valentine’s Day? A bad one? We talk about some of our best and worst. We continue talking about: is it possible to be friends with your ex? How does forgiveness come into play? We unpack and get to the root of how in some relationships we lose ourselves in our relationships. Lucas provides James with some dating truth bombs that blow his mind and reframe his approach and way of thinking- and how relationships should enhance our lives. You'll also hear how Lucas was there at ground zero for one of James' breakups and how he helped him through it. Plus we discuss our favorite romantic movies, and just why we love being single! Guest: Lucas Alifano (he/him) - is a performer/singer based out of Los Angeles. He loves a good joke and spreading giggles. Social Media: @earlofdadjokes across all platforms. We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP11: How to Stop Being A Member of the Sucker Club
02/08/2024
EP11: How to Stop Being A Member of the Sucker Club
It’s time to let our light shine today, and to help us do that it’s life coach and podcast host of Shine on, Sista Jennifer Covington! Jen is a rarity in that she was able to make her long distance relationship work! She shares her journey, and how she had to put herself first. She lays down some important questions you have to ask yourself when in a relationship, and if you’re not sure if you should continue being in one. What are willing to tolerate? She also breaks down the difference between ‘slow fade/fade to black’ and ghosting- which- if any of these, is best? Get ready to walk away feeling empowered as you navigate through relationships as Jen unpacks the lessons she had to learn and how she was finally able to resign as Presdient and member of ‘The Sucker Club’. Guest: Jennifer Covington (she/her) - she's is a certified life coach, business strategist and an internationally recognized motivational speaker who helps ambitious, heart-centered soul sisters (and brothers) reach their highest potential by shining their light, turning their passion into profit and going after their dreams every day. She’s been featured in several popular publications such as Wild Sister Magazine, Thrive Global and the Huffington Post. On her podcast Shine on, Sista! you’ll get your weekly dose of motivation, practical strategies and inspiring stories from people who are truly making their dreams come true. She tackles business, metaphysics, spirituality, productivity, profitability, creativity, happiness, travel, success, love, health and social impact. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll get fired up and will be ready to shine on! Website: , IG: @therealjcov We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP10: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?
02/01/2024
EP10: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?
Today we answer the question: can you be friends with your ex? To help answer that question we bring on one of James' ex's, Paul Chapple. We've talked about him on the show before and now you'll hear his side- as there's always two sides to every story. James and Paul unpack their relationship, taking us through how it all began, the highs, the lows, the challenges, how it ended, and ultimately how they were able to find themselves back together again in a really strong friendship. Buckle up for an open, honest, and fun conversation of two lovers, turned ex's, turned friends. Guest: Paul Chapple (he/him) - Head of Shore Excursions, Land Product Development & Operations. A certified data scientist with over 15+ years of experience in leading successful cruise lines. And former boyfriend to host James Arthur M. We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP9: Relationships Are Like a Democracy
01/25/2024
EP9: Relationships Are Like a Democracy
As we head into an election year we got a listener question that asks is it even possible to date someone of a different political ideology in today’s climate? What’s the best approach in asking someone’s political affiliation? Does it matter? Well to help answer that we have political news junkie Ben Randle who we've dubbed our political analyst, to help us answer and dive into that question. We also explore how to navigate dating and hanging out your friends in the same space - it can sometimes be awkward, and anxiety enducing. We also explore the importance of knowing our values, how relationships have either brought out the best or worst in us, and Ben explains how how relationships are like a democracy. Our guest today is Ben Villegas Randle: a New York City theater director, and political enthusiast and news junkie who knows how to explain the most complex political situations and make it digestable for the every day person. IG: benvrdirects We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP8: Setting Up Your Dating Profile for Success!
01/18/2024
EP8: Setting Up Your Dating Profile for Success!
She’s Back by popular demand! You know her you love her, it’s Nnekay Fitzclarke form our first episode, my former co-host of MInority Korner and a current librarian/dating profile setup pro- here to give us some tips for setting up our dating profiles- new year new us, new profile- and she has the credentials as an expert profile builder. She not only met her husband who she’s been with for over 13 years on an online dating site, she’s helped set up her friends, has been given elite status, and has been in the trenches that can be online/app dating, and has some wild stories of how she made it through. Also we look to some other experts who have some profile tips as well. You'll learn how if you stay ready you never have to get ready, as you might even find your next date on Yelp! Our guest today is Nnekay FitzClarke: former co-host and creator of Minority Korner Podcast, she is an all-star librarian, she calls herself an all-around sassy broad who likes to think she knows a thing or two. IG: @nnekay Articles Refrenced: We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP7: Stop Dating The Same Idiot!
01/11/2024
EP7: Stop Dating The Same Idiot!
We’ve got Biz Ellis from the podcast One Bad Mother for a very open and honest episode that dives deep into how we get ourselves out of those bad relationship patterns! Biz talks about how she broke out of, in her words, “dating the same idiot,”. What she had to learn, and do to heal from some of the treatment she’d experienced in the past from people she was dating, being cheated on, sexually abused, people with addiction, and how she stopped settling. We also talk about the simple yet meaningful "aha" green flags she discovered she was looking for when she met her now husband of 17 years. Also we uncover how life is sometimes like a gay porn. Biz also helps to answer our listener question about what do we do when our kids want to start dating and help them not experience the same shit we went through. Mentions of Sexual Abuse Time Stamp: 11:00 - 11:20, and 57:15 - 59:05 Our Guest for this show is Biz Ellis (she/her): Biz is the creator and host of the comedy podcast about parenting, , which is entering its 12th year. She also volunteers at the Pasadena Humane Society and is very good at jigsaw puzzles. Seriously, it is a special gift. We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) Closing Music - Manny Balthazar (he/him)
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EP5: How Trauma Impacts Our Relationships
01/11/2024
EP5: How Trauma Impacts Our Relationships
Get ready to experience a metamorphosis through your trauma! Just in time for the festive season! Today we have licensed Marriage and Family therapist and HIV Prevention specialist, and author, and host of TubTalks Damon L. Jacobs to help us navigate how past trauma impacts our relationships. We talk about little 't' trauma and big 'T' trauma, and some ways that when we examine and heal from these as they occur, they can show up in our relationships, as well as in our partners. We also explore Ghosting! Getting ghosted, what is going on when this is happening, how to have compassion for those who we feel have wronged us, taking back our own agency, and how that inner love and energy has to come from within. This episode does address issues around abuse, and sexual violence, so if these are topics that might be triggering for you, please take care of yourself as you listen. Mentions of Sexual Abuse Time Stamp: 41:51 - 49:00 Our Guest for this show is Damon L. Jacobs (he/him): a New York-based Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and HIV prevention specialist who focuses his work on sexual health, polyamory, and harm-reduction. He is the author of two books titled, "" and "." He is best known for championing the use of pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) in The New York Times, USA Today, ABC News, MSNBC, NPR, and more. He was honored to receive a Commissioner Special Recognition Award for his work through the New York State Department of Health in 2016." IG: @damonljacobs Tub Talks on YouTube: Blog: We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him)
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EP6: New Year, New Us! Sneaking into 2024
01/04/2024
EP6: New Year, New Us! Sneaking into 2024
New Year, new US, time for us to explore our new rules for 2024! We've got Sarah Brown our editor and producer is hoping out from behind the scenes to in front of the mic as we explore what 2023 has taught us about relationships, ourselves, what we’re leaving behind in 2024, and what commitments are we making to ourselves, and dating, as we move into 2024. Learn how the acrynom I.M.P.R.O.V.E. can be a useful tool to help you regulate your emotions, and be your best self. We've got tactical guidance, tactics, and wisdom for ya as we sneak into 2024! We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty
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EP3: Your Smartphone Addiction is Ruining Your Love Life
12/21/2023
EP3: Your Smartphone Addiction is Ruining Your Love Life
How addicted to your smartphone are you? Chances are if you have one, you have some level of reliance, dependence, or addiction to this device and it's having a great effect on your relationships and you may not even notice! But it's not your fault! We examine just how rampant smartphone addiction is, and spring boarding off of last week's episode, how your attachment style may impact your usage and dependence on your phone. We look at addiction as a coping strategy, and examine dating app culture. Don't worry we've got some tips and strategies to help you curb your smart phone addiction so you can have deeper, more meaningful relationships with others, and yourself. Plus how the acronym A.R.E. can give you the imperative three sets of questions checklist to see if your partner can create that safe space you need. Our Guest for this show is Shannon Algeo (he/him): MA, AMFT, APCC, is a psychotherapist, public speaker, author of Trust Your Truth, and meditation teacher. He is known by millions of people around the world for sharing his life experiences in ways that land in the hearts, minds, and bodies of individuals who are seeking to learn, grow, deepen, and heal. Host/creator of the popular Soul Feed podcast interviwing iconic cultural and spiritual leaders like Deepak Chopra, and Marianne Williamson. Was named one of the “35 Under 35 in Wellness to Watch” by Wanderlust. Website: IG: @shannon.algeo, TikTok: @shannon.algeo Get Shannon's Book Trust Your Truth: We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him)
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EP4: Am I The Villain?
12/14/2023
EP4: Am I The Villain?
In this episode we take an honest look at ourselves and maybe some things we’ve done in past in relationships that, looking back, we're not proud of, asking ourselves: were we the villain? We’re talking about some of the worst breakups we’ve been the cause of, as well as what red flags would our ex’s would share about us? What's worst breaking up with someone on Christmas or New Years Eve? Is there a best time to break up with someone? We explore questions around monogamy, along with some of our other sexcapdes, in our sexiest episode to-date! Also we've got a listener question about what to do when your ex reaches back out? Our Guest for this show is jarrett hill (he/him): he's an award-winning journalist, professor, and artist who’s contributed to The New York Times, Variety, NBC News, CNN International, and Channel Q, among others. He’s serving his second term as President of the National Association of Black Journalists’ of Los Angeles (NABJLA). jarrett is the founder of trblmkng., encompassing his work as a creative artist with writing, interior design, speaking & hosting, media training and consulting. hill is also an adjunct professor at the University of Southern California’s Annenberg School of Communication and Journalism. He is also the co-host of FANTI with Tre’vell Anderson, one of Apple Podcasts’ “Best of 2020.” The pair is co-authoring “Historically Black Phrases,” for Ten Speed Press at Penguin Random House, due out September 19, 2023! Follow on social IG & X: @jarretthill, TikTok: @jarrett.hill Check out his book We want to hear from you! Need some advice? Got a question? Want to join in on the conversation? Hit us up: : @redflagseverywherepod : TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Group: Checkout video clips on YouTube: SUPPORT THE SHOW: We can't do the show without your support! Become a member, at a level that works for you, and get access to bonus content, features, and other cool goodies for supporting the content you love. Click to find out more! Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) Closing Music - Manny Bathalzar (he/him)
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