Ep 63: The $300K Mistake That Taught Me the Value of Health Over Wealth
Release Date: 06/10/2025
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From dealing with a rare epilepsy diagnosis to losing almost all our possessions and scrambling to relocate again, this episode is a raw, transparent look at how fast life can shift. More importantly, I talk about the mindset and financial preparation that allowed us to move quickly and decisively—and how this experience completely redefined my understanding of wealth.
Timeline Summary
[0:00] - Why our dream home nearly destroyed our health and finances
[1:10] - Our daughter’s diagnosis with Dravet syndrome
[1:54] - Relocating to Texas for expert care and a miraculous 8-month stretch
[2:50] - Seizures return, triggering deeper investigation
[4:07] - Blood and urine tests reveal shocking mold exposure
[5:56] - Emergency travel to Iowa for treatment amid chaos
[7:19] - Realizing we had to abandon our home and everything in it
[8:52] - Financial pressure mounts as we scramble to protect our daughter
[10:00] - How years of financial planning helped us weather the storm
[14:04] - Losing 99% of our belongings due to contamination
[15:12] - The breakdown of the $300K cost: housing, health, and recovery
[16:46] - What money can’t fix—and what really matters
[18:46] - How this crisis reshaped my perspective on wealth
[20:25] - Preventative measures we’ve taken to safeguard our new home
[21:37] - What are you putting off that’s costing you peace of mind?
Key Takeaways
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Prepare financially for the unexpected. You never know when a crisis will hit. Building financial flexibility gave us the ability to make life-saving decisions without hesitation.
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Health is the real wealth. No amount of money is worth more than your family’s well-being. Prioritize health investments now before you’re forced to later.
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Don’t wait for crisis to force change. If something is causing you low-grade stress or health concerns today, deal with it now—because the cost of waiting can be far greater.
Links & Resources
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Infinity Wellness Clinic (Josh, Iowa location)
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Dravet Syndrome Foundation: dravetfoundation.org
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Home air quality resources: AirDoctor, dehumidifiers, air scrubbers
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