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EP 15 Prenups Aren’t Just for the Rich: Deveney Talks Divorce, Protection & Female Empowerment

Release Date: 03/26/2025

EP 32 Rest Is Not Lazy: Healing Your Relationship With Rest

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Most of us say we want rest. But when it finally arrives, the guilt shows up with it. The to-do list surfaces. The body sits still while the mind keeps running. In this episode, Arlene and Valerie get honest about something that does not get talked about enough: the issue is often not that we do not have rest. It is that we do not know how to receive it. They trace this back to where it started — generational modeling, families in constant motion, the conditioning that productivity is worth and stillness is laziness. They talk about what rest actually looks like beyond sleep, why nature is...

EP 31 Fear Gates in Human Design: Understanding the Splenic Center and Your Intuition

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There are fears you've carried for so long that they've started to feel like personality traits. The fear of failing before you even begin. The fear of the future you can't control. The fear of endings and all the grief that comes with letting something go. In this episode, Arlene and Valerie pull back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood centers in Human Design — the Splenic Center — and reveal something that might just reframe the way you understand every fear you've ever had. What This Episode Explores The Splenic Center is one of the oldest energy centers in Human Design. It...

EP 30 Being a Latina Entrepreneur in 2026: Navigating Fear, DEI Rollbacks, and Building Business During Political Uncertainty

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Some conversations don't have a tidy ending, and this is one of them. Arlene and Valerie sit down for one of their most honest episodes yet, naming what it actually feels like to be a Latina entrepreneur in the US right now, when political pressure is heavy, DEI funding is disappearing, and most of us are trying to build something meaningful while carrying all of it in the background. They move from the emotional to the practical. Grief, ancestral fear, the tightness in the chest that comes from watching the news. And then: how to protect your business, own your audience, use your voice, and...

EP 29 Human Design Gates Astrology- Unlock Your Life Purpose

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Ever wonder why astrology and Human Design are like besties? In this episode, Arlene and Valerie break down how your sun gate your spiritual blueprint connects to your zodiac sign, and why this combo changes everything. Discover how to decode your energy, move beyond surface-level readings, and truly embody who you really are. Learn about gates, authorities, fear patterns, and how to work with your design instead of against it. Perfect for anyone curious about their chart but feeling overwhelmed. Grab your birth time, location, and birthday—we're diving deep into the Akashic records of...

EP 28 Part 2- 2026 Business StrategySystems AI Contracts for Founders

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If Episode 27 was the reflection, this is the execution. In this follow-up episode of Espiritu Coffee Chats, we turn founder lessons into real systems for small business growth in 2026. This conversation is for women in business and Latina entrepreneurs who are ready to: • Implement operational systems • Use AI strategically (without losing their voice) • Build contracts that protect growth • Structure decision-making frameworks • Align embodiment with leadership We break down practical business strategy for 2026 — from backend systems to founder discipline — so you can scale...

EP 27 Latina Founder Lessons from 2025- Data Boundaries Intuition

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If you're a Latina entrepreneur or woman founder navigating growth, 2025 likely changed you. In this episode of Espiritu Coffee Chats, we break down the real founder lessons from 2025 — the data we ignored, the intuition we overrode, the systems we delayed building, and the boundaries we finally learned to hold. This is a behind-the-scenes conversation about what it actually takes to grow a small business as a woman in business balancing vision, spirituality, leadership, and strategy. We talk about: • Founder decision fatigue • When intuition beats analytics — and when it doesn’t •...

EP 26 How to Build a Personal Brand Rooted in Confidence, Clarity & Courage

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From ESL Teacher to Empowered Brand Photographer: Carina Flechner on Confidence, Visibility & Building a Purpose-Driven Business In this inspiring episode, we sit down with San Diego-based personal branding photographer and empowerment coach, Carina Fleckner, to explore her powerful journey from a 23-year career in education to capturing the true essence of women through branding photography. Carina shares how live music, a secondhand camera, and a desire for purpose-led work ignited her pivot into personal brand photography, and how she now helps women step into their power, reclaim their...

EP 25 Love & Legacy: Building a Business with Your Partner (Without Breaking Up)

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Love, Money & Legacy: Chris on Balancing Business, Creative Purpose & the Future of Finance In this refreshing episode of Espiritu Coffee Chats, we sit down with Chris, co-founder of Surje Coffee and Valerie’s partner, for a soulful and smart conversation on navigating love, business, and the evolving economy. Chris is the first masculine energy to grace the podcast, bringing grounded wisdom, intuitive financial literacy, and a unique blend of creativity and discipline. From how to survive building a business with your fiancé to why everyone needs a "tripod life" (doing what you...

EP 24 From Fear to Financial Flow: : Rethinking Money, Bitcoin & A Real Talk About Money

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In this episode of Espiritu Coffee Chats, Valerie sits down with her fiancé and business partner, Christopher Yian, to unpack one big question: what does it mean to make money human again? Chris opens up about his 10-year college journey, his learning with Bitcoin and financial freedom, and how he turned a traditional Environmental Health & Safety career into a path of entrepreneurship, curiosity, and purpose. Together, they explore the deeper layers of money, mindset, and meaning—how our relationship with wealth can shift from stress and survival into sovereignty and empowerment....

EP 23 Ayahuasca Round 2- Ancestral Healing Quantum Lessons Radical Acceptance

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In this powerful episode of Espiritu Coffee Chats, Arlene and Valerie share their most recent ayahuasca experiences—Arlene’s third journey and Valerie’s fourth. Together, they open up about the sacred healing, grief release, ancestral wisdom, and spiritual downloads they received while working with a male shaman for the first time. From navigating ancestral lineage grief, radical acceptance, and Reiki self-healing to visions of Egyptian goddess energy, light codes, and even conversations with beloved pets who’ve passed on—this episode dives deep into the transformational power of...

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Ep 15: Prenups Aren’t Just for the Rich – Deveney Talks Divorce, Protection & Female Empowerment

In this powerful episode, we welcome our very first guest, Devonay from Wells Gibson Family Law and founder of Prenup Queen. Devonay opens up about her journey into family law, inspired by her own experiences growing up amid her parents' divorce, and how it fuels her passion for advocating for women and children during some of life’s toughest transitions.

Together, we dive deep into the myths and truths behind prenups and postnups, and why these tools are not just for the wealthy, but essential for anyone who wants to protect their assets and secure their future. Devonay breaks down how proactive financial conversations can actually build stronger, healthier relationships and reduce divorce rates.

✨ This episode is for you if:

You’re a woman curious about protecting your finances before or during marriage.
You’re navigating divorce or planning to marry and want to understand your legal rights.
You’re seeking empowerment through financial literacy and legal tools.

🎧 What you’ll learn:

What prenups and postnups really are—and how they can serve you.
The emotional and financial consequences of divorce (and how to be prepared).
How Devonay is redefining family law with community, education, and empowerment.

❓ We’ll answer questions like:

How do prenups actually work and who should consider them?
Can prenups and postnups really strengthen a relationship?
What common mistakes do people make when entering a marriage financially unprepared?
How is Devonay shifting the outdated narrative around attorneys and family law?

Get ready to sip on some truth and wisdom with us!

About our guest: Deveney Gibson is a California family law attorney focusing primarily on divorce and prenuptial agreements. She has been working in the legal field for 7 years and has been an attorney for 4 of those years. Deveney owns her own law firm, Wells-Gibson Family Law, APC, in Mission Valley. Her favorite work passion is working on her brands, The Prenup Queen and Love Meets Wealth, which were created to help strengthen marriages and lower divorce rates.

Website: www.wellsgibsonfamilylaw.com // www.theprenupqueen.com

Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/theprenupqueen/

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