Episode 43: Sexual desire: how to cultivate in long-term relationships & why we do silent days
Release Date: 02/27/2024
72. Honoring the Goddess & reclaiming Her from the New Age
Body-Led Business
Just like major religions have sought to erase the Goddess, the New Age has attempted to trivialize & commodify her. I've been hiding in the closet about the relationship with the Goddess which was born through deep inquiry, mystical experiences, and the process of writing my book. Through devoting my heart to the Goddess, she guided me to go beyond surface-level connections with the feminine. She invited me to embody somatic work, deepening every part of my life—from my relationships, spirituality, and service to how I scale my coaching business through the lenses of feminine...
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71. How Your Business Initiates You Into the Woman You’re Meant to Be
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How is your business trying to initiate you? ❤️🔥PS, don't forget to the waitlist for → a 1-week somatic retreat into the holy void – let the old die, welcome the renewal & embody your new identity Over the last few weeks, I’ve been in a holy void. I had to slow down, pause, and descend into the underworld. This is the space where identity is shed, shadows are faced, until a new identity is ready to emerge. Your conscious business is a vessel through which you’re meant to experience some of the biggest breakthroughs of your entire life. Every challenge in your...
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70. Why your nervous system doesn’t feel safe with ease & spaciousness (and how to change that)
Body-Led Business
We've all seen it: many coaching programs these days promise "ease," yet few incorporate somatic work, nervous system support, and a truly body-led business approach. Yet what does ease really mean when our bodies and nervous systems are not prepared to receive it? If the cost of success is our nervous system health, peace of mind, quality of relationships, sexual polarity, and the freedom to spend time with loved ones, is this the cost you want to take? Nourished and feminine leadership prioritizes success that comes with aliveness, love, spaciousness and peace. And somatic work...
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69. Pleasure for feminine-led business, life & love
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[] We've all heard it: "gotta work hard in order to deserve pleasure". But we've got this completely upside down. What the female body needs is pleasure before productivity. The truth is, by the time we’re done with work at the end of the day, many of us find we don’t have the nervous system capacity to give our best energy to our partner, family and community. But what if you could feel alive and nourished before starting your work? What if you start treating pleasure not only as a reward, but a necessity? What if you ended your work day still feeling open, relaxed,...
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68. 5 keys to connect with the wisdom of your body & live an embodied life
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Shownotes You've probably heard phrases like "listen to your body" or "drop into your body" and wondered—what does that really mean? How do you actually hear the wisdom of my body? It's one thing to hear the wisdom of your body. It's quite something else to live in alignment with the wisdom of the body. When you begin connecting with your body's wisdom and live in attunement to it, a whole new world opens up. And this will be extremely inconvenient. The identities, beliefs and patterns that you've been trying to uphold begin to shift. For example, feeling exhausted but you want...
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Body-Led Business
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66. Calibrating to a new level of success & becoming the woman you're meant to be.
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Any time I sense I'm about to enter a new chapter in my life, I always ask myself: who do I need to become as a woman, leader and create to enter this new era? [PS, remember to sign up for my free live retreat to grow your business to consistent 5k months, attract more empowered clients, and go all in with your business] This is so much deeper than business strategy and the actions I take. It is who I am being and who I am choosing to BECOME. For example, this year I'm intentionally calibrating to a reality–at the level of my nervous system–where I'm exploring my edges of...
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65. Here's exactly how to have consistent 10k months
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Imagine what it would feel like to start each month without the constant pressure to launch something new or figure out how to make money…because you know that there's abundant revenue coming in for the next 3, 6, even 12 months? That's the beauty of monthly recurring revenue. Now imagine what it would feel like to receive consistent 10k months? Here's why we love the security of consistent, luscious revenue It helps you access a new level of mental and emotional spaciousness–you have the space to hire the best support (from mentors to team, from doing more self-more to getting...
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64. Can you truly have it all: be a badass CEO & a devoted wife?
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What does it really take to hold both: being a badass CEO leading a successful company AND being a devoted, feminine partner? This is one of the hottest conversations I'm having behind the scenes with many of my clients who come to work with me not just for business success, clients, and MRR, but also for growing their business in such a way that leaves them feeling spacious and nourished. So that they could prioritise love, family, sexuality, and their femininity. I'll be very honest here: scaling my business while cultivating my sacred sexuality has not always been easy....
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63. Identity work to scale your business & enter a new level of success, wealth & ease
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info_outlineImagine a couple sleeping apart. Not touching. Not even talking! You'd imagine that they're fighting right? Well, that's what we do in our relationship two days per week.
Igniting sexual desire in long-term partnership is one of the biggest mysteries for modern couples, especially when they're not only sharing a household together but also working from home. You know how easy it is to get lost in logistics, casual touch, just hanging out together, small talk etc.
One of our core values as a couple is to cultivate deep sexual chemistry, sacred sexuality being a core pillar of our relationship. Contrary to popular belief, sometimes desire needs not only more quality time together.. But also SPACE.
Silent days help us create that space which beautifully resets our relationship.
This means that we don’t engage in verbal communication for a couple of days and usually sleep apart that night too. If we need to arrange things, we’ll text each other or “talk” on the notes app. We will not touch each other either, but will make playful sounds, flirt and make "air kisses" ;)
One of the biggest lies we have been fed is that sexual chemistry is meant to wane away and it is the ill fate of all long-term couples to eventually end up as roommates. The truth is, sexual desire will decrease if you do not cultivate it intentionally.
SEXUAL DESIRE IS A CHOICE.
If you're devoted to increasing your libido and sexual polarity in your intimate life, this episode will give you lots of epic, creative ideas that go beyond your usual advice on "spending more quality time together".
HIGHLIGHTS
- How intentional separation contributes to a deeper level of intimacy and passion in relationships.
- Physical closeness doesn't necessarily equate to intimacy.
- Through sounds, movement, and touch, we can discover new dimensions of connection
- How to navigate practical and logistical barriers to intimacy