Episode 47: Stop obsessing over external metrics. Do this instead.
Release Date: 03/26/2024
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info_outline"Aurika, I feel so free! I'm inspired again to create content!", a client of mine told me after she stopped looking at…her story views.
I can't count how many clients have come to me with faces of huge relief after… they stopped looking at their story views and obsessing with external metrics in general.
Many creators do not even realize how they are contorting themselves and stiffening their creativity just to increase their external metrics: story views, likes, number of clients, followers, revenue generated.
They do not even realize how these external metrics are leaking their energy until they stop attaching their worth to it.
Creating something just with the purpose of increasing your metrics will dry out your magic, magic and spontaneity.
On the other hand, there is a massive sense of relief and liberation when you return to a place of service, devotion, and artistry. Then, all the external metrics just naturally expand because you are living in your alignment.
As a leader, protecting your energetic alignment and sourcing your validation internally is e v e r y t h i n g. Creating content from such a place is naturally magnetic.
In this podcast episode, I am sharing 5 potent ways to take your power back from external metrics and cut through the noise online through your natural, authentic leadership.
HIGHLIGHTS
- Story how I recently caught myself worrying about external metrics
- Healthy tracking of business data vs outsourcing power to metrics
- Why obsessing with story views kills creativity
- Protecting your alignment will naturally increase your metrics
- 5 tips to take your power back from external metrics
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