S4E27: Complacency or Commitment: The Choice That Defines Ivy+ Outcomes
Admittedly: College Admissions with Thomas Caleel
Release Date: 09/09/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of The Admittedly Podcast, host Thomas Caleel takes on a recurring theme in his conversations with students and families: complacency. For those aiming at Ivy+ and other highly selective schools, “coasting” is a red flag.
Thomas unpacks why admissions officers notice when students take their foot off the gas, how drifting summers and watered-down academics hurt an application, and the difference between burnout, changing direction, and simply checking out. He also explains what top schools actually want to see: consistency, curiosity, and commitment to meaningful growth.
Key Takeaways:
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Why admissions officers notice when you take your foot off the gas
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How summers, academics, and extracurriculars reveal your engagement (or lack of it)
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How to prune activities, focus your time, and avoid becoming one-dimensional
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What Ivy League and highly selective schools really want to see in your application
You don’t need to do everything. But you can’t afford to coast.
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