From Surviving to Self-Worth — Rayven Veritas on Unmasking Abuse and Reclaiming Power
Release Date: 10/15/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of "Brave Hearts Speak", host Lucia Severtson interviews Rayven Veritas, a survivor and author of Psychopaths or Sexy?. Rayven shares her journey from childhood insecurities and family challenges to surviving emotional, psychological, sexual, and financial abuse in a relationship. She discusses the complexities of recognizing abuse, the impact of military spouse culture, and her path to healing and self-worth. Through poetry, reflection, and honest conversation, Rayven offers hope, insight, and practical advice for survivors, emphasizing the importance of agency, self-compassion, and reclaiming one’s identity after trauma.
Timestamps
Rayven’s Early Life & Insecurity (00:03:47) Rayven shares about her childhood insecurities, bullying, and family dynamics that shaped her self-worth.
Impact of Bullying and Family Dynamics (00:06:18) Rayven reflects on how bullying and family treatment led to deep insecurity and withdrawal from social activities.
Caretaking and Emotional Responsibility (00:15:33) Rayven describes feeling responsible for managing her partner’s emotions and the exhaustion of “walking on eggshells.”
Recognizing Abuse: Emotional, Sexual, Financial (00:21:35) Rayven discusses the difficulty of recognizing non-physical abuse, including sexual coercion and financial control.
Military Spouse Culture & Isolation (00:25:25) Rayven talks about the expectations and stigma of being a military spouse and the resulting isolation.
Deciding to Leave: The Breaking Point (00:35:50) Rayven explains the factors that led her to leave, including the discard phase and recognizing calculated abuse.
Book Writing: Psychopaths or Sexy? (00:51:27) Rayven introduces her book, its structure, and how it explores grooming, awakening, and transformation.
Defining “Good” and Setting New Standards (00:55:31) Rayven shares how she learned to define healthy relationships, the role of therapy, and actionable healing.
Final Reflections on Bravery and Choice (00:58:24) Rayven and Lucia discuss the importance of bravery, the power of even a small belief in change, and advice for survivors.
Powerful Quotes from the Episode
Rayven, 'I was always wearing a mask that everything was great, but in reality, I’d be crying myself to sleep all the time.'
Rayven, 'You keep coming back for more because when it’s good, it’s incredible.'
Rayven, 'I didn’t have my own accounts, and it was excusable for so long until I realized I couldn’t even afford to leave.'
Rayven, 'The silent treatment was really hard for me because all I wanted was emotional connection and understanding.'
Rayven, 'I took away any comfort because I wanted to face it all, and that was so challenging.'
Rayven, 'You don’t become more worthy by allowing people to exploit you.'
Rayven, '00:51:02', 'Worth is not measured by how much you can sacrifice at your own detriment.'
Rayven, '00:56:04', 'Fear and love are not intertwined, and that was a huge perspective shift for me.'
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