Could you be the problem ? Spotting Toxic Traits in Yourself at Work
Release Date: 06/19/2025
GBVF in South Africa: A Crisis We Can’t Ignore
An Extraordinary Take
South Africa is often called the rape capital of the world, and the numbers are devastating: 15 women are murdered every day, and 117 rapes are reported daily; with thousands more going unreported. Gender-Based Violence and Femicide (GBVF) is not just a crisis; it’s a national emergency. In this episode of An Extraordinary Take, host Sibonisile Cossa sits down with Cameron Kasambala, spokesperson for Women For Change, the organisation behind the G20 Women’s Shutdown campaign. This bold movement calls for GBVF to be declared a national disaster, unlocking urgent government intervention and...
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You're Never Too Old For Childlike Faith
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This week’s episode is more of a story time where we journey through the miraculous and the mysterious, these are moments where faith met the supernatural and the impossible became reality. You know those moments where every plan you had has gone out the window and you have nothing new up your sleeve; but how just when you were about to lose hope, things come together and work out even better than you had hoped or expected. I call these moments in my life my Faith Chronicles, the moments where I knew for certain that God really exists and is For Me. It’s my faith chronicles that allowed my...
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Are You Being Humble Or Just Bracing Yourself For Failure?
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Did you know that research shows people often prefer complainers over those who speak positively about their lives? It’s a surprising truth that reveals how deeply our culture discourages self-celebration, especially for women. In this episode, we challenge the idea that humility means shrinking yourself. We explore how being too humble might actually be holding you back from the success, joy, and opportunities you deserve. If you’ve ever downplayed your achievements to seem more relatable or avoid being labeled as “braggy,” this conversation is for you. We dive into: Why redefining...
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How to Say No: The Black Tax Survival Guide
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Remember that episode about family members who only call when they need something? Well, Part 2 is here, and it’s deeper, bolder, and more necessary than ever. This time, we’re joined by Phumza Chuene, a Black Tax Coach and author of The Black Tax Survival Guide, a powerful guide that’s helping Black professionals across South Africa and beyond reclaim their financial and emotional autonomy. In this episode, Phumza unpacks the cultural weight of Black Tax, the silent guilt that often accompanies success, and the emotional toll of being the “go-to” in your family. But this isn’t...
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More Than a Provider: Reimagining Black Fatherhood with Mutle Mothibe
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In this powerful and heartfelt episode, acclaimed poet and writer Mutle Mothibe, a father of three, joins us for an intimate conversation about the evolving role of Black fathers in the household. We explore the profound distinction between being a father and being a dad, and how intentional parenting can foster lifelong friendships between fathers and their children, relationships that many in previous generations never had the tools or emotional language to build. Long before “gentle parenting” became a global phenomenon, Mutle was living it and embodying a style of fatherhood that...
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Those Who Influence Your Perspective Shape Your Experience
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"Your perspective will either become your Prison or your passport; choose wisely" Who has shaped the way you see the world? How much of what you believe about yourself and your life has been unconsciously influenced by others? In this episode, I reflect on a somewhat life altering day spent with two of my high school teachers. One, a fabulous woman in her late 50s, is navigating a cancer diagnosis with grace and joy that can only be described as inspirational. The other, a widow who has endured profound loss, radiated so much wisdom and wonder, it left me in awe. Despite their...
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Building a Life You Love Before Love Finds You
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In this episode of An Extraordinary Take, I’m joined by my good friend Kuda as we unpack the often-overlooked beauty of singlehood. We challenge the notion that being single is to be endured as a waiting cell before the desired destination of marriage. Kuda reflects on his own journey of navigating singleness as a black man and the responsibility that comes with being seen as an eligible bachelor. We explore how embracing singleness with joy, adventure, and self-awareness can lay the foundation for deeper, healthier relationships in the future. We also discuss the risks of rushing...
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What traveling reveals about oneself and the world
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And we’re back! After a 3 week break, An Extraordinary Take returns with its 10th episode. In today’s episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of travel. More than just a leisure activity, travel is a gateway to expanding your worldview, challenging your assumptions, and connecting with the broader human experience. We unpack the myths and misconceptions that often hold people back, like the idea that you need a partner or a group of friends to travel, or that your life must be perfectly in order (complete with a house and car) before you can explore the world. We challenge...
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The Trap of “More and Better”: Escaping the Endless Chase
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In a world where luxury is celebrated and progress is often measured by possessions, many of us find ourselves caught in a loop, waiting for the next big thing, the next breakthrough, the next season of abundance, before we allow ourselves to truly live. But what if this constant pursuit of “more” is quietly robbing us of the richness of the present moment? This episode invites listeners to pause and reflect: Are we living in a state of perpetual waiting, believing that fulfillment lies just beyond the next achievement or acquisition? With influencer culture on the rise and comparison more...
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Could you be the problem ? Spotting Toxic Traits in Yourself at Work
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In this episode we dive into the complex world of workplace dynamics with HR Specialist Thobeka Msweli. Together, we explore what really goes on behind the office doors, from the subtle signs of a toxic work culture to the often-unspoken reasons why internal promotions are passed over in favor of external hires. Thobeka brings her expert lens to help us understand how to recognise if you might be the toxic colleague and what it takes to change for the better. We also unpack practical strategies for increasing your visibility at work, positioning yourself for growth, and navigating career...
info_outlineIn this episode we dive into the complex world of workplace dynamics with HR Specialist Thobeka Msweli. Together, we explore what really goes on behind the office doors, from the subtle signs of a toxic work culture to the often-unspoken reasons why internal promotions are passed over in favor of external hires. Thobeka brings her expert lens to help us understand how to recognise if you might be the toxic colleague and what it takes to change for the better. We also unpack practical strategies for increasing your visibility at work, positioning yourself for growth, and navigating career transitions.
Whether you're a young graduate trying to break into the job market or a seasoned professional feeling stuck, this episode offers honest insights, actionable advice, and a fresh perspective on how to thrive in today’s challenging workplace landscape.
Tune in for a bold and extraordinary take on the realities of work and how to make it work for you.