Ep. 12: How clothes spark connection: friendship, vulnerability, and personal style with Danielle Bayard Jackson
Release Date: 07/02/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode, personal stylist Jennine Jacob and fashion journalist Kristen Philipkoski talk with Danielle Bayard Jackson, friendship coach and author of Fighting for Our Friendships. They explore how what we wear can open the door to meaningful connections—and how friendships shape (and are shaped by) our personal style.
Danielle breaks down her three affinities framework—symmetry, support, and secrecy—revealing why women’s friendships are so powerful yet often fragile. She shares how style plays into first impressions and why dressing to express yourself authentically is a form of vulnerability that can actually fast-track finding your people.
They discuss:
- Why women’s friendships dissolve at a higher rate than men’s
- How wearing something “conversation-worthy” invites connection
- Why friendships sometimes fade after big life shifts
- Scripts for repairing friendship missteps
- The power of showing up as yourself, even if it risks rejection
Guest:
👭 Danielle Bayard Jackson – friendship educator, speaker, and author of Fighting for Our Friendships. Find her work at Better Female Friendships.
Listen if you want to:
✨ Feel more confident approaching new people ✨ Understand why friendships sometimes drift ✨ Explore how your style choices impact your social life ✨ Learn practical scripts to navigate common friendship pitfalls