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02: Good Vibes Only? Let's talk about it

a life differently

Release Date: 02/12/2025

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We’ve all seen it: Good. Vibes. Only. It sounds uplifting, it’s embroidered on pillows, but does it actually help the way we think it does? 

In this “Let’s talk about it” episode, I share a bit of my ranty side with you as I unpack the real effects of GVO—how it suppresses emotions and hinders true healing, especially in communities of color. And don’t get me wrong, I used to be a toxic positivity queen myself. So, let’s get into it.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why "Good Vibes Only" can be toxic rather than uplifting
  • How avoiding our emotions impacts true healing
  • A simple 90-second practice to process emotions instead of burying them

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