From Contest to Connection: How Evin Rose & Alex Terranova Found Love in an Unexpected Way
Release Date: 05/06/2025
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info_outlineWhat if your love story started with a contest? In this episode of Love Isn’t Enough, we’re joined by Evin Rose and Alex Terranova, a couple whose unique journey to love is anything but ordinary. Alex, a coach and podcast host, decided to run a contest to find a date to bring to Tulum, Mexico—and Evin, a dating and self-worth coach, entered on a whim. What started as an unconventional experiment turned into a deep and meaningful relationship.
We dive into:
• The inspiration behind Alex’s contest and why he chose this unconventional approach to dating.
• What made Evin say “yes” to entering—and how she navigated the experience.
• How their relationship evolved from a playful beginning into something real and lasting.
• The power of intention, trust, and alignment in building a healthy partnership.
• Lessons they’ve learned about love, vulnerability, and creating a relationship that thrives.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking for love in unexpected ways—or who simply loves a great modern love story!
Connect with Evin Rose & Alex Terranova:
• Evin’s Instagram: @evinrose
• Evin’s website: https://www.evinrosecoaching.com/
• Alex’s Instagram: @inspirationalalex
• Alex’s website: https://www.alexterranovacoaching.com/
Connect with Joree & John:
• Website: www.loveisntenough.net
• Instagram: @loveisntenough33
• Subscribe to their podcast: Love Isn’t Enough
• Join our relationship Master Class series: https://loveisntenough.net/masterclass/
Connect with Dr. John Schinnerer:
• Website: www.guidetoself.com
• Instagram: @theevolvedcaveman
• Subscribe to his podcast: The Evolved Caveman
Connect with Joree Rose:
• Website: www.joreerose.com
• Instagram: @joreerose
• Subscribe to her podcast: Journey Forward with Joree Rose
• Join the Podcast Membership: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardpodcast/
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