Daryl Akutagawa: From Bullied Kid to Battle-Tested Leader, How martial arts rewired Daryl’s fear into focus, The lesson of wrestling against men twice his size—and why losing mattered more than winning
Release Date: 04/21/2025
Nate Dumlao | Competing as a Father, Leading with Purpose, and Winning from Within
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Mishnrz' Matt Reezy shares his journey from Rebellion to Redemption, his near-death spiritual awakening, and how music came into the picture
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Rob Parker’s Journey: From Queens to ESPN, Fox Sports, and Beyond, His passion for sports journalism at age 7, Covering major sports leagues, Working at ESPN, Fox Sports Radio and MLB Network, Breaking Barriers
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In this powerful episode of the Hate to Lose Podcast, veteran sports journalist Rob Parker reveals how hard work, resilience, and authenticity fueled his rise to success. From his roots in Jamaica, Queens, to becoming the first Black sports columnist at the Detroit Free Press, Rob shares inspiring lessons from over 40 years in the sports media industry. Hosted by Christian John Bradley, this conversation dives deep into: How Rob developed an unstoppable work ethic from his mother’s example His passion for sports journalism starting at age 7 Launching his first newspaper at 16 years old...
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Daryl Akutagawa: From Bullied Kid to Battle-Tested Leader, How martial arts rewired Daryl’s fear into focus, The lesson of wrestling against men twice his size—and why losing mattered more than winning
HATE TO LOSE
What does it take to rise from fear to fortitude? In this raw and revealing episode, Daryl Akutagawa joins host Christian John Bradley to share the deeply personal journey from a timid, bullied child hiding behind a sandbox to an Air Force captain, martial arts master, and resilient competitor in every arena of life. From martial arts dojos and wrestling mats to military boot camps and boardrooms, Daryl opens up about the mindset forged through hardship, the courage to embrace challenge, and the confidence built by showing up, again and again. 🔍 In this episode: How martial arts rewired...
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David Pailin Jr lives life "Play(ing) on All-Madden,” Dives into learning how to lead through failure and feedback, turning losses into data, identifying as a winner, and the origin story of the King of Games
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Jesse Smith on Building Confidence, Winning Mentality, and the Power of Trash Talk
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Fabiola | Conquering Cancer one decision at a time, Obedience above sacrifice, Grappling when destiny disrupts determination
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Darlene Morales | From El Salvador To Entrepreneurial Success, Vision for Victory, Determination to Do, Little Star births Little Stars, Pushing past pain to find purpose
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Jacob Hall: Hall Shares how he finds strength in struggle through wrestling with his Father, Gives a unique definition of success, and dives deep into the mental struggle of running a marathon
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What does it take to be a true competitor? In this episode of the Hate to Lose Podcast, host Christian John Bradley sits down with Jacob Hall—a CrossFit athlete, marathon runner, and Quality Engineer at Northrop Grumman—to explore the mindset of those who hate to lose more than they love to win. Jacob shares how growing up in a family of coaches shaped his relentless drive, the lessons he learned from wrestling with his dad, and how embracing struggle and adversity while enjoying the process. In this episode, we discuss: 🔥 How to find strength in the struggle 🔥 The importance of...
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Kevin white finds success in setbacks
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Co-Founder / CEO of Spottyr shares his greatest career setback setup his journey to start his company Spottyr.
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In this raw and revealing episode, Daryl Akutagawa joins host Christian John Bradley to share the deeply personal journey from a timid, bullied child hiding behind a sandbox to an Air Force captain, martial arts master, and resilient competitor in every arena of life.
From martial arts dojos and wrestling mats to military boot camps and boardrooms, Daryl opens up about the mindset forged through hardship, the courage to embrace challenge, and the confidence built by showing up, again and again.
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How martial arts rewired Daryl’s fear into focus at age five
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The lesson of wrestling against men twice his size—and why losing mattered more than winning
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Life inside Air Force ROTC, boot camp, and military leadership
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Why preparation isn’t just about performance—it’s about identity
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Facing a rare brain condition, Moya Moya, and finding strength in the scar
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Choosing love over military rank—and starting over in the civilian world
Whether you’re an athlete, a leader, or someone rebuilding confidence from the ground up, this episode will challenge your perspective on competition, failure, and what it really means to fight for yourself.
🎧 Tap play to hear how mental toughness is built, not born—and how setbacks shape the strongest warriors.