SFIO 201 - Embracing the Messy
Still Figuring It Out
Episode Summary Welcome to Season 2! In this honest and often humorous episode, Marc A. Pitman, CSP, and Emily Pitman, ACC, CPCC, reflect on their journey from the launch of their podcast to now. They talk about the initial tech struggles (hello, 18-minute setup delays), learning new tools like Hindenburg Pro, and the unexpected joy of growing together through the messiness of podcasting. You’ll hear about their commitment to showing up imperfectly, lessons from editing and production, and the evolving way they think about their message, their marriage, and their work in leadership and...
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1.4 Podcast Research
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Episode Summary In this enlightening episode of "We're Still Figuring This Out," hosts Marc and Emily Pitman dive into the intricacies of podcasting, sharing personal insights, and reflections on their journey as podcast creators. They explore the themes of intentional living, relationship dynamics, and the balance between humor and respect. Join them as they navigate the challenges and rewards of creating content that is both meaningful and engaging. Timestamps [00:00] Introduction: The origins of "We're Still Figuring This Out." [00:21] Meet Emily Pitman: Leadership coach, creative, and...
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1.3 Timeframes
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Summary In this episode of the Pitman's Coddiwomple podcast, hosts Mark and Emily delve into the intricacies of different timeframes in personal and professional planning. They explore how individuals' perceptions of time can influence their approach to tasks and goals. The discussion touches on the importance of understanding these differences to foster better teamwork and leadership. They also share personal anecdotes and experiences, highlighting the importance of flexibility and mutual understanding in relationships. Timestamps [00:00] - Introduction and setting the 20-minute timer...
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1.2 - Coddiwomple - Our Journey Together
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Episode 2: Coddiwomple - Our Journey Together Introduction Welcome to the our podcast! We, Marc and Emily Pitman, are excited to embark on this new journey together. In this episode, we introduce ourselves, share our backgrounds, and discuss our new favorite word, "coddiwomple," which means to travel purposefully toward an unknown destination. Join us as we explore our past, our present, and the adventures that lie ahead. About the Hosts Emily Pitman: Certified Co-Active Coach Credentialed with the International Coach Federation Writer of the weekly newsletter "Sprouts" Aspiring speaker...
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1.12 Looking Back, Looking Ahead
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Episode Summary: In this season finale of "Still Figuring It Out," hosts Marc and Emily Pitman reflect on their journey through the season, sharing the joys, challenges, and unexpected lessons they've encountered. From embracing messiness to reveling in unscripted dialogues, they explore what it means to combine work and life, maintain a playful spirit, and the importance of enjoying the process rather than fixating on outcomes. Episode Highlights: [00:00:06] - Season introduction by Marc and Emily, highlighting the theme of embracing imperfection. [00:14:15] - Discussion on their commitment...
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1.10 Quarterly Questions, Part 2
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1.9 Quarterly Questions, Part 1
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Hosts: 🎤 Marc A. Pitman, CSP – Speaker, coach, and visionary wall demolisher 🎤 Emily Pitman – Systems and spaces designer, master planner Episode Summary In this inaugural episode of Still Figuring It Out, Marc and Emily Pitman dive into the Four Questions for the Quarter, a structured yet organic way they approach planning, growth, and creativity. With humor, warmth, and insight, they explore: The chaos and creativity of Emily’s brainstorming process Marc’s quest for intentional client outreach The balance between building systems and preserving creative...
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1.8 To Birthday or Not To Birthday
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Hosts: 🎤 Marc A. Pitman, CSP – Speaker, coach, and visionary wall demolisher 🎤 Emily Pitman – Systems and spaces designer, master planner Episode Summary In this episode of Still Figuring It Out, Marc and Emily Pitman reflect on life, marriage, and the evolving ways they celebrate birthdays (or, in this case, not celebrate them). They dive into the pressures around gift-giving, family expectations, and the freedom that comes from rethinking traditions. From birthday pies to self-care, the couple explores what it means to be intentional about celebrations while...
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1.7 Travel, Work, and Family Dynamics
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Join hosts Marc and Emily Pitman in this reflective and candid episode of "Still Figuring It Out" as they navigate the complexities of travel, work, and changing family dynamics. The couple delves into their experiences with balancing professional responsibilities, personal relationships, and the nuances of life transitions. This episode is packed with real-life anecdotes, professional insights, and a healthy dose of humor as they explore how their lives and work have evolved over the years. Timestamps [00:00:05] - Introduction by Marc, touching on the importance of getting things...
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1.6 Navigating Travel as an Entrepreneurial Family
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Hosts: 🎤 Marc A. Pitman, CSP – Speaker, coach, and visionary wall demolisher 🎤 Emily Pitman – Systems and spaces designer, master planner Episode Summary In this episode of We're Still Figuring It Out, Marc and Emily dive into the complexities of travel as an entrepreneurial family. They reflect on how their experiences of being apart have evolved over time, from their early years of marriage to the present day, and how it has impacted their family dynamics. With Marc gearing up for his first business trip of the year, they discuss the preparations, emotions, and expectations that...
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🎤 Marc A. Pitman, CSP – Speaker, coach, and visionary wall demolisher
🎤 Emily Pitman – Systems and spaces designer, master planner
Episode Summary
In this episode of Still Figuring It Out, Marc and Emily Pitman reflect on life, marriage, and the evolving ways they celebrate birthdays (or, in this case, not celebrate them). They dive into the pressures around gift-giving, family expectations, and the freedom that comes from rethinking traditions. From birthday pies to self-care, the couple explores what it means to be intentional about celebrations while staying true to their values.
Timestamps & Key Topics
⏱ [00:00:03] - Welcome!
Emily kicks off the episode with a lighthearted question: Does the weekend start now, or in six hours?
⏱ [00:00:26] - Who We Are
Marc and Emily introduce themselves as life partners, business partners, and co-hosts who are still figuring things out.
⏱ [00:01:59] - The Math of Marriage
Reflecting on their nearly 29-year marriage, they joke about how counting years (or months) changes as you get older.
⏱ [00:02:46] - Living from Strengths
The couple discusses their shared mission: helping others embrace their strengths and gifts.
⏱ [00:03:02] - “We Didn’t Have Birthdays This Year”
Marc and Emily talk about skipping traditional birthday celebrations and opting for something different—a September celebration instead of their usual January and February birthdays.
⏱ [00:04:02] - Why Change the Tradition?
Marc explains that his birthday, falling so close to Christmas, has always been a challenge for gift-giving. Emily shares how their kids are now financially independent, making gifts more of a financial stress than a necessity.
⏱ [00:06:04] - The Kindness of Letting Go of Expectations
They discuss how choosing to forgo gifts and big celebrations was not just about them but also a way to relieve family members of unnecessary pressure.
⏱ [00:08:32] - Birthday Pies & Small Traditions
Instead of a big party, Marc enjoyed a homemade chocolate bourbon pecan pie, while Emily had a French silk chocolate pie with pretzel crust—a delicious alternative to gifts!
⏱ [00:10:57] - The Shift in Mindset
Marc opens up about the weirdness of not celebrating in the usual way and the unexpected joy of receiving birthday wishes on Facebook.
⏱ [00:14:09] - Looking Ahead to Next Year
What will birthdays look like next year? Marc and Emily explore ideas, including a trip just for the two of them (Disney, anyone?). They also discuss how prioritizing them over obligations feels both freeing and indulgent.
⏱ [00:17:57] - Gifts Without Obligation
Emily shares her philosophy on gift-giving: she prefers spontaneous, heartfelt gestures over obligatory presents on specific days.
⏱ [00:19:46] - Wrapping Up
The episode ends with a reminder that life—and celebrations—are things we’re all still figuring out.
Notable Quotes
💬 “We exist to help other people live from their strengths and their gifts, and to celebrate those with them.” – Emily Pitman
💬 “Gifts are frosting on the cake. The presence of loved ones is what truly matters.” – Marc A. Pitman
💬 “I didn’t know the rules. I thought we said ‘no birthdays,’ so I wasn’t sure if I was even allowed to celebrate in my own way!” – Marc A. Pitman
💬 “It’s easier to say no to something than to say yes to ourselves.” – Marc A. Pitman
Key Takeaways
✔ Reevaluating Traditions: Just because you’ve always done something a certain way doesn’t mean you have to keep doing it.
✔ The Pressure of Gift-Giving: Sometimes the best gift you can give is removing the obligation to give.
✔ Prioritizing What Matters: Birthdays don’t have to be about gifts—they can be about self-care, quality time, and personal reflection.
✔ Navigating Family Dynamics: Making space for new traditions can be an act of kindness, both for yourself and others.
Listener Engagement
💡 What about you? Do you have a non-traditional way of celebrating birthdays or milestones?
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🎙️ Until next time, we’re still figuring it out!
Thank you Lexi Moreno and Caleb Pitman composing / mixing / mastering / guitar / trumpet; Zoe bass