No Kids, No Problem? The Truth About Childfree Divorce with Dr. Jay Zigmont
Love and Money Podcast
You don’t need kids to experience a complex, emotional, and expensive divorce—just ask anyone who’s been through one. In this eye-opening episode, Tracy talks with Dr. Jay Zigmont, Certified Financial Planner and founder of Childfree Wealth, about what it really means to navigate marriage, money, and divorce without children in the picture. Jay and Tracy dive into the unique challenges (and surprising advantages) that childfree individuals face during and after divorce. From planning for long-term care to rewriting financial expectations and building community, this episode is a...
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Coercive Control: The Underpinning of Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola
Love and Money Podcast
Abuse isn’t always physical. In fact, some of the most damaging abuse leaves no bruises—but it can destroy your confidence, your finances, and even your relationship with your kids. This week, Tracy Coenen sits down with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, trauma-trained therapist, researcher, and creator of the Protective Parenting Program. With over 20 years of experience in social work and domestic abuse advocacy, Christine brings both professional expertise and personal insight to the conversation. She’s here to expose the truth about coercive control—what it looks like, how it damages...
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Becoming the CEO of Your Divorce with Meagan Norris
Love and Money Podcast
When your marriage ends, it can feel like everything is spinning out of control. But what if you could step into the driver’s seat and take charge of your divorce like a CEO? Meagan Norris is a certified life coach and attorney who helps women stop reacting and start leading. In this episode, she joins Tracy to talk about what it really means to be the CEO of your divorce—how to show up with clarity, strength, and purpose, even when you’re scared or overwhelmed. This isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about being the one who decides what happens next. What You’ll Learn in...
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Welcome to the Love and Money Podcast
Love and Money Podcast
Today, we're celebrating a huge milestone — 104 episodes of Find Me The Money! And we're turning the page to an exciting new chapter: Welcome to the Love and Money Podcast. In this episode, Tracy shares why she decided to expand the focus of the podcast, what this shift means for you, and how the Love and Money Podcast will help even more women take control of their financial futures. We’re still talking about: Protecting yourself financially in divorce Finding hidden money and getting what you deserve But now we're also talking about: Managing money in dating, marriage, and all types...
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What Does a Divorce Lawyer Really Do
Love and Money Podcast
When you hire a divorce attorney, you expect them to handle the legal side of your case. But what does that actually mean? And just as importantly—what isn’t your lawyer responsible for? This week, Tracy Coenen is joined by Raiford Palmer, a top Chicago family law attorney, managing shareholder of STG Divorce Law, and author of the Amazon bestselling book I Just Want This Done: How Smart Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money, and Minds. Raif shares his no-nonsense take on what a divorce lawyer should (and shouldn’t) be doing to help you get the best possible...
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Finding the Right Divorce Professionals
Love and Money Podcast
When you’re going through a divorce, choosing the right professionals—attorneys, financial experts, and coaches—can make or break your experience. But how do you know who’s truly qualified to help you? This week, Tracy Coenen sits down with Liz Becker, president and founder of the National Association of Divorce Professionals (NADP) and senior trainer for the Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS) program. With nearly 20 years of experience in the divorce industry, Liz has seen firsthand how the right professionals can change the trajectory of a divorce—and how the wrong ones can create...
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Confidence is Your Superpower
Love and Money Podcast
Feeling down and doubting yourself? It’s time to unleash your inner superhero! Life’s challenges, especially something as tough as divorce, can leave you feeling like your confidence has taken a hit. In this episode, Tracy Coenen and top confidence coach Trish Blackwell dive deep into why confidence is the ultimate superpower to help you rise above self-doubt and take control of your narrative. Trish, who works with Olympic athletes, CEOs, and high-achievers, brings her expert advice on how to shift your mindset, embrace self-compassion, and start seeing your life as a story you get to...
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You're Getting Divorced, But You’re Not Crazy
Love and Money Podcast
Feeling a little "crazy" during your divorce? You’re not alone. In this heartfelt episode, Tracy sits down with Erica Bennett—global training guru, coach, and host of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club podcast. Erica shares her inspiring journey from heartbreak to healing and gives us tools to help redefine the word "crazy" into something positive and powerful. This episode dives deep into the emotional rollercoaster of divorce, tackling the labels that often get unfairly thrown around. Erica and Tracy debunk the myths, like the “crazy ex-wife” and “narcissistic ex-husband” tropes, and...
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Financial Literacy for Single Moms and Their Kids
Love and Money Podcast
Are you a single mom juggling life, kids, and finances? Feeling overwhelmed by teaching your kids about money when you’re barely keeping up yourself? This episode is for YOU! Tracy Coenen sits down with the dynamic Yanely Espinal to discuss financial literacy for single moms and their kids. Yanely is a Brooklyn-born ball of energy who shares her inspiring journey from a debt-ridden teacher to a financial education powerhouse with over 4 million YouTube views and a bestselling book, Mind Your Money. What You’ll Learn: Breaking Cycles: How to tackle generational gaps in financial education....
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How to Become the CFO of Your Life
Love and Money Podcast
In this empowering episode, Tracy Coenen is joined by Michelle Smith, a renowned wealth manager and founder of Wife2CFO, to discuss how women can take control of their financial futures during and after divorce. With 30 years of experience in personal finance, Michelle has worked with thousands of women to demystify money management and equip them with the tools to become the CFOs of their lives. Her platform, Wife2CFO, is a judgment-free zone for financial literacy, helping women navigate the complexities of finances with confidence and clarity. Tracy and Michelle dive into the common...
info_outlineIn this episode, we welcome back Jackie Pilossoph, founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, a trusted platform that connects people navigating divorce with vetted professionals and resources. Jackie shares her personal divorce story and explains how the challenges she faced led her to create a community and resource hub for others.
Jackie reveals that during her divorce 17 years ago, the support systems and resources available today simply didn’t exist. From divorce coaches to financial planners, these professionals can make the process smoother and more empowering. She emphasizes that having a strong "divorce team" can drastically improve outcomes—something she wishes she had known during her own journey.
Key Takeaways:
- Facing Money Fears During Divorce - Money is one of the biggest stressors in divorce, regardless of how much or how little you have. Many women in the Divorced Girl Smiling community express fears about budgeting, uncovering hidden assets, and financial survival post-divorce. Jackie shares insights from her own financial experiences and highlights the importance of taking control of your finances early in the process.
- The Power of a Divorce Team - A good attorney is important, but Jackie stresses the value of building a comprehensive team of professionals, including divorce coaches, financial planners, mediators, and real estate experts. Not only does this approach save money, it also ensures better outcomes and reduces the stress of relying solely on your attorney for everything.
- Why Friends and Family Aren’t Enough - Well-meaning friends and family often lack the expertise needed to guide you through divorce. Jackie explains why their advice, though heartfelt, can sometimes miss the mark and how professional resources provide the specialized support you truly need.
- Finding Trusted Professionals - Jackie’s platform, Divorced Girl Smiling, serves as a curated directory of trusted divorce professionals. Unlike other directories, Jackie and her advisory board personally vet each professional to ensure they meet her high standards. She also offers a free consultation to help you find the right match for your needs.
- Empowering Resources for Every Stage of Divorce - From her free ebook, Divorce: From Day One to the Rest of Your Happy & Authentic Life, to personalized consultations, Jackie provides tools to help people feel more prepared and less alone. Her goal is to empower individuals to navigate their divorce with confidence.
Get Jackie’s free ebook, Divorce: From Day One to The Rest of Your Happy & Authentic Life: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/dgsfreeebook/
Jackie offers a free 30 minute consultation to people going through divorce to help them understand the resources and professionals that are available to help them. Schedule yours here: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/the-free-consult/