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#116 - What Every High-Achieving Woman Was Never Told About Intimacy & Connection Part 2: Why Couples Therapy Doesn’t Work for You & The Ingredient Your Relationship Is Missing for Better Sex and Connection

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

Release Date: 12/08/2023

#134 - Why High-Achieving Women May Not Be Ready For An Emotionally Available Man show art #134 - Why High-Achieving Women May Not Be Ready For An Emotionally Available Man

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

Jordin is freshly inspired by her recent Feminine Mentorship retreat to talk about some deep truths about high-achieving superwomen. This is relevant for both single superwomen and partnered superwomen. This episode explores why although high-achieving women say they want an emotionally available man, if a true healthy emotionally available man walked into their lives right now, they would run.  Jordin offers insight to help high-achieving women explore what they truly desire in a man and what needs to be done in order to receive it.  Tune in to this episode to hear more about: ...

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#133 - How To Have Sex With Passion & Reignite Intimacy in Long-Term Relationship show art #133 - How To Have Sex With Passion & Reignite Intimacy in Long-Term Relationship

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

In this episode, Jordin discusses the biology behind New Relationship Energy (NRE) and the reality of what happens to intimate relationships once the NRE fades. Oftentimes once the NRE fades in a relationship, one or both partners become bored (especially super-couples) or they become like roommates. But there are strategies to reignite the intimacy in long-term relationships, which are discussed more thoroughly in this episode. Tune in to hear more about: The biology behind new relationship energy Why intimacy and connection fades in long-term relationship Characteristics of a...

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#132 - The Ultimate Guide To Dirty Talk and Sexting for High-Achieving Women show art #132 - The Ultimate Guide To Dirty Talk and Sexting for High-Achieving Women

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

Dirty talk is an artform. One that most high-achieving women struggle with because it involves opening up and being vulnerable. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be done (and perfected) when using the right formula. In this episode, Jordin explores the world of dirty talk and shares her superwoman-approved formula for dirty talk that is authentic and brings your pleasure pulse from 0 to 100. Listen to this episode to hear more about: Why dirty talk is so hard for superwomen Dr. J’s simple formula for dirty talk Examples of phrases that work The energetics behind dirty talk So much...

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#131 - Empowered Pleasure: Smart Women Who Have Great Sex Are Doing These 7 Things show art #131 - Empowered Pleasure: Smart Women Who Have Great Sex Are Doing These 7 Things

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

Regular listeners of this podcast already know that great sex requires pleasure, presence and connection. But in this episode, Jordin is digging deeper into the smart women who are having great sex and what they all have in common. Listen now to hear more about: Learning your likes and dislikes Self-pleasure practices Feeling and sharing emotions Communicating needs and desires Receiving safe love from a man & much more to apply for 1:1 private (3 month) coaching to apply for Revive: A 5-week private coaching program tailored for high achieving women who want to heal their...

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#130 - How To Train Your Brain To Be Present During Sex And Pleasure show art #130 - How To Train Your Brain To Be Present During Sex And Pleasure

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

In this episode Jordin is addressing an increasingly common question that she’s asked by high-achieving superwomen - “How can I get out of my head and be present during sex, intimacy, and pleasure?” The high-achieving woman’s brain is wired in a way that makes it difficult to stop thinking about the to-do lists and to focus on feeling good. But in this episode you’ll hear Jordin’s proven tips to help train your brain so you can truly feel comfortable feeling good and receiving pleasure. Tune in to hear about: Why it’s so hard for superwomen to be present during intimacy How...

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#129 - Unpacking And Shedding Resentment To Heal Your Relationship Dynamic show art #129 - Unpacking And Shedding Resentment To Heal Your Relationship Dynamic

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

In this episode, Jordin is unpacking a huge commonality she’s been witnessing in the superwomen she’s been working with lately – Resentment. If we’re being honest, disconnection and resentment in relationship hurts. It leaves superwomen feeling lonely, exhausted, burnt out, and sick. Which is why Jordin is uncovering the layers of resentment to help high-achieving women change the dynamic of their relationship to finally shed that resentment they’re holding onto. Tune in to hear more about: The layers of resentment Conversation starters for when you’re resentful The deeper...

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#128 - How High Or Low Is Your Receiving Capacity (The Real Reason You’re Exhausted, Disconnected and Resentful Part 2) show art #128 - How High Or Low Is Your Receiving Capacity (The Real Reason You’re Exhausted, Disconnected and Resentful Part 2)

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

Today’s episode is all about identifying how high or low your receiving capacity is as a high-achieving superwoman. Your receiving capacity refers to your ability to absorb, take in, or soak up pleasure. And for most of the high-achieving women Jordin works with, this capacity is usually very low. In this episode you’ll hear a list of examples to help you reflect on your own capacity to receive. In this episode you’ll also be provided with a list of tips for you to start increasing your receiving capacity, using Jordin’s years of experience completing 2 degrees, a career in...

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#127 - The Cost Of Energy Leaks In Your Relationship And The Real Reason You’re Exhausted, Disconnected and Resentful show art #127 - The Cost Of Energy Leaks In Your Relationship And The Real Reason You’re Exhausted, Disconnected and Resentful

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

There are a few reasons (energy leaks) why you’re exhausted, disconnected and resentful and it might not be what you think. The worst part? Your relationships and health are paying a high price as a result. In this episode, Jordin explores the three reasons why truth is a hidden energy leak in the relationships of high-achieving women and the high cost you’re paying because of it. Tune in to hear more about: The real reason why high-achieving women are exhausted, disconnected & resentful The high cost of energy leaks on your health and relationships Unbalanced energy in intimate...

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#126 - Sexual Tension Killer: High-Achieving Women with Superwoman Starfish Syndrome (Part 2) show art #126 - Sexual Tension Killer: High-Achieving Women with Superwoman Starfish Syndrome (Part 2)

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

This episode is part 2/2 of Jordin’s series on Superwoman Starfish Syndrome- a concept used by Jordin to describe the experiences of many of her high-achieving superwoman clients. If you haven’t already, you should listen to part 1 (episode #125) before listening to this episode. This episode breaks down how Superwoman Starfish Syndrome is showing up in the bedroom and in the boardroom of high-achieving, over-functioning women, and what it’s costing you to remain in this state. ***** to apply for REVIVE: A 5-Week Journey to Effective Relationship Communication for High-Achieving Women...

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#125 - Sexual Tension Killer: High-Achieving Women with Superwoman Starfish Syndrome (Part 1) show art #125 - Sexual Tension Killer: High-Achieving Women with Superwoman Starfish Syndrome (Part 1)

The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

Today’s episode is an introduction into Superwoman Starfish Syndrome - a concept used by Jordin to describe the experiences of many of her high-achieving superwoman clients. The thing about Starfish Syndrome is that it’s a sexual tension killer, which is what Jordin dives deeper into for part 1 of this 2 part series. Listen now to hear more about: The meaning of Superwoman Starfish Syndrome Why superwomen have Superwoman Starfish Syndrome Signs that you’re a Superwoman Starfish The impacts of being a Superwoman Starfish to apply for 1:1 coaching with Jordin! to follow...

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This episode is part 2 in a series recorded by Dr. J about high-achieving women in relationships.

In this episode you’ll discover a deeper understanding of “equal but different” in the context of Feminine and Masculine energies and high-achieving women in relationships.

Listen to hear more about why couples therapy doesn’t work for high-achieving, over-functioning women in relationships, the types of relationships you attract when you have Feminine Burnout, and the importance of having an energetic balance.

CLICK HERE to apply for the 2024 Feminine Mentorship