Why Some Couples Have MORE Sex After an Affair (Sounds Crazy But It’s Real)
Release Date: 09/11/2025
This Hormone Crash Is Changing Sex for Everyone (Here’s How to Stop It)
The Sex Doctors
In this episode Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how stress lowers testosterone and how modern sexual trends like rough sex reflect deeper changes in hormones, mental health, and human connection. 00:33 Impact of Stress on Testosterone and Estrogen They start by explaining how physical and emotional stress interferes with brain signaling, lowers testosterone, and can also reduce estrogen in both men and women. 04:48 Exploring Trends in Rough Sex They discuss why people are having less sex overall while the sex they do have is becoming rougher and more aggressive. 14:05 Brain...
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Why Men NEED Estrogen... Not Just Testosterone (Doctors Explain)
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler & Dr. Brandon talk about the critical role estrogen plays in men’s health and libido, and break down how modern sex tech—from toys and VR to chatbots and avatars—is reshaping intimacy and connection. 00:21 The Role of Estrogen in Men’s Health – How estrogen, converted from testosterone, plays a key role in male libido, body fat, and bone health. 08:13 Exploring Modern Sex Tech – A broad look at how technology now intersects with intimacy, pleasure, and emotional connection. 11:42 Exploring Teledildonics and Interactive Sex Toys – How...
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Why the FDA Is Finally Reversing Course on Testosterone
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler & Dr. Brandon talk about whether testosterone can be improved naturally, why supplements and diet fall short, and how outdated FDA policies and misconceptions continue to shape testosterone treatment today. 00:38 Testosterone Myths and Realities – Why supplements, diet, and exercise rarely raise testosterone in a meaningful way, and what actually matters instead. 09:33 FDA Panel on Testosterone – Dr. Morgentaler shares key takeaways from presenting expert evidence to the FDA on modern testosterone science. 20:11 Age-Related Health Issues – Why...
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Sexual Well-Being, Desire, AI, and Intimacy... (Best of Dr. Marianne Brandon)
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how early porn exposure, sexual shame, and misunderstood desire shape adult intimacy, and why healthier conversations about sex are critical for real human connection. 02:59 Creating Sexual Tension in Relationships Dr. Marianne Brandon talks about how sexual tension is created through polarity, with openness and vulnerability generating desire rather than weakness. 14:52 Understanding and Addressing Compulsive Sexual Behavior She discusses compulsive sexual behavior as a complex, individualized issue driven by underlying emotional and psychological...
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Dr. Abe Morgentaler | FDA Expert Panel on Testosterone Replacement Therapy for Men
The Sex Doctors
In this FDA discussion Dr. Abraham Morgentaler talks about how decades of fear and misinformation wrongly linked testosterone therapy to prostate cancer, while modern evidence shows it is safe and may even reduce prostate cancer risk. 00:27 Challenges in Testosterone Therapy – In this FDA discussion Dr. Abraham Morgentaler talks about the stigma, misinformation, and medical resistance that have limited acceptance of testosterone therapy despite patient benefits. 01:11 Prostate Cancer Myths – He talks about the long-standing but false belief that testosterone “fuels” prostate cancer,...
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Before You Believe Another Medical Headline Watch This (Doctors Tell All)
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why many headline-making medical studies are misleading, how media and journals amplify flawed science, and how to think critically about health news without panic. 00:44 Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how to tell the difference between asexuality, low sexual desire, stress, and medication effects, and why personal sexual history matters. 05:43 They also talk about why many big, scary medical headlines are misleading, using hormone therapy as a prime example of media-driven misinformation. 18:29 They talk about the...
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The Truth About Your Sex Life After 50 | Solutions to Spice Things Up Again
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how sexual changes with age affect both men and women, what’s normal biologically, and the practical, compassionate ways therapy, mindset shifts, and hormone support can help people stay connected and fulfilled. 00:24 Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about why sexual changes with age are common, multifaceted, and often misunderstood, and why it’s important to openly discuss the biology behind them. 02:22 They also talk about how women experience changes like decreased lubrication, vaginal atrophy, and reduced sensitivity...
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The Silent Marriage Killer You’ve Never Heard Of… and How to Protect Your Relationship
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgenthaler talk about the concept of “quiet quitting” in marriages, why long-term relationships can lose intimacy, and practical ways couples can reconnect, communicate, and restore closeness in their relationship. 00:26 Understanding 'Quiet Quitting' in Marriage – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler define “quiet quitting” in marriage and why it’s becoming common. 01:48 Listener Question: Erection Issues and Solutions – They offer practical tips for condom-related erectile challenges and anxiety. 15:24 Rising Trends in Sexual Inactivity...
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Could Testosterone Therapy Protect Against Developing Prostate Cancer? (From a Harvard Urologist)
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how emerging research suggests testosterone therapy may not only be safe but could actually help protect against aggressive prostate cancer, while also touching on practical approaches to maintaining sexual connection at midlife. 00:34 Addressing Listener Questions on Sexual Connection – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss practical, therapist-friendly strategies for couples looking to gently reboot intimacy and improve sexual connection at midlife. 04:17 Introduction to Testosterone and Prostate Cancer – The hosts introduce...
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The AI That Begged Not to Be Turned Off... Should We Be Worried?
The Sex Doctors
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler & Dr. Brandon talk about how unreliable testosterone lab ranges truly are, why symptoms matter more than “normal” numbers, and how this leads into a deeper discussion about whether advanced AI systems may be showing early signs of self-preservation and consciousness. 00:20 Audience Question: Testosterone Levels – The doctors talk about why a “normal” testosterone result can still be misleading when symptoms like fatigue, low libido, and depression are present. 01:11 Understanding Testosterone Reference Ranges – They talk about how lab...
info_outlineIn this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr Morgentaler talk about how affairs can make a couple’s sex life better, worse, or just different—and simple ways to heal and reconnect.
00:16 Understanding the Impact of Affairs: They explain how cheating can change desire and closeness in different ways.
01:12 Nuances in Post-Affair Sexuality: Sex may drop, rise, get more adventurous, or face issues—it depends on the couple.
02:49 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction: They cover anxiety, erection problems, low desire, and using mindfulness or medicine to help.
05:00 Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust: Start slow—talk, apologize, slow dance, gentle touch—and add steps over time.
08:38 Therapeutic Approaches and Conclusion: Therapists help couples heal, try new ways to connect, and keep working together.
Resources:
Timm, T. M. (2024). The effects of infidelity on the sexual relationship. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 39(4), 1372–1388. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2023.2283504
Lehmiller, J. J. (2023, June 23). When partners cheat, who do they do it with? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202304/when-people-cheat-who-do-they-do-it-with
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