The Sex Doctors
Tune in to the Ultimate Podcast on Sexual Health and Relationships! Join clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist Dr. Marianne Brandon, alongside her husband, renowned urologist and sexual medicine specialist Dr. Abraham Morgentaler, for insightful discussions on intimacy, desire, and well-being. This expert duo dives deep into the science and psychology of sexual health, exploring practical advice on building stronger relationships, enhancing intimacy, and navigating common sexual concerns. Whether you're looking to improve your relationship or gain a better understanding of sexual health, this podcast offers the expertise you need.
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Real Talk About Open Relationships (Solution or Disaster?)
06/05/2025
Real Talk About Open Relationships (Solution or Disaster?)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about open relationships—what they really look like, why some couples explore them, and how strong communication and clear rules can make or break the experience. 00:16 Understanding Open Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what open relationships really are—and how they mean different things to different couples. 00:39 Common Misconceptions and Realities They clear up the idea that open relationships are just about sleeping around, and share what they actually look like for most people. 02:21 Challenges and Dynamics in Open Relationships The doctors talk about how things like gender, expectations, and life experience can shape how people feel about opening up their relationship. 05:37 Exploring Rules and Boundaries They explain how couples often start with small steps, and why it’s important for both people—especially the more hesitant one—to feel safe and set clear rules. 19:46 Final Thoughts and Takeaways The episode ends with the reminder that open relationships aren’t for everyone, but honest conversations—even playful ones—can bring couples closer. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #OpenRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #GenderDynamics
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Why Monogamy Is So Hard (Even When You’re in Love)
06/02/2025
Why Monogamy Is So Hard (Even When You’re in Love)
This episode breaks down why monogamy can be tough for some folks and reminds us how important it is to keep talking with your partner along the way. 00:40 Genetic Factors in Monogamy Some research suggests our comfort with monogamy might be partly wired into our genes, like it is with certain animals. 01:33 Personality Traits and Monogamy Traits like being extroverted, super agreeable, or thrill-seeking can make sticking to one partner more challenging for some people. 02:42 Environmental Influences on Monogamy Being surrounded by attractive people—like in certain jobs—can make staying monogamous take more effort. 03:29 Living Life to the Fullest: A Challenge to Monogamy Some people struggle with monogamy simply because they want to explore life and all its experiences while they can. 04:15 Communication and Problem Solving in Monogamy Having honest, regular conversations with your partner is key to keeping monogamy strong and avoiding future problems. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MonogamyChallenges #RelationshipCommunication #GeneticsAndPersonalityTraits
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What Great Lovers Know That Most People Never Figure Out
05/29/2025
What Great Lovers Know That Most People Never Figure Out
In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler get real about what makes someone a great lover—and it’s not about perfection, it’s about being present, giving, and actually feeling connected in your body and with your partner. 00:19 The Concept of a Great Lover Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick things off by asking, “Would you want to make love to yourself?”—and unpack what it really means to be a great lover. 04:13 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Sexual Relationships They dive into common issues couples face in bed, from mixed signals to unmet needs, and how much of it comes down to miscommunication. 12:36 Understanding the Male Perspective Dr. Morgentaler opens up about how many men want to be great lovers but feel lost when nothing they try seems to work. 15:49 The Importance of Embodiment The doctors talk about how being “in your body” (not just your head) is key to great sex—and how tech and stress are pulling people away from that. 21:21 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy They share real, doable ways for both men and women to reconnect with their bodies and each other—including touch, movement, and slowing down. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualCommunication #EmbodiedIntimacy #RelationshipAdvice
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What Tech Can’t Replace No Matter How Smart It Gets (According to a Psychologist)
05/26/2025
What Tech Can’t Replace No Matter How Smart It Gets (According to a Psychologist)
In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon talks about how technology is moving fast—but reminds us that real love, connection, and kindness are things only humans can truly offer, and it’s time we focus on doing more of that every day. 00:45 The Role of Technology in Relationships Dr. Brandon explores how technology now mimics love and intimacy, competing with real emotional and sexual connection. 01:33 Human Connection vs. Technological Interaction She warns that if we’re not mindful, we may let machines replace the depth and beauty of human relationships. 01:59 Embracing Authentic Human Love Dr. Brandon reminds us that unlike tech, we have the power to love deeply and meaningfully—emotionally and physically. 02:56 Acts of Love in Everyday Life Simple gestures—like listening, smiling, or being present—can be powerful acts of love that strengthen real human bonds. 03:34 Preparing the Next Generation She stresses the importance of talking to kids about sex, porn, and tech so they grow up informed and grounded. 05:18 Conclusion: Cultivating Human Acts of Love Dr. Brandon closes by urging us all to take responsibility for keeping love human—through kindness, presence, and daily connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechnologyImpact #HumanConnection #RealLove
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The Truth About Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (From a Sex Therapist)
05/22/2025
The Truth About Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (From a Sex Therapist)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down the real reasons behind porn-related erectile dysfunction, explaining why the problem often starts with anxiety—not porn. 00:00 – Does Porn Cause Erectile Dysfunction? Dr. Brandon opens with a common question from clients—does porn actually cause ED?—and sets out to clear the air. 00:27 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction and Research Quality She explains why not all studies are created equal, and how bad research online can lead to big misunderstandings. 01:33 – The Chicken and Egg Dilemma Often, ED came first—guys already dealing with anxiety or shame may just blame porn because it's easier to point the finger. 02:20 – Emotional and Psychological Factors From body image to relationship stress, Dr. Brandon breaks down how emotional baggage can quietly mess with arousal. 04:16 – Impact of Masturbation Habits Getting used to porn and solo routines can throw you off when it comes to real-life intimacy with a partner. 05:51 – Conclusion and Advice If something feels off, don’t jump to conclusions—understanding the real cause is the first step toward fixing it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ErectileDysfunction #PornAndSexualHealth #UnderstandingArousalIssues
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Why Love and Good Sex Are Harder to Find Today
05/19/2025
Why Love and Good Sex Are Harder to Find Today
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about why fewer people are getting into relationships, touching on politics, independence, and the rise of AI as a substitute for real connection. 01:34 – The Impact of Political Differences on Relationships Dating today feels harder because politics are turning potential partners into enemies before we even get to know them. 09:52 – AI and the Future of Relationships With AI chatbots offering comfort on demand, more people are turning to screens instead of real human connection—and it’s changing everything. 13:17 – The Importance of Human Connection Even though relationships take work, nothing replaces the emotional, physical, and soul-level support that comes from being truly seen by another person. 14:51 – Combating Loneliness and Depression The more we isolate, the more we spiral—loneliness feeds depression, and the only real way out is reaching out to someone who cares. 20:48 – Balancing Masculinity and Femininity in Relationships For relationships to feel alive and exciting, we need to embrace our differences—strength, softness, backbone, and tenderness all have a place. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAvoidance #DigitalLoneliness #RealIntimacy
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What Doctors Got WRONG About Testosterone and Prostate Cancer
05/15/2025
What Doctors Got WRONG About Testosterone and Prostate Cancer
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the myth that eunuchs never get prostate cancer and reveal how powerful stories—not science—shaped decades of medical belief about testosterone. 00:07 – The Story of Testosterone and Prostate Cancer In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how the belief that testosterone causes prostate cancer became so widely accepted—even without real evidence. 01:52 – Understanding Eunuchs and Historical Context They explain who eunuchs were and how their story got tied to prostate cancer in a way that stuck for decades. 05:43 – The Castrati and Misconceptions Dr. Morgentaler shares how the story of the castrati singers was used to support a medical myth, even though there was no real data behind it. 06:56 – Modern Research and Findings They walk through what today’s research actually shows, including cases where people with little or no testosterone still developed prostate cancer. 14:19 – Conclusions and Reflections They wrap up by reminding us how powerful stories can shape beliefs—even in medicine—and why it’s so important to keep questioning what we think we know. Resources: Morgentaler, A., & Caliber, M. (2019). Safety of testosterone therapy in men with prostate cancer. Expert Opinion on Drug Safety, 18(11), 1065–1076. https://doi.org/10.1080/14740338.2019.1666103 Gooren, L., & Lips, P. (2014). Conjectures concerning cross-sex hormone treatment of aging transsexual persons. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 11(8), 2012–2019. https://doi.org/10.1111/jsm.12563 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerMyths #TestosteroneAndCancer #MedicalMisconceptions
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Why Great Sex Gets Boring, And How to Fix It (Advice From a Sex Therapist)
05/12/2025
Why Great Sex Gets Boring, And How to Fix It (Advice From a Sex Therapist)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how keeping sex exciting isn’t just about trying new things—it’s about learning the emotional skill of lovemaking and the raw intensity of fucking, and why mastering both can truly transform your relationship. 00:54 – Dual Skills: Love Making and Fucking Dr. Brandon introduces the idea that keeping sex exciting means developing both emotional and physical intimacy as distinct but essential skills. 01:21 – Mastering Love Making She explains how true lovemaking comes from the heart—using emotion, eye contact, and vulnerability to deepen connection. 03:01 – Mastering Fucking She dives into the raw, body-driven side of sex, where showing desire openly becomes its own powerful form of intimacy. 04:18 – Balancing Both for Excitement Dr. Brandon emphasizes that long-term sexual fulfillment comes from practicing and switching between both styles. 07:41 – Practical Tips and Conclusion She offers practical ways to get started, encouraging couples to build comfort slowly, stay emotionally present, and keep things playful. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CouplesIntimacy #SexualSatisfaction #BalancingLoveAndDesire
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How Porn Affects Your Kids, And How Parents Can Help (Sex Therapist Explains)
05/08/2025
How Porn Affects Your Kids, And How Parents Can Help (Sex Therapist Explains)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down why it's time for parents to have honest, compassionate conversations with their kids about porn—because chances are, they've already seen it. 00:31 – Shocking Statistics on Kids and Porn She shares eye-opening stats on just how young—and how often—kids are being exposed to porn, often in places parents least expect. 02:29 – The Impact of Porn on Adolescent Brains Dr. Brandon explains how adolescent brains are rewired by what they see—and why porn can have a deeper impact than you think. 04:45 – Intentional vs. Accidental Exposure She breaks down how much of this exposure is accidental—and why that matters even more than you might assume. 06:38 – Aggressive Content and Its Effects Half the content kids see includes violence or pain, shaping harmful beliefs about what sex “should” look like. 09:03 – Parental Guidance and Taking Action Dr. Brandon urges parents to stop avoiding the topic and gives a first step for starting the porn talk with compassion, not shame. Resources: Robb, M. B., & Mann, S. (2022). Teens and pornography. Common Sense Media. https://www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornography With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ParentingAdvice #PornEducation #HealthySexuality
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The FDA Was WRONG About Testosterone?! Major Label Update Explained
05/05/2025
The FDA Was WRONG About Testosterone?! Major Label Update Explained
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the FDA finally reversing its stance on testosterone risks, what that means for heart health, and why it’s a big win for science—and for patients. 00:07 – FDA's New Stance on Testosterone In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon unpack the FDA’s surprising move to ease its warning on testosterone—and why it’s such a big deal. 00:46 – Understanding the Black Box Warning They explain what a black box warning really means and how it ended up on testosterone products in the first place. 03:22 – Testosterone and Cardiovascular Health The doctors dive into new research showing testosterone may not just be safe—it could actually help protect the heart. 09:15 – FDA's Role and Influence They explore how the FDA shapes medical decisions, where it gets things right, and where it might be holding us back. 15:53 – Testosterone Treatments for Women Finally, they touch on the frustrating lack of approved testosterone options for women—and why it’s time that changed. Resources: Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., Li, X., Yi, T., Huang, B., Pencina, K. M., Travison, T. G., & Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #FDAUpdates #HeartHealth
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Do Age Gaps Relationships In Relationships Work? (Doctors Explain)
05/01/2025
Do Age Gaps Relationships In Relationships Work? (Doctors Explain)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how age differences in heterosexual relationships—especially when the man is older—can support emotional balance, sexual compatibility, and long-term connection. 00:10 Discussing Age Differences in Relationships Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon dive into why age gaps—especially older man, younger woman—are a hot and often misunderstood topic. 00:48 Personal Experiences with Age Differences Dr. Morgentaler shares how his own happy marriage with a younger partner adds personal insight to the conversation. 02:08 Evolutionary Psychology and Sexual Relevance They explain how biology and societal norms make men stay “sexually relevant” longer, shaping relationship dynamics. 08:53 Leadership Dynamics in Age-Different Relationships Age gaps often create natural leadership roles that help reduce tension and bring clarity to long-term partnerships. 16:55 Conclusion and Subscription Call The doctors wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to subscribe for more real, relatable talk on relationships and sex. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AgeGapRelationships #RelationshipDynamics #LongTermCompatibility
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The Truth About Sex Drive in Long-Term Relationships (From a Sex Therapist)
04/28/2025
The Truth About Sex Drive in Long-Term Relationships (From a Sex Therapist)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses why men tend to have a higher sex drive than women in long-term relationships—and how biology, emotional patterns, and relationship dynamics all play a role. 00:41 Research and Misconceptions Dr. Brandon breaks down how common beliefs about equal sex drives aren't backed by actual research. 01:56 Impact of Relationship Duration She explains how women’s sex drive often drops in long-term relationships, even if it was high early on. 04:36 Dual Control Model of Sexual Desire The model shows how desire depends on a balance between what turns someone on and what shuts them down. 05:49 Inhibitory and Excitatory Factors Women tend to have more things that reduce desire and fewer that boost it—especially over time. 11:37 Understanding and Improving Intimacy Dr. Brandon emphasizes that couples aren’t stuck—understanding these dynamics can help rebuild connection. Resources: Bancroft, J., & Janssen, E. (2000). The dual control model of male sexual response: A theoretical approach to centrally mediated erectile dysfunction. Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews, 24(5), 571–579. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0149-7634(00)00024-5 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexDriveDifferences #LongTermRelationships #SexualDesireUnderstanding
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Why Men Are Choosing Porn Over People (This is Destroying Men’s Sexual Confidence)
04/24/2025
Why Men Are Choosing Porn Over People (This is Destroying Men’s Sexual Confidence)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the hidden sexism in how we view male sexual dysfunction—and why showing more compassion and understanding could be the key to healthier intimacy and human connection. 00:25 – Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Dr. Brandon explains why we shame men for something biological, while ignoring how crucial arousal is to their ability to even participate in sex. 02:31 – Premature Ejaculation: A Double Standard She calls out the unfairness—when women orgasm quickly, it’s praised; when men do, they’re blamed. 03:40 – Delayed Ejaculation: Misconceptions and Bias Dr. Brandon highlights how men struggling to orgasm are judged harshly, while women in the same situation are offered empathy and space. 04:56 – The Impact of Sexism on Men's Mental Health She shows how these double standards fuel shame, anxiety, and avoidance in men, often pushing them further into isolation. 05:44 – The Role of Sex Tech in Modern Relationships With tech offering pleasure without judgment, Dr. Brandon warns that if we don’t change the conversation, human connection might lose the race. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MaleSexualDysfunction #SexismInSexuality #SexTech
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The 7 Hidden Reasons Behind Sex Addiction (They're Not What You Think)
04/21/2025
The 7 Hidden Reasons Behind Sex Addiction (They're Not What You Think)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the controversy and complexity behind compulsive sexual behavior disorder—why it’s hard to define, what fuels it, and why personalized treatment is key to real healing. 00:13 – Controversy and Definitions Dr. Brandon unpacks why even experts can’t agree on what to call compulsive sexual behavior—and why that really matters for those seeking help. 00:56 – Defining Compulsive Behavior She tackles the tricky question: how much is too much when it comes to sex, porn, or masturbation? 01:46 – Pornography and Masturbation Statistics Dr. Brandon shares surprising stats that reveal just how common these behaviors are—and why that complicates the conversation. 02:55 – Underlying Causes of Compulsive Behavior She breaks down the real drivers behind compulsive sexual behavior—from depression and ADHD to personality traits and emotional avoidance. 05:46 – Treatment Approaches and Challenges Dr. Brandon explains why treatment isn’t one-size-fits-all—healing often means digging deep, finding the root causes, and combining therapy with medication. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #CompulsiveSexualBehavior #SexualHealthAwareness #MentalHealthTreatment
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Make Him CRAVE You Sexually (He Won't Resist)
04/17/2025
Make Him CRAVE You Sexually (He Won't Resist)
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can create sexual tension by showing up with openness and confidence—because great sex needs that balance of strength and vulnerability. 00:03 – The Strength in Vulnerability Dr. Brandon explains that true vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s a powerful way to connect and feel more in tune with your body. 00:07 – Cultivating Openness: Practical Tips She encourages women to explore what openness feels like and find safe, simple ways to reconnect with that part of themselves. 00:13 – Exploring Hip Opener Poses Using yoga hip-opener poses is one tool she recommends to physically and emotionally practice being open and relaxed. 00:42 – Practicing Vulnerability Alone Dr. Brandon suggests practicing this kind of openness alone first, so it feels more natural and enjoyable with a partner. 00:52 – Conclusion: Manifesting Sensual Openness She closes by saying the goal is to bring that sensual, open energy into your daily life—not just in bed—to build real intimacy. #SexualTension #RelationshipAdvice #WomenEmpowerment
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How to Feel Turned On Again (Even After YEARS Together)
04/14/2025
How to Feel Turned On Again (Even After YEARS Together)
With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women in long-term relationships can reignite desire by getting in tune with their bodies and putting in small, daily effort—because waiting for it to magically come back usually doesn’t work. 00:42 – Common Concerns and Initial Solutions Dr. Brandon explains that many women love their partner but feel a lack of desire, and suggests checking hormones or trying medication as a first step. 01:24 – Understanding Human Nature and Desire She shares that losing desire over time is normal—our biology isn’t wired for lifelong passion with one partner. 02:37 – Practical Tips to Rekindle Desire To spark desire, she recommends exploring what turns you on and giving your body daily reminders of sex in a fun, low-pressure way. 03:46 – Effort and Mindfulness in Sexual Desire Dr. Brandon emphasizes that reigniting desire takes time and effort—mindfulness can help you stay connected during sex. 05:27 – Conclusion and Encouragement She encourages women to let go of guilt, embrace the process, and see desire as something worth investing in for themselves and their relationships. #SexualDesire #LongTermRelationships #RekindlingPassion
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5 Ways to Make ANY Woman Want You (Most Guys Get This Wrong)
04/07/2025
5 Ways to Make ANY Woman Want You (Most Guys Get This Wrong)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon breaks down how men can become more compelling to women—not through money or looks, but by mastering presence, eye contact, body posture, and speaking with grounded intention to build deep emotional and sexual connection. 00:31 – The Power of Presence and Attention: Dr. Brandon explains how just being fully present and focused can make a man way more attractive to women. 01:08 – Mastering Eye Contact and Body Language: Learn how to stand strong, stay grounded, and use eye contact that makes her feel truly seen. 02:40 – Deep Communication: Speaking from Within: Instead of talking from your head, Dr. Brandon shows how to speak with energy from deep in your body—she’ll feel the difference. 03:22 – Practicing and Refining Your Skills: This stuff takes practice, but you can try it anywhere—even just standing in front of a mirror. 04:41 – The Importance of Human Connection: As AI grows, Dr. Brandon reminds us why real human connection and intimacy matter now more than ever. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAdvice #AttractingWomen #ImprovingIntimacy
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Weird Things That Turn People On (And You Have No Control Over)
03/31/2025
Weird Things That Turn People On (And You Have No Control Over)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about the complexity of human desire, the conflict between what we think we should want versus what our bodies actually crave, and how sex tech is reshaping intimacy and relationships. 00:01 The Struggle Between Desire and Expectations – People often feel torn between what they think they should want and what actually excites them. 00:47 The Reality of Human Sexuality – Attraction doesn’t always follow the rules we expect, which can create real challenges in relationships. 01:06 The Dessert Analogy: Understanding Bodily Desires – Just like craving chocolate cake over fruit, we can’t control what turns us on, even if we choose differently. 02:35 Sex Tech: Personalization and Its Implications – Sex tech can be customized in ways human partners can’t, which makes it powerful but also complicated. 04:06 The Future of Sex and Technology – As tech keeps evolving, we need to think about how it fits into our lives and relationships. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #HumanSexuality #SexTechImpact #IntimacyAndTechnology
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People Are Falling in Love With AI (And It's Going to Get Worse)
03/27/2025
People Are Falling in Love With AI (And It's Going to Get Worse)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon explores whether people can fall in love with sex tech, discussing how technology can fulfill emotional and physical needs in ways that challenge traditional human relationships. 00:00 Can We Love Our Sex Tech? – Dr. Brandon questions whether people can truly fall in love with chatbots, avatars, and sex robots. 00:33 Changing Perspectives on Love and Technology – Initially skeptical, Dr. Brandon now believes love for tech is possible based on evolving human connections. 00:44 Understanding Love: Neurochemicals and Emotions – Love is driven by brain chemistry, and if tech can trigger those same feelings, attachment is inevitable. 01:10 Tech as a Companion: Meeting Unmet Needs – Sex tech isn't just about pleasure; it can provide emotional support and companionship where human relationships fall short. 02:47 Human Partners vs. Tech: The Misconceptions – While most may still prefer human relationships, tech offers convenience, consistency, and a different kind of fulfillment. 05:04 Mindfulness and the Future of Love with Tech – As tech advances, we must be intentional about how we engage with it and prioritize real human connections. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTech #EmotionalAttachments #HumanVsTechRelationships
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How to Make Your Partner Want You (Without Begging)
03/24/2025
How to Make Your Partner Want You (Without Begging)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses how to make sex in long-term relationships “worth wanting” by focusing on body awareness, emotional connection, variety, and vulnerability to keep passion alive. 00:00 Is Your Sex Worth Wanting? – Dr. Brandon challenges the idea of low libido, asking whether the sex itself is fulfilling and worth desiring. 00:28 Building a Connection with Your Body – Feeling present in your body through mindfulness, yoga, or meditation is key to enjoying a satisfying sex life. 01:29 Maintaining a Loving Relationship – Treating your partner with kindness, respect, and gratitude daily strengthens intimacy and passion over time. 02:14 Bringing New Energy to the Bedroom – Changing up sexual energy—whether loving, intense, or sensual—keeps things fresh and exciting. 03:45 Embracing Vulnerability – Being open and emotionally exposed in intimate moments helps deepen connection and enhance passion. 05:41 Tips for Men and Women – Women can practice vulnerability through body openness, while men can increase passion by expressing desire through eye contact. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualHealth #LongTermRelationships #SexualSatisfaction
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Crazy Study PROVES Why Men & Women Think Differently (And It’s Not What You'd Expect)
03/17/2025
Crazy Study PROVES Why Men & Women Think Differently (And It’s Not What You'd Expect)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about sex differences and whether they are shaped by biology or socialization, exploring a fascinating study that even questions if roosters and hens are "socialized" differently. 00:06 Favorite Study: Nature vs. Nurture – Dr. Brandon shares her excitement about a study exploring whether sex differences come from biology or socialization. 00:58 Study Methodology and Examples – The study surveyed participants on whether traits in men, women, boys, girls, and even animals were shaped by nature or nurture. 02:35 Chickens and Roosters: A Hilarious Insight – Some participants hilariously applied socialization theories to roosters and hens, despite clear biological differences. 07:04 Sex Differences in Humans – Dr. Morgentaler explains how testosterone and biology influence male and female behavior, especially in relationships and sex. 17:32 Parenting and Cultivating Traits – Parents often try to balance gender traits, but overcorrecting can lead to challenges in romantic relationships later in life. Resources: Geher, G., & Gambacorta, D. (2010). Evolution is not relevant to sex differences in humans because I want it that way! Evidence for the politicization of human evolutionary psychology. EvoS Journal. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexDifferences #NatureVsNurture #GenderRoles
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Sexless Relationship? Here’s the Secret to Fixing It
03/13/2025
Sexless Relationship? Here’s the Secret to Fixing It
In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about desire discrepancy in relationships, offering practical strategies like finding non-intercourse intimacy, scheduling sex, and taking turns initiating to help couples stay connected and balanced. 00:00 Intro to Scheduling Sex – Dr. Brandon introduces the idea of scheduling sex as a way to improve intimacy and connection. 00:01 Common Objections to Scheduling – Many couples resist scheduling sex, believing it should be spontaneous, but Dr. Brandon encourages them to try it. 00:11 The Benefits of Scheduling – Planning sex helps lower-desire partners prepare mentally and physically, leading to a better experience for both. 00:18 Understanding Different Desire Levels – Higher-desire partners gain energy from sex, while lower-desire partners see it as requiring effort. 00:31 The Importance of Energy Management – Scheduling allows lower-desire partners to plan their energy and mindset for a more enjoyable experience. 00:40 Practical Tips for Scheduling Sex – Dr. Brandon suggests taking turns initiating, setting the mood, and creating a routine that works for both partners. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #FemaleHealth #Education #NoShame
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Women Squirting EXPLAINED (The Science Will Blow Your Mind)
03/10/2025
Women Squirting EXPLAINED (The Science Will Blow Your Mind)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon break down the science behind female squirting vs. ejaculation, discussing myths, research, and the role of Skene’s glands—ultimately concluding that all orgasms are valid. 00:13 Understanding Female Squirting – Dr. Brandon explains what squirting is and how it differs from female ejaculation. 00:51 Scientific Research on Female Ejaculation – Studies show that some fluid contains PSA, linking it to male prostate secretions. 03:39 Debunking Myths and Misconceptions – Common misunderstandings, including the influence of porn, are discussed. 06:40 The Study: Methods and Findings – A Japanese study confirms that squirting is mostly urine mixed with glandular secretions. 18:45 Conclusions and Final Thoughts – The doctors emphasize that all orgasms are valid, and there’s no need for shame or stigma. Resources: Inoue, M., Sekiguchi, Y., Ninomiya, N., Kobayashi, T., & Araki, M. (2022). Enhanced visualization of female squirting. International Journal of Urology, 29(11), 1125–1131. https://doi.org/10.1111/iju.15004 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #FemaleHealth #Education #NoShame
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6 Mind-Blowing Ways Sex Tech Can Make Your Relationship Stronger
03/06/2025
6 Mind-Blowing Ways Sex Tech Can Make Your Relationship Stronger
In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses integrating sex tech into relationships, balancing tech use with emotional connection, and using different tools like vibrators, porn, and VR to enhance intimacy. 01:51 Traditional Sex Toys Dr. Brandon discusses using sex toys to increase stimulation, but highlights the importance of staying connected with your partner. 03:20 Porn in Relationships She talks about how to introduce porn carefully into a relationship without causing issues. 04:52 VR Porn Dr. Brandon explains how VR porn can make things more exciting, but it’s important to stay focused on your partner. 06:22 Chatbots and Live Shows She shares how chatbots and live sex shows can add fun, but should be used thoughtfully to keep balance. 08:33 Balancing Tech and Lovemaking Dr. Brandon emphasizes the need to mix tech with traditional lovemaking to maintain a strong emotional connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexTechIntegration #MindfulTechUse #BalancedRelationships
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Why ADHD Sabotages Your Sex Life (And How to Take Control)
03/03/2025
Why ADHD Sabotages Your Sex Life (And How to Take Control)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss the connection between ADD, ADHD and sexual dysfunction, including common issues like orgasm problems, the impact of medications, and potential treatments. 00:18 Research Insights on Sexual Dysfunction and ADHD Dr. Morgenthaler and Dr. Brandon discuss new research linking sexual dysfunction with ADHD symptoms, highlighting the impact on both men and women. 01:28 Challenges and Medication Effects The speakers explore how medications for ADHD, like Adderall, can negatively affect sexual function, including issues with arousal and erections. 05:21 Practical Solutions for Men They suggest practical solutions for men dealing with sexual issues related to ADHD, such as using vibrators or medications like Viagra and Cialis to enhance sexual performance. 11:38 Practical Solutions for Women For women, the doctors recommend mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, and the use of sex toys to help maintain focus during intimacy and improve sexual experiences. Resources: Goldberg, S. Y., Thulin, M. C., Kim, H. S., & Dawson, S. J. (2024). Distressing problems with sexual function and symptoms of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 53(10), 3739-3745. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-024-02977-4. Epub 2024 Aug 19. PMID: 39158790. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ADDandSexualDysfunction #ADDTreatmentOptions #MindfulnessAndSexualHealth
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EVERYTHING You Need to Know About Testosterone Therapy (The Good, The Bad, and The Myths)
02/27/2025
EVERYTHING You Need to Know About Testosterone Therapy (The Good, The Bad, and The Myths)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the rise in testosterone prescriptions, the challenges of mainstream medicine in recognizing testosterone deficiency, and the importance of proper diagnosis and monitoring for effective treatment. 00:06 Testosterone Therapy in the Media: Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the growing media buzz around testosterone therapy and its promotion by clinics. 00:51 Challenges in Mainstream Medicine: They discuss the reluctance of many doctors to prescribe testosterone therapy, even for men who clearly need it. 03:25 Addressing Common Concerns: The doctors address concerns like prostate cancer and heart risks, reassuring that recent studies show these aren’t real dangers. 07:11 Understanding Low Testosterone: Dr. Morgentaler explains the symptoms of low testosterone, like tiredness and low mood, and why it’s important to get properly tested. 18:22 Final Thoughts and Advice: They encourage seeking treatment from trusted providers and making sure testosterone therapy is carefully monitored for safety. Resources: Dodge, D. (2025, January 25). Everything you need to know about testosterone therapy. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/25/well/live/everything-you-need-to-know-about-testosterone-therapy.html With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #MensHealth #SafeTreatment
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Do All Cheaters Feel Guilty? (The Answer Will Shock You)
02/24/2025
Do All Cheaters Feel Guilty? (The Answer Will Shock You)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about why some people cheat without guilt, based on a survey of Ashley Madison users, and identify the motivations behind their actions. 00:14 Ashley Madison and Cheating Motivations: Dr. Morgenthaler and Dr. Brandon discuss a 2023 study from The Archives of Sexual Behavior, examining why users of the Ashley Madison website cheat without guilt. 01:27 Survey Findings and Participant Demographics: The study revealed that most participants were middle-aged, with a significant number being repeat offenders who had prior infidelity experiences and permission from their partners. 02:05 Generalizability and Specificity of the Study: Dr. Morgenthaler and Dr. Brandon discuss the study's limited applicability to the general population, given the specific, risk-taking group surveyed, who were already open about their past affairs. 05:39 Sexual Dissatisfaction and Autonomy: The main motivations behind infidelity were sexual dissatisfaction and a desire for personal autonomy, with many users feeling that their sexual needs weren’t being met in their primary relationships. 08:53 Addressing Sexual Issues in Long-Term Relationships: They emphasize the importance of open communication and proactive solutions to address sexual dissatisfaction, recognizing the challenges of maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships. Resources: Selterman, D., Joel, S., & Dale, V. (2023). Correction to: No remorse: Sexual infidelity is not clearly linked with relationship satisfaction or well-being in Ashley Madison users. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 52(9), 2575. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-023-02608-4 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #InfidelityResearch #SexualDissatisfaction #CommunicationInRelationships
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Woman Falls In Love with AI Chatbot (Should We Be Worried?)
02/20/2025
Woman Falls In Love with AI Chatbot (Should We Be Worried?)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss a New York Times article on AI chatbots, exploring their emotional impact, ethical concerns, and how they’re reshaping human relationships—from companionship to intimacy. 00:04 The New York Times Article on Chatbots – Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss a New York Times piece about a woman who fell in love with an AI chatbot. 00:51 Understanding Chatbots and Their Impact – How AI chatbots mimic human behavior, meet emotional needs, and evolve beyond simple conversation. 02:35 Ethical Concerns and Legal Issues – The dangers of chatbots, including manipulative AI interactions and a lawsuit involving a chatbot-linked tragedy. 06:32 Human Interaction vs. Chatbots – Comparing real human relationships to chatbot companionship and how AI is changing social interactions. 11:46 The Future of Intimacy with Chatbots – Exploring the growing role of AI in relationships, intimacy, and the psychology of human connection. Resources: Hill, K. (2025, January 15). She is in love with chatbot GPT. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/15/technology/ai-chatgpt-boyfriend-companion.html With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AIChatbots #EthicalConcernsInAI #FutureOfHumanConnection
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Testosterone Ads Are Everywhere! (What AREN'T They Telling You?)
02/17/2025
Testosterone Ads Are Everywhere! (What AREN'T They Telling You?)
In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss the explosion of testosterone ads, the growing media interest, and the potential risks of overhyping testosterone therapy while addressing the medical community’s resistance, FDA regulations, and the importance of proper testing and diagnosis. 00:10 The Testosterone Ad Invasion – Testosterone ads are everywhere, making bold claims about performance and health benefits. 01:05 Media Frenzy and Personal Reactions – Dr. Morgentaler shares how major media outlets are suddenly covering testosterone and why he has mixed feelings about it. 02:43 Misconceptions and Misuse – The hype around testosterone often ignores the reality that it should only be used for true deficiencies, not as a miracle fix. 03:19 The Medical Community's Stance – Many mainstream doctors remain skeptical, while alternative practitioners are more open to prescribing testosterone therapy. 09:19 FDA Regulations and Challenges – The FDA tightly controls testosterone, adding warnings and restrictions that make access more difficult for those who truly need it. 10:46 Advice for Consumers – Those considering testosterone should seek knowledgeable doctors, get proper testing, and be cautious of misleading marketing claims. Resources: Baillargeon, J., Kuo, Y., Westra, J. R., Urban, R. J., & Goodwin, J. S. (2018). Testosterone prescribing in the United States, 2002–2016. JAMA, 320(2), 200–202. https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.2018.7999 Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., & TRAVERSE Study Investigators. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #MedicalMisconceptions #HealthcareDebate
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Monkeys Like Porn? (Crazy Study Reveals WHAT?!)
02/13/2025
Monkeys Like Porn? (Crazy Study Reveals WHAT?!)
In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss fascinating research on primates and sexual imagery, revealing how apes, like humans, show a natural interest in visual stimuli—and even "pay" to watch it! 00:00 Introduction: Do Apes Like Porn? In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler dive into fascinating research exploring whether apes are naturally drawn to explicit content. 00:01 Cultural Impact of Porn They discuss how porn remains a controversial topic in human society, yet even primates seem to have an instinctive attraction to sexual imagery. 00:14 Chimpanzees and Porn: The Research Studies show that chimpanzees, when given the option, choose to watch explicit images, raising questions about innate sexual curiosity in primates. 00:19 Pay Per View Study A fascinating experiment revealed that primates would "pay" juice in exchange for viewing explicit content, suggesting a strong interest in sexual imagery. 00:23 Macaques and Juice Payment Male macaques were observed willingly giving up juice rewards to access sexually explicit images, indicating a biological drive for visual sexual stimuli. 00:31 Surprising Willingness The researchers found that not only do primates prefer watching explicit content, but they also favor images of human genitals over those of their own species. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PrimateSexualBehavior #VisualSexualStimuli #EvolutionaryBiology
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