Uninvited To The Table: The Cost of Coming Out to Family
Release Date: 06/19/2025
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info_outlineIn this raw and soul-stirring episode of The Healing Version, host Deborah creates space for the truth so many LGBTQ+ people carry in silence: the pain, courage, and complexity of coming out—especially to family.
Coming out is often portrayed as a celebration, but for many, it’s met with silence, shame, or outright rejection. In this episode, Deborah unpacks the emotional weight of telling the truth about who you are, what it costs when that truth isn’t received with love, and how to begin healing when home no longer feels safe.
With powerful reflections and real listener stories, Deborah reminds us that coming out isn’t just about sexuality—it’s about coming back to yourself. You’ll hear affirmations for anyone who’s ever had to hide, encouragement for those still finding their voice, and a message for families learning to love better.
Because healing starts with truth. And on The Healing Version, we honor every version of who you are.
🌈 This episode is for the ones who came out and lost everything—and the ones still waiting to be fully seen.
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