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DOD185: "My Partner Won't Get Help and I Feel Stuck..."

Dear Old Dads

Release Date: 02/14/2025

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Dear Old Dads

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DOD185: DOD185: "My Partner Won't Get Help and I Feel Stuck..."

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The dads do their best to help a listener with a tough marriage/parenting problem. Their partner behaves terribly both with them and with the kids, but blames it on self-diagnosed mental health issues. Where is the line between accommodating and being taken advantage of? Join the Facebook Group! For comments, email For extended episodes, bonus content, and most importantly, for an AD FREE SHOW, make sure to !

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The dads do their best to help a listener with a tough marriage/parenting problem. Their partner behaves terribly both with them and with the kids, but blames it on self-diagnosed mental health issues. Where is the line between accommodating and being taken advantage of?

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