Ep 29 - The Hidden Brain Mistakes That Make Goals Feel Exhausting
Release Date: 12/31/2025
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info_outlineWelcome back to Building Your Best Brain đ§ â¨
As we close out the final days of 2025, todayâs episode dives into the neuroscience behind how to actually enjoy the journey toward your goalsânot just push through it.
So many of us struggle to stay motivated and consistent. Not because we lack discipline or desire, but because of how our goals are set up and because no one ever taught us how the brain really works in the process.
These struggles often show up as familiar pain pointsâand in this episode, we unpack them together so you can start shifting them as you move into 2026.
In this episode, we explore the science behindâand practical ways to shiftâthese five common pain points:
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Feeling like you donât have enough time
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Being overly focused on the end goal
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Believing youâre not making progress
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Fearing it wonât happen
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Never feeling like youâve âmade it,â even when you have
⨠Your homework:
Choose one of these pain points (alongside your current goal) and begin gently working with it as you head into 2026.
If youâd like support, or if anything felt unclear, feel free to leave a comment or send me a DM. It would truly be an honour to support you in moving closer to your goalsâbecause you are an incredible human and more than capable of creating what you want.
Free Resources
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Ep 24 - From Thought Spiral to Stillness: The Neuroscience of Neutrality
Ep 13 - Stress is not BAD for your brain and here is WHY
Ep 28 - Your Brain Doesnât Like Your Goals
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