Letting Go Without Losing Them: Parenting Adult Children With Peace + Prayer

Welcome to "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children"

Join host Laine Lawson Craft and returning guest Kathy Cunningham for this powerful episode:
Letting Go Without Losing Them: Parenting Adult Children With Peace + Prayer

Whether you’re facing a crisis with prodigal children, struggling to give spiritual guidance, or learning to let go of adult children, this episode is packed with hope-filled, biblical strategies and heartfelt wisdom. Laine and Kathy dive deep into emotional transitions, trust, boundaries, and practical ways to love your adult children without losing connection.

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Resources & Links Mentioned

• Laine Lawson Craft’s website & FREE resources: lainelawsoncraft.com
  • Get the first 10 days of Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child FREE!
• Kathy Cunningham’s website & Membership Community: kathyCunningham.org
  • Details on the Grace Restored Membership, Uncovered Grace Course, and support groups.
• Rate & Review the Podcast: Subscribe and review on your favorite platform to help other struggling parents find hope.

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Kathy Cunningham

is a renowned Christian author, speaker, and parental strategist, specializing in healing family dynamics and restoring relationships between parents and their adult children. With personal experience navigating her son's 15-year battle with addiction and a heartfelt journey of releasing control to trust in God, Kathy brings wisdom grounded in scripture and real-life application. Founder of Grace Restored Membership, Kathy empowers parents through online courses, workshops, and an active support community, fostering emotional and spiritual growth. Her Uncovered Grace course delves into personal healing, breaking toxic family patterns, and rediscovering faith-based resilience. Kathy is dedicated to offering compassionate counsel, putting prayer and unconditional love at the center of her ministry.

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Key Talking Points

• How to discern between supporting and interfering with adult children
• Approaching concerns with humility instead of intrusion
• Trusting God in real time when children’s choices conflict with your values
• The power of prayer over fear and control
• Loving from a healthy distance while maintaining connection
• Emotional transition from provider/protector to advisor/encourager
• Setting respectful boundaries (holidays, unsolicited advice, home visits)
• How to rebuild connection after “holding on too tightly”
• Biblical examples of godly parents letting go (Hannah, Mary, prodigal’s father, Abraham)
• The importance of parental support groups for healing and hope

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Detailed Timestamps (YouTube Format)

00:00:02 – Intro: Warfare Parenting’s Mission
00:00:54 – Emotional Transition: Letting Go of Adult Children
00:02:02 – Support vs. Interference Explained
00:03:39 – Gently Addressing Concerns Without Intrusion
00:05:11 – Healthy Ways to Offer Feedback
00:05:36 – Trusting God When You Disagree
00:06:48 – Prayer Over Control & Painful Experiences
00:08:47 – Loving Unconditionally Amid Lifestyle Differences
00:09:43 – Becoming Advisors and Encouragers
00:10:40 – Boundaries That Preserve Peace
00:12:34 – Family Traditions and Holiday Respect
00:14:25 – Rebuilding Connection After Overstepping
00:15:15 – Biblical Examples: Letting Go in Faith
00:17:19 – Laying Children at God’s Altar
00:18:39 – Never Losing Hope—Mission of Warfare Parenting
00:19:10 – Kathy’s Grace Restored Membership & Resources
00:21:23 – Final Encouragement: Grow, Trust, Join Support Groups
00:22:40 – Outro, Special Resources & Next Episode Preview

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Conclusion

This conversation with Laine Lawson Craft and Kathy Cunningham offers a compassionate roadmap for healing, letting go, and staying spiritually anchored while parenting adult children. With honest stories and biblical grounding, you’re equipped to find peace, hold on to hope, and rebuild trust. Subscribe, share, and rate to help other families grow in faith as they navigate the hardest seasons of parenting.