093: The Hidden Cost Of Putting Yourself Last On Your To Do List
Boldly Living Your Everyday | Health and Mindset Coach For Women, Macros Coach, FASTer Way Coach
Release Date: 09/16/2025
Boldly Living Your Everyday | Health and Mindset Coach For Women, Macros Coach, FASTer Way Coach
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info_outlineIf you’re honest… where do you fall on your own to-do list? For most women, the answer is dead last somewhere after laundry, errands, kids’ activities, work, and whatever everyone else needs.
But here’s the truth no one talks about: constantly putting yourself last comes with a cost. A cost you’re already paying in your health, energy, relationships, and even your confidence.
In this episode, I’m breaking down:
The myth of “I’ll start when…” and why it’s holding you back
The physical, mental, and emotional toll of neglecting yourself
How your relationships suffer when you’re running on empty
Simple, realistic ways to make yourself a priority without guilt
If you’ve been telling yourself you’ll “get back to it” someday, consider this your wake-up call. You can’t keep pouring from an empty cup and you don’t have to.
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