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The Laws of Connection | #9

Release Date: 03/04/2025

Therapist Reacts: The Hidden Psychology of The Bear Season 4 | Harder to Breathe Podcast

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In this deep-dive episode, Ryan Dusick breaks down the complex family trauma, addiction, and healing portrayed in Season 4 of FX's "The Bear." Is it the most realistic depiction of a dysfunctional family on television? The kitchen in "The Bear" isn't just about food; it's a metaphor for a chaotic family system. In this one-on-one conversation, hosts Ryan Dusick and Brian “Duck” Maillard explore why we are drawn to chaos, how generational trauma shapes our lives, and the difficult but rewarding journey of personal growth. We analyze the character arcs of Carmy, Sugar,...

How Blind Athlete Anthony Ferraro Defied the Odds and Found His Voice | Harder to Breathe Podcast

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What does it take to be truly unstoppable? In this powerful episode of Harder to Breathe, we sit down with wrestler, Paralympian, skateboarder, musician, and motivational speaker Anthony Ferraro, who has accomplished it all while being blind. Anthony shares his incredible story, from growing up as a visually impaired kid in a massive family to becoming a champion wrestler who faced constant prejudice from parents and coaches. He opens up about the crushing rejection from a high school that didn't want him, the journey of making the documentary "A Shot in the Dark" in his late...

From Psychosis to Eurovision: Turning Pain Into Power with X. ARI | Harder to Breathe Podcast

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How do you turn your deepest pain into your greatest power? In this episode of The Harder to Breathe Podcast, we sit down with the unstoppable X ARI—a bold musical artist, fierce mental health advocate, and a true psychosis survivor whose story will leave you breathless.  From surviving bipolar disorder, ADHD, PTSD, and multiple hospitalizations, to becoming a globally recognized queer songwriter and performing alongside K-pop and Eurovision acts—X ARI shares how she reclaimed her life through radical self-acceptance, love, music, and healing. 🎶💜  In this powerful interview,...

How a Rock Star Healed His Depression & Addiction | Kyle Nicolaides | Harder to Breathe Podcast

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Dive deep with us as we explore the complex relationship between depression, healing, and the controversial world of plant medicine with Kyle Nicolaides, former frontman of Beware of Darkness and author of "Thank God for Depression." From rockstar struggles to spiritual awakenings, this conversation is raw, honest, and thought-provoking. 🌿✨ 🎧 In this episode, we cover: [00:02:17] Thank God for Depression: Reframing Painful Experiences as Lessons for Growth. [00:04:50] The Fear of Psychedelics: Navigating Loss of Control and New Mindstates. [00:11:00] When Early Success...

A Doctor's Plan to Fix Insomnia & Anxiety for Good | Dr. Michael Breus | Harder to Breathe Podcast

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😴Struggling to get good sleep? 💤 Dr. Michael Breus shares actionable hacks to ditch insomnia & quiet your mind! Learn the REAL keys to restful sleep - no matter your schedule. Is it time to get over anxiety? 🎧 In this episode, we cover: [00:20:00] The Sleep Doctor's Serendipitous Journey [00:27:30] Quality VS Quantity - Cracking the Sleep Code [00:28:45] Fear-Based Insomnia [00:40:48] The Truth About Benzodiazepines [00:50:37] Are Sleep Supplements Helpful or Hype? [01:06:00] Silencing Monkey Mind [01:17:00] The Hardest Part of Fixing Your Sleep (Explained!) [01:31:30] Sex and...

Mental Health in a Divided World | Harder to Breathe Podcast

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Ryan Dusick and co-host Brian “Duck” Maillard confront the toxic political climate and its impact on our mental health, relationships, and society. Join the Harder to Breathe podcast as they delve into the challenging yet necessary conversation about politics, misinformation, and the path to healthier communication. They discuss everything from cult-like leader figures to finding personal coping mechanisms to address these difficult topics. Can we save democracy without losing ourselves in the process? 🎧 In this episode, we cover: [00:00:33] Why Talking About Politics is Stressful...

Overcoming Anxiety in a Tech-Driven World | Shira Lazar | The Harder to Breathe Podcast

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Tech vs. Mental Health: Can We Find Balance? 🤔 Shira Lazar from @Creators4MentalHealth joins us to explore the culture of the tech world, the anxieties it provokes, and how we can all find joy in the present moment. 🧘‍♀️ We talk purpose, mindfulness, & more! Listen for tangible advice to build! 💪 🎧 In this episode, we cover: [00:00:50] Overcoming tech-induced anxiety and finding your path. [00:22:30] How AI and new tech impact our wellness. [00:27:00] Being creative while handling fame at the same time! [00:35:00] The joys of staying in compared to going out (JOMO)....

Hillary Spiritos on Defining Success for Gen Z | The Harder To Breathe

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Join Ryan Dusik and co-host Brian “Duck” Maillard in a thought-provoking conversation with Hillary Spiritos, a certified Pathfinding Coach, on The Harder To Breathe Podcast. Dive into the unique challenges facing Gen Z, redefine success, and discover how to help young people navigate the modern world. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: [00:01:00] The struggles of aging and maintaining physical well-being. [00:04:00] Transitioning to a career as a youth coach. [00:08:00] Defining success for young people. [00:15:00] Coping as a non-binary person. [00:17:00] Finding positive routes to help...

Jeremy Sisto on Hollywood, Family, & Finding Purpose | The Harder To Breathe Podcast

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Ever wondered what it takes to build a lasting career in Hollywood? Join Ryan Dusick and Brian “Duck” Maillard as they chat with actor Jeremy Sisto about his journey through fame, family life, and the constant quest for authenticity. 🎧 In this episode, we cover: [00:01:00] Duck's "Cosmic Connections": Hear the hilarious and oddly specific reasons Duck is a Jeremy Sisto super-fan! [00:05:00] The Therapist's Toolkit: What go-to advice does Ryan find himself sharing with clients most often? [00:29:00] Authenticity in Hollywood: Jeremy discusses the balance of staying true to yourself...

Michele Lee UNFILTERED: Knots Landing, Broadway & Mental Health | Harder To Breathe Podcast

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🎙️ I’m beyond excited to share this deeply personal and incredibly special episode of The Harder To Breathe Podcast — featuring none other than my amazing aunt, the legendary Michele Lee! You know her from Knots Landing, How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying, Broadway, and a 50+ year career that's nothing short of iconic. But in this conversation, we go way beyond the headlines. It was an honor to sit down with Aunt Michele and my co-host Brian “Duck” Maillard for a raw, real, and heartfelt chat. We covered everything — from superstardom to family complexities...

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On today’s episode of “Harder to Breathe'', host, founding drummer of “Maroon 5”, and as of now… officially licensed therapist, Ryan Dusick is joined by co-host and actor Brian “Duck” Maillard for an eye-opening conversation with David Robson, a fantastic Science Journalist known for “The Laws of Connection”.

Despite growing up with terrible social anxiety, David has become an incredible writer and speaker. His ideas will change the way that you think about the mind, and in this episode, the three men discuss several of the laws of connection he writes about in his books, including “The Liking Gap”, the “Beautiful Mess Effect” and more.

As Duck points out, we are all the “Stars of our own Movies”, and as such we immediately tend to be harder on ourselves than we are on anyone else. We think that people don’t like us, and we’re quick to point out all of our own flaws. David’s science cracks open the ways that we are able to better connect with others, and moreover, why very intelligent people can be drawn to conspiracy theories, cults, and more.

It is one of the most fascinating episodes yet on the “Harder to Breathe” Podcast, and will quickly change the way that you look at the mind, social connection, and how the two are intrinsically linked with one another.

0:00:36 Introduction & Officially Licensed!

0:04:07 Seeking Validation

0:07:36 The Six-Year Journey

0:09:20 Finding the Positivity & Healthy Apologies

0:15:06 Navigating Fundamental Disagreements Within Society

0:19:51 Today’s Guest: David Robson

0:21:06 “Severance”: What Would You “Sever” from Your Life?

0:27:21 David Robson Joins the Podcast & Duck’s Anticipation

0:28:31 David’s Extensive Background

0:30:08 The “Science of Shyness” & The “Liking Gap”

0:38:51 The “Beautiful Mess” Effect

0:41:01 Seeking Human Connection

0:48:20 David’s Book: “The Laws of Connection”

0:55:21 Boundaries Within Family Relationships

1:02:56 “The Intelligence Trap”

1:07:21 Falling Prey to Motivated Reasoning

1:10:56 Mob Mentality

1:14:37 The Ultimate Catfish

1:16:31 “The Expectation Effect”

1:24:39 Absolving Yourself of Shame

1:31:31 Embracing Public Speaking from Shyness

1:389:18 Wrap Up & Conclusion

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