Defining Your Inner Circle

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast I dive into a transformative approach aimed at aiding individuals in moving from the habit of watching porn to leading lives filled with greater purpose and power. I introduce a powerful tool that I've incorporated into my personal recovery journey, borrowed from the recovery community, which I term "circle work." This method involves defining my "Inner Circle," "Middle Circle," and "Outer Circle" to navigate through various states of vulnerability and ensure a clear path towards recovery. The episode serves as a guide to help listeners understand how to identify and categorize behaviors that lead to porn consumption and how to actively work towards avoiding these triggers by engaging in positive, fulfilling activities.

 

Timeline Summary:

[00:42] Introduction to the concept of "Defining Your Inner Circle" as a pivotal tool in recovery and personal growth.

[02:07] Explanation of how relapses often sneak up on us and the importance of recognizing unhealthy or dangerous territory.

[03:36] The significance of creating clarity around what's healthy and what's not, and where to draw the line.

[06:00] Introduction to the concept of "circle work" and the importance of staying in the "Outer Circle" to avoid relapse.

[08:25] Detailed walkthrough on how to define your "Inner Circle," "Middle Circle," and "Outer Circle."

[11:48] Examples of behaviors that belong in the "Middle Circle" and how they can potentially lead to acting out.

[13:34] Discussion on "Outer Circle" behaviors that promote a healthy lifestyle and prevent relapse.

[15:29] Strategies for staying in the "Outer Circle" and the challenges of recognizing when you're in the "Middle Circle."

[18:37] Personal insights on recognizing fatigue and the importance of self-care to navigate back to the "Outer Circle."

[21:29] Encouragement to engage in this exercise of defining your circles and developing a plan of action for recovery.

Resources Mentioned:

Porn to Purpose Community on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/porntopurpose/): A supportive community where individuals can share experiences and find support on their journey to recovery.

Freedom from Porn Accelerator: A systematic guide available for download at www.porntopurpose.com, designed to help individuals overcome the urge to use porn.