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3 Ways Adults and Children Deal with Uncomfortable Emotions

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Release Date: 09/19/2024

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In this episode, I dive into how both children and adults handle and express uncomfortable feelings and why it’s important to understand them, and how to express them in healthy ways.

As an emotional intelligence coach, working with both children and adults, I have seen firsthand the impact of understanding and navigating uncomfortable emotions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Three ways both adults and children deal with uncomfortable behaviours.
  • What behaviours can signal emotion suppression and how to recognise these to help us
  • Why someone might respond to emotion with aggression, and what can be done to mitigate these reactions
  • How expressing your emotions more effectively can improve your mental health and relationships
  • How your upbringing and parental influence shapes your emotional responses.

Resources Mentioned:

  • UPCOMING EVENT OCTOBER 8th: Changing Schools From The Inside Out: How educators and schools can implement a connected and compassionate approach to student behaviour and mental well being. I have two amazing guests, Lael Stone and Dr Billy Garvey joining me, you won’t want to miss it! Grab your ticket here

  • If you’re a teacher, leader or work with children and you want to learn more about how to build your emotional intelligence, support your children or your students in the classroom with their emotions, and how to understand why you react the way you do to behaviours and emotions, then I have a course for you. You can find out more HERE

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