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Stop Being Good and Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible). You cant create fulflling, deeply connected relationships if you're stuck in people pleasing patterns. 🔗 Chosen: Next Level Love - A private space for women who are done trying harder to be loved. Inside, you’ll learn how to stop people-pleasing and overgiving, build emotional security, and create deeply connected relationships — without shrinking, performing, or losing yourself.        👉 Join here:   People pleasing patterns, shrinking & performing in our...

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Love isn’t supposed to feel one-sided, exhausting, or like constant work. If you’re smart, capable, and doing “everything right” in your relationship — but still not feeling supported, chosen, or met — this video is for you. LISTEN NEXT:  Listen to last weeks episode: You Dont Need A New Year's Resolution - You Need A RESET:   ✨ Take the What’s Your Love Blueprint? quiz to discover your relationship pattern and how you may be accidentally blocking the love you want:     In this episode, I talk about why trying harder, giving more, and overfunctioning...

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Everyone talks about New Year’s resolutions — doing more, fixing yourself, becoming someone new. But what if that’s not the problem? In this live, I talk about why real change doesn’t come from pushing harder or setting more goals — it comes from learning how to reset instead of carrying guilt, disappointment, and self-judgment into the next chapter of your life.   ✨✨✨ Take the Love Blueprint Quiz: https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/D0ZD9rpL — it helps you see the hidden pattern shaping your relationships and love life.   If you’re a smart, capable woman...

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Are you getting triggered easily, overwhelmed by your emotions, or feeling like you’re spiraling the moment something feels “off” in your relationship? You’re not broken — you’re overloaded. 👉👉HEAL FROM TRIGGERS PERMANENTLY: Go to my SHOP To Go From Spiraling to Soverign:  In this video, you’ll learn why your body reacts so fast, how to calm the emotional rush, and how to shift out of stress so you can feel grounded, clear, and connected again.  👉👉TAKE THE QUIZ -  It shows you why you get triggered, what your body is trying to protect you from, and the...

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Are you feeling alone in a relationship even when he;s right next to you? Are you always the one doing the emotional work? The one who gives more, tries harder, and still ends up feeling unseen? learn what's blocking you from the love that you've always wanted... TAKE THE QUIZ⬇️ 🎁What's your Love BLOCK? TAKE THE QUIZ. You don’t have to keep chasing love, overgiving, or shrinking yourself just to feel chosen.💖 You deserve love that feels safe, steady, and soul-deep — not like something you have to earn. ✨ It’s time to break the pattern of loving from survival—and start...

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Learn some VITAL one sided relationship signs. Are you DONE with one sided relationships and ready for healthy, secure loving partnership? Its time to stop overgiving, overfunctioning in your relationships and get the treatment and adoration you deserve!! DONE STRUGGLING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE LIFE? Do you want to reignite the connection closeness , deep love and devotion with your partner , then sign up for the VIP access list here ❤️  So that you can finally get the Extraordinary Love you deserve. Grab my Chosen & Cherished Cheatsheet to get the real love, deep...

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Do you feel emotionally drained in your relationship? Like you’re doing everything — planning, fixing, overthinking, holding it all together — and no matter how much you give, it still feels one-sided? 💌 Join the VIP Access List for Sign Up Here: You might be the strong one. The emotionally available one. The one who notices everything, anticipates needs, and carries the emotional weight of the relationship. And yet… you feel unseen, unsupported, and exhausted. In this video, we’re talking about why love starts to feel like work — especially for smart, capable women who are...

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Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men (Even If You're Smart & Self-Aware)

You’ve done the inner work. You’re self-aware, emotionally intelligent, and committed to growth.
So why does love still feel like a cycle of chasing, shrinking, or choosing men who can’t show up for you?

In this video, I’m revealing the deeper reasons why high-achieving, self-aware women keep attracting emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partners—and how to finally break free from the toxic love cycle.


🔥 You’ll Learn:

  • 3 hidden emotional hooks keeping you stuck in love

  • Why smart women still fall for emotionally unavailable men

  • How attachment wounds and early pain shape your love life

  • The truth about intensity vs. emotional safety

  • What it actually takes to feel secure, seen, and chosen in love


You’re not broken. You’re not too much. You don’t need to fix yourself to be worthy of love—you need to unlearn the patterns that made you think you had to.

 

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