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How to Set (and KEEP) Boundaries Without the Guilt

Oops, I Healed Again!

Release Date: 06/04/2025

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Everyone always says “set a boundary,” but no one talks about what happens after. In this episode, I open up about the emotional spiral that followed a decision to step back from a school volunteer role. We dive into why setting boundaries doesn’t always feel good at first, how to hold your ground without over-explaining, and why freedom and guilt can (and do) coexist. Remember, just because it’s uncomfortable doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

 

Highlights

  • Why even “easy” boundaries can bring big feelings.

  • Why I almost backed out of my own boundary.

  • How to separate real responsibility from assumed obligation.

  • What it looks like to reset expectations without spiraling.

  • How to prepare for the emotional fallout after saying no.

  • How to set a limit without falling into victim mode.

 

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Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing

Founder of Jennerational Healing and a Teen Communication & Identity Coach for Moms. She helps mothers improve communication, strengthen connection, and raise resilient, confident young adults through "The Confident Teen Communication System," using her Identity-Led Communication method. Find her on IG at: @TheJennShawJones or www.jennerationalhealing.com

 

Suzanne Storm - Sparked Mom 

Sparked Mom is for every mom who’s ever thought, ‘I don’t know who I am anymore.’ Motherhood wasn’t meant to erase you, but it can feel like it has. Suzanne helps busy moms take simple, doable steps to feel alive, confident, and like themselves again—without losing the mom they want to be. Find her on IG at: @TheSuzanneStorm or www.suzannestorm.com