Oops, I Healed Again!
Ever catch yourself in a knee-jerk reaction and think, Why did I do that?! You’re not alone, friend. In Oops, I Healed Again!, we take real-life moments—just like yours—and uncover the hidden hardwiring, inner thoughts, and unconscious patterns shaping your reactions. Hosted by sisters Jenn Jones & Suzanne Storm, each episode helps you bring these patterns to the surface, shift your mindset, and stop the cycles of self-abandonment, shame, and fear—so you can step into your most empowered, authentic self. Through honest conversations, “aha” moments, and the Discover-Shift.-Empower method, you’ll start seeing yourself—and your relationships—in a whole new light. Ready to heal, laugh, and grow? Let’s do this—one oops at a time!
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Why I Stopped “Saving” My Kids From Failing
06/23/2025
Why I Stopped “Saving” My Kids From Failing
Are you helping your kids… or protecting yourself from discomfort? In this episode, we talk about the hard and humbling truth of letting our kids fail, why perfectionism often hides behind “good parenting,” and what happens when you finally take your hands off the wheel. We share stories about grade battles, missed assignments, awkward conversations with teachers and coaches, and the unexpected gifts of watching your kids figure it out on their own. Tune in and find out why failure is the most powerful parenting tool you’re not using. Highlights Why letting your kids fail is the most loving thing you can do. What happened when we stopped checking every assignment. The difference between supporting vs. saving. How letting go of control helped our kids (and us) grow. A simple question to help you pause before you “rescue”. Resources + Links Learn more about “Sparked Mom Course: Finding Me Again” ! Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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When Productivity Becomes a Trap for Moms
06/18/2025
When Productivity Becomes a Trap for Moms
Can something as simple as a snuggle actually count as being productive? In this episode, we talk about what it means to really connect with our kids and not just manage their lives. I share how I used to view productivity as logistics and to-dos, and what changed when I started seeing snuggles, slow car rides, and silly game nights as powerful moments of connection. We also talk about the trap of thinking being with our kids means we're connected to them and how redefining what counts as “productive” can shift everything. Get ready to rethink what counts as productive and start seeing connection! Highlights How productivity becomes a shield in motherhood. Why I used to measure motherhood with to-do lists. The moment I realized I wasn’t as connected to my kids as I thought. What changed when I made connection intentional. The small shifts that created big change in our family. Resources + Links Learn more about “Sparked Mom Course: Finding Me Again” ! Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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I Didn’t Have a Drinking Problem—But I Had a Numbing One
06/16/2025
I Didn’t Have a Drinking Problem—But I Had a Numbing One
You can have the house, the kids, the “good life”… and still feel like you’re disappearing inside it. In this episode, we talk about the identity loss in motherhood, the quiet resentment that builds, and the cultural normalization of wine as the “fix” for mom stress. I open up about the moment I realized wine wasn’t just for fun anymore, and what happened when I got honest about why I really poured the glass. This isn’t about the wine. It’s about what we’ve been taught to swallow and what it takes to finally feel again. Highlights Why saying “I’m fine” can become a dangerous habit. The truth about “mom wine culture” and emotional escape. How identity loss in motherhood doesn’t happen all at once. The quiet shame of numbing and the courage to stop. What we actually need when we reach for the glass. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Ditch “Supermom” Shame and FIND Your Joy in 5 Minutes
06/11/2025
Ditch “Supermom” Shame and FIND Your Joy in 5 Minutes
Ever felt like you disappeared inside the role of “mom”? In this episode, we talk about losing ourselves in motherhood, shrinking under the weight of invisible expectations, and the shame, depression, and ugliness that often hide. I open up about the silent identity loss that crept in over the years and how a forgotten spark of joy helped me remember who I was. We also talk about why “supermom” is a harmful myth, the guilt that shows up even when you have “everything”, and how finding yourself again doesn’t require an overhaul. Highlights How identity loss often shows up silently in motherhood. Why even a good life can still leave you feeling disconnected. How tiny sparks of joy helped me feel like ME again. The shame spiral no one talks about. What it really means to be “alive” again. Resources + Links Learn more about “Finding Me Again” ! Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic Sparked Mom Course: Finding Me Again.
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The Survival Story I Mistook for My Identity
06/09/2025
The Survival Story I Mistook for My Identity
“I’m not a birthday person”—That’s what I always told myself until a launch party and a milestone birthday made me question where that story came from. In this episode, we talk about the survival patterns that made visibility feel unsafe, starting from the childhood moments that shaped our “I am” identities. We share what it means to finally let yourself be celebrated, including helpful questions to reframe old limiting beliefs and set yourself on a path to self-love and healing. Get ready to start showing up as the version of you who knows she’s worth it. Highlights Why “I’m not a birthday person” was never really about birthdays. How praise, visibility, and asking for help became unsafe. Why letting yourself be loved is a radical act of healing. How your beliefs shape what your kids think they’re allowed to want. Questions to reframe the “I am…” statements that define you. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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How to Set (and KEEP) Boundaries Without the Guilt
06/04/2025
How to Set (and KEEP) Boundaries Without the Guilt
Everyone always says “set a boundary,” but no one talks about what happens after. In this episode, I open up about the emotional spiral that followed a decision to step back from a school volunteer role. We dive into why setting boundaries doesn’t always feel good at first, how to hold your ground without over-explaining, and why freedom and guilt can (and do) coexist. Remember, just because it’s uncomfortable doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Highlights Why even “easy” boundaries can bring big feelings. Why I almost backed out of my own boundary. How to separate real responsibility from assumed obligation. What it looks like to reset expectations without spiraling. How to prepare for the emotional fallout after saying no. How to set a limit without falling into victim mode. Resources + Links Break free from people pleasing - get the ! Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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The Lie Comparison Told Me—And the Truth That Set Me Free
06/02/2025
The Lie Comparison Told Me—And the Truth That Set Me Free
What if the self-doubt you thought you’d outgrown is quietly showing up in your parenting? In this episode, we dive deep into that sneaky feeling of not being enough and how it subtly influences your parenting, identity, and relationships. We talk about how comparison shows up in our lives and how it trickles down to our kids, too. We break down the DSD approach to spot those comparison traps, reframe your thoughts, and teach your kids to do the same. Get ready to interrupt the shame spiral and give your family a new language for self-worth. Highlights How comparison fuels that “not good enough” feeling. Why telling your child they’re “the best” can actually do harm. Ways to use the DSD method to shift your perspective. Tips to help your kids navigate their own “not good enough” moments. The role of social media in reinforcing self-doubt. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Outgrowing Old Labels and Choosing Our 2.0 Selves
05/28/2025
Outgrowing Old Labels and Choosing Our 2.0 Selves
Ever feel boxed in by a label you didn’t choose, but somehow started living by? In this episode, we open up about the identities we were handed as kids (the “pretty one,” the “smart one,” the “athlete”) and how those well-meaning labels shaped the way we saw ourselves for decades. We talk about the pressure to live up to those expectations, the lies we believed about our worth, and the moment we realized we could choose differently. Highlights The hidden pressure of childhood “compliments”. Why we look for evidence to prove old labels right. What comparison did to our self-worth and body image. How to stop defining yourself by your 1.0 version. What happens when you surround yourself with 2.0 energy. A question that will help you finally release that old identity. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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When Life Starts to SPIRAL…Here is How to RESET!
05/26/2025
When Life Starts to SPIRAL…Here is How to RESET!
Ever feel like everything’s falling apart and your only option is a total life overhaul? Same. In this episode, we talk about the moments when your routines fall apart, your nervous system feels like it's on fire, and you start catastrophizing every missed backpack and dinner plan. I dive into how I used to spiral into control mode, why that only made things worse, and what finally helped me break the cycle. I also share a story about how I shifted from overhauls to resets, and how one forgotten athletic bag became the perfect opportunity to model calm instead of chaos. Highlights The 80/10/10 rhythm that defines our family flow. Why I used to make a list and then emotionally dump it on everyone. The difference between helpful accountability vs. emotional discharge. The nervous system shift that changed how I parent. How to stop reacting and start resetting. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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How to Rebuild Trust After Betrayal
05/21/2025
How to Rebuild Trust After Betrayal
What if your definition of forgiveness is the very thing keeping you stuck? In this episode, we talk about what forgiveness really means. I share how I used to think forgiving someone meant minimizing what they did, pretending it didn’t hurt, or inviting them back in. We dive deep into emotional justice, the hidden resentment that lingers after a grudge, and how true forgiveness doesn’t require reconciliation. Plus, I break down the 3 Rs every healed relationship needs and how letting go is about freeing YOURSELF, not them. Highlights Why your forgiveness might not actually be forgiveness. The “justice trap” that makes us want others to feel our pain. How old resentment resurfaces in new conflicts. The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. The 3 Rs framework for rebuilding trust after betrayal. Why letting go doesn’t mean letting them off the hook. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Your Child’s Journey Isn’t Your Scorecard
05/19/2025
Your Child’s Journey Isn’t Your Scorecard
Have you ever left a game more emotional than your kid? In this episode, I share how I used to ride the high or low of my children’s sports performance. We talk about the pressure to “raise winners,” how perfectionism sneaks into parenting, and what I did to redefine success and failure for both myself and my kids. I also share the emotional rollercoaster of youth sports, what shifted when I stopped chasing validation, and why your child’s achievements are not your report card. Tune in to discover how to show up and support your little athlete in a whole new light! Highlights Why I used to think my child’s losses were mine too. How youth sports became a mirror for my own perfectionism. The nervous system shift that changed how I show up. The difference between supporting and over-identifying. What it really means to let your kids own their journey. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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The Mean Girl Behavior I Almost Justified
05/14/2025
The Mean Girl Behavior I Almost Justified
What do you do when your child just wants to BELONG, but the price is too high? In this episode, I share a story of when a group of mean girls excluded my daughter, and I almost encouraged her to go along just to feel included. We talk about how the desire to belong can lead us to override red flags, abandon our values, and even pressure others to do the same. We also reflect on how easy it is to repeat old patterns until our kids hold up a mirror. Remember, belonging should NEVER come at the cost of self-worth. Highlights Why I almost told my daughter to “just be nice” to toxic friends. The high school memory that came rushing back. What belonging looks like when you stay true to yourself. How women (and moms) still wrestle with being left out. How to know when a connection is not healthy. Why we need to STOP confusing inclusion with self-abandonment. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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One Sneaky Form of People Pleasing That STOPS HERE
05/12/2025
One Sneaky Form of People Pleasing That STOPS HERE
Are you saying sorry out of habit or because it’s actually needed? In this episode, we talk about one of the sneakiest people pleasing patterns out there—reflexively apologizing for things that don’t require repair. I share how I became aware of my “habit sorry” tendencies, how it impacted my confidence and communication, and what happened when I stopped apologizing for things like taking up space, having boundaries, or simply being human. We also talk about the messages we send our kids (and ourselves) when we over-apologize, and how shifting to intentional language can change how we show up at work, home, and in relationships. Highlights Why apologizing TOO MUCH weakens your words. Examples of “habit sorry” in everyday life. The difference between true repair vs. avoiding discomfort. What to say instead of “sorry” (without sounding rude). How your apology habits may be shaping your child’s behavior too. Why being mindful of your language strengthens your confidence. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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When Gossip Hit My Kid (What To Do When You’re Misunderstood)
05/07/2025
When Gossip Hit My Kid (What To Do When You’re Misunderstood)
Have you ever watched your child make a brave decision, only to see them judged and misunderstood for it? In this raw episode, we’re talking about why Jenn’s daughter chose to walk away from competitive soccer and how the aftermath revealed just how cruel the rumor mill can be—for kids and for moms. We talk about what it’s like to be misunderstood, how hard it is not to react, and why this experience became a mirror for our own growth. This one’s for every woman who’s learning to stand tall in her truth, especially when others don’t “get it”. Highlights Learn how to support your child when they feel misunderstood. Discover why staying quiet can be the most powerful move. Hear the real talk about youth sports culture and mom guilt. Gain tools to build resilience and protect your peace—at any age. Resources + Links Follow Us: Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now https://www.instagram.com/thejennshawjones/ Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic https://www.instagram.com/thesuzannestorm/
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The Unexpected Lesson From My Autoimmune Diagnosis
05/05/2025
The Unexpected Lesson From My Autoimmune Diagnosis
Hey girl! We're diving deep into the sneaky world of perfectionism today, and trust us, you'll want to hear how Suzanne totally crushed her inner critic when facing an unexpected autoimmune diagnosis. We're breaking down how that all-or-nothing mindset can totally sabotage your dreams, and sharing our real-time strategy for staying empowered even when life throws you a curveball. If you've ever put your goals on pause because things aren't "perfect," this episode is your wake-up call to choose progress over perfection. Highlights How perfectionism disguises itself as logical reasoning. How to recognize fear’s limiting narrative. Both challenges and opportunities can (and do) exist simultaneously. Stop putting your dreams on hold waiting for “perfect”. One mindset shift that creates powerful momentum. Resources + Links Follow Us: Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now https://www.instagram.com/thejennshawjones/ Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic https://www.instagram.com/thesuzannestorm/
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Offended? Me? Here’s How to Stop Letting Others Control Your Emotions
04/30/2025
Offended? Me? Here’s How to Stop Letting Others Control Your Emotions
This episode is a wake-up call wrapped in sisterhood and laughter. Jenn thought she was unbothered… until a recent group session revealed she’s actually offended all the time—and had no idea. If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at your partner’s tone, gotten annoyed in traffic, or stewed over something small someone said, you might be more offended than you think too. We’re unpacking the surprising ways offense is showing up in your daily life and six powerful tools to start living less reactive and more free. By the end, you’ll feel less alone, totally empowered, and equipped with a mindset shift that could seriously change your relationships. Because guess what? Being offended is a choice—and you get to make a different one. Highlights Being offended is a choice, not a default reaction. Six ways to stop living on edge and be less reactive. How to stop allowing your ego and pride to drive your emotions. Ways to choose an empowered response and reclaim your personal peace. Resources + Links Follow Us: Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now https://www.instagram.com/thejennshawjones/ Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic https://www.instagram.com/thesuzannestorm/
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How to Break The Cycle of People-Pleasing & Reclaim Your Peace
04/28/2025
How to Break The Cycle of People-Pleasing & Reclaim Your Peace
Ready to finally break free from automatic "yes" syndrome where you say yes when every fiber of your being wants to scream NO? Trust us, it’s a game-changer. If you've ever felt trapped by people-pleasing, overwhelmed by guilt, or constantly running yourself ragged trying to be the perfect helper, this episode is your lifeline. We're talking about reclaiming your peace, setting boundaries, and discovering that saying no doesn't make you a bad person - it makes you a smart, intentional human who values their own well-being. Highlights How to avoid allowing resentment to build by saying yes when you want to say no. Tips for empowered decision-making. Don’t allow this to determine your value. Why it’s worth the temporary discomfort of saying no to beat long-term stress. The key to personal boundary setting (and KEEPING!) Resources + Links Follow Us: Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now https://www.instagram.com/thejennshawjones/ Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic https://www.instagram.com/thesuzannestorm/
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I Let Go of Invisible Responsibility—and Got My Life Back
04/23/2025
I Let Go of Invisible Responsibility—and Got My Life Back
Are you drowning in invisible responsibilities that are sucking the life out of you? In this episode, we're blowing the lid off all those sneaky ways we take on mental burdens we don't need—from worrying about our aging parents to micromanaging our husband's business and our kids' social lives. We're gonna help you recognize how you're wasting precious mental energy on things totally out of your control, and give you practical steps to let that sh*t go. Trust us, by the end of this episode, you'll be laughing at how much time you've been wasting and feel totally liberated. Highlights How to let go of responsibility for things you have no control over. Practical ways to protect your time & your mental energy. The reason why we take on invisible responsibilities (+ how to overcome it). Steps for identifying all the sneaky burdens you may be taking on. How to distinguish between healthy versus unhealthy responsibilities. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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How Dare He… Oh Wait, This Is About Me
04/21/2025
How Dare He… Oh Wait, This Is About Me
Ever found yourself tiptoeing around someone else’s emotions just to keep things calm? In this episode, I share a story where a grumpy mood from my husband set off a full-blown nervous system response, and how I stopped making it about him and started noticing MYSELF. We talk about how I realized I wasn’t a powerless little girl anymore, broke the pattern of emotional caretaking I learned as a child, which childhood survival patterns sneak into your marriage, and why speaking up without exploding gave my whole family a new model for communication. Highlights The moment I realized I was reacting like a child NOT a partner. How perfectionism shows up as emotional over-functioning. What it means when your body responds before your brain does. The ripple effect when you speak up WITHOUT blowing up. Why I used to think keeping the peace meant staying small. How I gave my kids permission to stop tiptoeing around emotions. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Part II: I Let My Family Step Up — And No One Died
04/16/2025
Part II: I Let My Family Step Up — And No One Died
What happens when the default parent finally stops doing it all? In part two of this conversation, we dive into what changed in my home when I stopped trying to do everything and gave my family a chance to step up. We talk about the invisible labor of motherhood, the deep shame that keeps us stuck in overdoing, and why letting go might be the greatest gift you ever give your kids (and yourself). Highlights What my son said after I got better that nearly made me cry. The invisible work moms do that no one talks about. Why “doing it all” robs your family of the chance to grow. How I unintentionally modeled burnout as a lifestyle. What changed when I gave my family space to figure it out. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Part I: Moms Get Sick Too… But We Sure Don’t Act Like It
04/14/2025
Part I: Moms Get Sick Too… But We Sure Don’t Act Like It
As moms, we’re always the ones taking care of everybody else when they get sick – but who takes care of us? In this episode, I share what happened when I got sick and actually let myself rest (for the first time). We talk about how I used to spiral into cycles of guilt, fear, and shame any time I couldn’t “keep it all together.” We dive into why it’s so hard for perfectionist moms to slow down, how to stop equating your worth with your to-do list, and why over-functioning is one of the biggest forms of self-sabotage. Tune in for the unexpected joy of waking up to a house that didn’t fall apart without you. Highlights The mental load of being sick when you’re the default parent. Why perfectionist moms struggle to let go of control. What I used to believe about “earning” rest. What changed when I stopped equating rest with being lazy. The ONE sentence I repeat when I feel guilty about resting. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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The Downside of Raising a Confident Daughter
04/09/2025
The Downside of Raising a Confident Daughter
Can your daughter really be confident and still feel excluded? In this episode, we talk about how your child developing a strong identity can actually make some social situations harder. Jen shares what she’s learned from raising a teenage daughter who knows who she is, and how being secure in yourself often repels people who aren’t. We talk about how identity can feel isolated in a world where everyone’s trying to fit in, the difference between confidence and performative confidence, and why doing the “right thing” for your kid doesn’t always feel good at the moment. Highlights What true confidence looks like in teenage girls. What happens when your secure kid doesn’t fit into the “group”. Why confidence doesn’t always look like popularity. The difference between fitting in versus belonging. Why I believe identity is the most valuable inheritance you can give your kids. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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When Did I Stop Saying Yes to Fun?
04/07/2025
When Did I Stop Saying Yes to Fun?
Ever find yourself organizing fun for everyone else… but forgetting to include yourself? In this episode, I share how a spontaneous decision to play laser tag with my son and his friends became a turning point in reclaiming my identity outside of motherhood. We talk about how easy it is to fall into “just mom” mode, why that identity shift can sneak up on you, and how doing something playful can help you reconnect to the version of yourself that felt long gone. Get ready to say YES to more joy and rediscover that part of you that still wants to have fun. Highlights How to step away from “just mom” mode and choose joy. Why I almost didn’t say yes to laser tag. The moment I realized I hadn’t felt that alive in years. Ways to bring back parts of you that feel forgotten. What my kids noticed when I stopped sitting out. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Calm, Collected, and Completely Unhinged in Traffic
04/02/2025
Calm, Collected, and Completely Unhinged in Traffic
Have you ever been called out for acting completely different in one part of your life — and not even realized it? That just happened to me… in the car. In this episode, I share the moment my daughter gently (but honestly) pointed out that I don’t exactly practice what I preach when I’m behind the wheel. We talk about the blind spots we don’t realize we have, how victim mentality can sneak into our most routine moments, and what it takes to break behaviors we’ve been unknowingly carrying for years. Highlights The comment from my daughter that totally called me out. Why I always felt “personally attacked” in traffic. How internal dialogue kept me stuck in victim mode. ONE shift that changed my entire vibe on the road. Why we all need safe people who lovingly call us out. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Mom Guilt Served Hot: The Dinner Dilemma
03/31/2025
Mom Guilt Served Hot: The Dinner Dilemma
Dinner shouldn’t be this emotional — but for so many moms, it is. In this episode, I share a hilariously honest moment where I sat my family down and finally admitted I HATE making dinner (yep, I really said it!). We talk about how the emotional and mental load of feeding your family can build resentment, how mom martyr mode sneaks in, and how a simple family meeting shifted the dynamic in my home. Get ready to stop equating feeding your family with being a “good mom” and reclaim your time and energy. Highlights Why I opened a family meeting with “I hate making dinner.” The resentment I didn’t realize I was carrying behind the dinner routine. How I finally let my kids in on the mental load. What happened when I stopped being the default cook. The belief that feeding = good mom (and how I’m changing that). Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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Feeling Burned Out? Do This to STOP Being a Mom Martyr
03/26/2025
Feeling Burned Out? Do This to STOP Being a Mom Martyr
You know that moment when life gets chaotic and the first thing you cancel is… YOURSELF? That’s what we call Martyr Mom Mode — when we drop our workouts, routines, and even our joy, while still managing everything for everyone else. In this episode, we talk about why we women tend to downplay our own needs during “so-called crises,” how to spot those old patterns sneaking back in, and what it actually feels like when your personal growth starts to stick. Highlights What Martyr Mom Mode sounds like in real life (hint: it’s sneaky)! How I almost let a family health scare and a big life transition derail my progress. Why my “cry shower” felt totally different this time. Why you feel uncomfortable even when you’re doing the right thing. How to rewire your brain to stop self-sabotaging during times of stress. A question every mom should ask when life starts feeling “too full”. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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How to Stop Downplaying Your Accomplishments, Accept Compliments (and OWN Your Wins!)
03/24/2025
How to Stop Downplaying Your Accomplishments, Accept Compliments (and OWN Your Wins!)
Ever catch yourself getting a compliment and instantly deflecting what they said? In this episode, I share a vulnerable story about how I totally minimized my D1 volleyball experience right in front of my son, while Jenn helps me unpack why we fall into this crazy self-sabotage. We'll walk you through how to recognize those patterns of playing small, validate your own accomplishments by looking at the facts, and give you a killer strategy for accepting compliments that actually feels authentic. If you've ever caught yourself saying "oh, it's not a big deal" instead of owning it, or if you want to model a healthier way of responding to compliments, this episode is your new best friend. Highlights Get to the root of what causes you to downplay achievements. How to look at the facts vs. your knee jerk reaction of deflecting. How to be more intentional and confident with your response to compliments. Ways to model self-respect for our kids (and what I did AFTER downplaying an accomplishment in front of my son). How to change the pattern of self-minimizing to increase confidence. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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OMG, You Look SO Good! Is It Ozempic?
03/19/2025
OMG, You Look SO Good! Is It Ozempic?
Have you ever got a compliment that didn’t quite feel like one? In this episode, Suzanne shares how a friend’s well-meaning comment sent her into a full-blown shame spiral. We dive into why certain remarks hit differently, how past struggles can make us extra sensitive to outside opinions, and why most of what people say has nothing to do with us. Get ready to stop over-explaining and release the need for validation. Highlights How a seemingly harmless comment led to deep frustration. Why we take certain remarks personally (and how to stop). How to handle unsolicited opinions and own your story. The ONE question to ask yourself when you feel dismissed or judged. What to say when someone’s comment triggers your insecurity. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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X-Rays Don’t Judge… But I Did!
03/17/2025
X-Rays Don’t Judge… But I Did!
Have you ever given meaning to something that ruins your entire day? In today’s episode, Suzanne shares how a simple routine check-up at the dentist triggered a full-blown shame spiral. We’ll unpack why we assign meaning to things that are actually insignificant, and how it can lead to a build-up of shameful limiting beliefs and insecurities that hold us back. We’ll share helpful mindset shifts to overcome irrational fears and stop pesky limiting beliefs in its tracks so you can show up at your best. It’s never too late to change the game with healthy habits that empower you to beat the shame spiral! Highlights How a routine trip to the dentist triggered a deep shame spiral. Mindset shifts for empowering yourself to overcome irrational fears. How to stop limiting beliefs & insecurities in its tracks with facts. How we build shameful beliefs + ways to overwrite them through healthy mindset and habits. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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This ONE Thing is Keeping You Stressed and Stuck
03/12/2025
This ONE Thing is Keeping You Stressed and Stuck
If you’re someone who keeps putting things off because you’re uncomfortable with conflict, you need to hear this! Today’s episode is all about a topic everybody can relate to: procrastination. The things you’ve been avoiding on your to-do list, the errands you’ve been putting off for weeks… We’ve all been there, done that – and now, we want to share a whole new shift in perspective that’ll have you kicking procrastination to the curb and showing up differently. We’ll unpack the psychology behind why we turn the smallest issues into a seemingly big deal, healthy ways to release control over the expected result, and how to get out of your own head and do the thing that needs to get done. Highlights How we convince ourselves to procrastinate the smallest things. The psychology behind why we turn small issues into a big deal. How to push past procrastination to show up differently. Healthy ways to reframe and release control. Resources + Links Follow Us Jenn Shaw Jones - Jennerational Healing Mother Daughter Relationship Coach Become the Mom your Daughter Needs Now Suzanne Storm - The Sparked Mom Helping moms reignite their spark - feel alive, joyful & authentic
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