#15: Dodging Difficult Conversations? Here’s What It’s Really Costing You
MPWR Podcast | Become The Leader YOU Want To Follow
Release Date: 07/14/2025
MPWR Podcast | Become The Leader YOU Want To Follow
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info_outlineWe think silence keeps the peace but sometimes, silence is the most destructive lie we tell.
Welcome to The MPWR Podcast with Eric Pfeiffer, where real leadership means having the conversations others won’t.
This episode tackles one of the most universal yet avoided challenges in leadership, work, and life: avoiding hard conversations.
We’ve all done it; biting our tongues, walking on eggshells, telling ourselves it’s “not worth it” or “not the right time.” But what is this really costing us?
“Avoidance feels safe in the moment, but it’s expensive over time. It costs trust. It costs clarity. It costs real connection."
In this candid conversation, Eric breaks down:
✅ Why so many of us default to avoidance—even when we know it hurts us
✅ The psychology of conflict avoidance: fear of rejection, fear of escalation, fear of discomfort
✅ What these unspoken truths do to relationships, teams, and cultures over time
“When you avoid telling the truth because it’s uncomfortable, you’re not protecting them—you’re protecting yourself.”
Eric draws on personal stories and real-world examples of conflict avoidance—from corporate boardrooms to family dinner tables.
He also integrates wisdom from the classic communication playbook Crucial Conversations, which reminds us:
“People don’t get defensive because of what you’re saying. They get defensive because of why they think you’re saying it.”
According to Harvard’s Program on Negotiation:
“Difficult conversations are a normal—and necessary—part of healthy relationships. Avoiding them can damage trust, foster resentment, and undermine collaboration.” (Harvard PON)
Imagine leading with honesty, even when it’s hard.
Picture yourself having the confidence to say what needs to be said without cruelty or cowardice. To tell the truth in a way that preserves dignity and deepens trust.
This episode is your guide to leaning in when your instincts want you to lean out.
“Silence isn’t neutral. When you choose not to speak, you choose to let fear do the talking.”
By tuning in, you’ll learn:
✅ Why avoidance is a short-term comfort but a long-term liability
✅ Simple frameworks to prepare for and start hard conversations
✅ Techniques to speak with candor and compassion
✅ How to turn difficult talks into opportunities for real understanding
As Eric says:
“Your ability to lead is directly tied to your ability to have the conversations others run from.”
Don’t let unspoken resentments or hidden truths undermine your relationships or leadership.
Ready to stop avoiding what really matters?
🎧 Listen now to this episode of The MPWR Podcast.
Learn how to face the hard conversations head-on—with courage, clarity, and heart.
Because real leadership isn’t about avoiding discomfort. It’s about embracing it—for the sake of growth, trust, and true connection.
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