#21: Why Inconsistency Drains Your Influence and How to Stop It
MPWR Podcast | Become The Leader YOU Want To Follow
Release Date: 08/25/2025
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info_outlineAre You Losing Influence Because of Inconsistency? Here’s How to Rebuild Trust.
Every leader wants to be trusted. But trust isn’t built on charisma, strategy, or even vision alone. It’s built on consistency, the daily patterns and signals that tell people you are reliable, predictable, and worth following.
In this episode of the MPWR Podcast, we dig into a leadership trap that is both common and costly: inconsistency. It doesn’t always look like a failure or a blow-up moment. In fact, it’s far more subtle—and that’s why it’s so dangerous. Influence isn’t lost in a single event. It erodes over time, through unpredictable energy, shifting clarity, or even haphazard meeting rhythms that leave people uncertain about what to expect.
“We don’t lose influence all at once. It’s not one data point, one experience that undermines that influence. It’s consistent data points that are inconsistent, that actually drive this diminishing of influence.”
When leaders are steady one day and scattered the next, teams don’t know which version of you will show up. Energy that should be fueling progress gets wasted on second-guessing and recalibrating. Over time, hesitation replaces confidence, and momentum comes to a crawl.
“Without realizing it, we’ve made our leadership hard to follow.”
The promise of this episode is clarity: to show you how small shifts toward predictability can restore trust, multiply your influence, and create psychological safety for those you lead. From how you structure meetings, to how you manage your energy, to how you show up emotionally—consistency signals stability. And stability creates confidence.
Research underscores just how high the stakes are: Gallup reports that 70% of employee engagement is directly tied to the quality of the manager or team leader. In other words, your consistency isn’t just about your own reputation—it directly shapes team morale, retention, and performance.
“Energy gets spent second guessing instead of moving forward.”
If you’ve ever felt like your team hesitates to follow your lead, or if your influence doesn’t carry the weight it once did, this episode will give you the language and tools to spot where inconsistency is draining your leadership. More importantly, it will help you replace unpredictability with rhythms that build momentum, deepen trust, and unleash the potential in your people.
Because in the end, the most powerful leaders aren’t the ones who occasionally inspire, they’re the ones who consistently deliver.
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