#24: Control vs. Trust: The Leap That Changes Everything
MPWR Podcast | Become The Leader YOU Want To Follow
Release Date: 09/15/2025
MPWR Podcast | Become The Leader YOU Want To Follow
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info_outlineWhat if the very thing you think keeps you safe is what’s actually holding you back?
In this transformative episode of the GRASP Confidence podcast, we dive deep into one of the most universal internal battles we face: the tug-of-war between control and trust. Whether you’re leading a team, building a business, or simply navigating the uncertainty of life, this episode will challenge the way you see safety, success, and surrender.
We’ve been taught to equate control with strength—managing every detail, predicting every outcome, and holding on tightly to what we know. But what if that instinct for control isn’t protecting us… it’s imprisoning us? What if true power lies not in forcing outcomes, but in trusting ourselves, our preparation, and the path unfolding before us?
💬 “Control is rooted in fear. Trust is rooted in faith. You can’t build your future on fear.”
In this heartfelt and deeply personal conversation, we peel back the layers of why control feels so safe and why letting go feels terrifying. We explore how fear disguises itself as control, how striving for certainty can breed anxiety and burnout, and how learning to trust allows you to breathe again, dream again, and become who you were designed to be.
You’ll discover:
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The hidden costs of over-control on your mental health, creativity, and relationships.
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The neuroscience behind why your brain craves control and how to rewire it toward trust.
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Simple daily practices to build inner trust and release the need to micromanage outcomes.
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Real stories of breakthrough moments that only came after surrendering control.
💬 “The moment I let go of control, clarity rushed in like light through an open door.”
This episode isn’t about abandoning responsibility. It’s about learning the sacred balance between action and surrender—taking aligned steps forward while releasing attachment to the outcome. That’s where freedom lives. That’s where confidence grows.
You’ll walk away from this episode feeling lighter, more grounded, and deeply reminded that you don’t have to carry the entire world on your shoulders to succeed. You just have to carry faith—faith in your preparation, faith in your purpose, and faith that what’s meant for you cannot miss you.
💬 “Control says, ‘I must make this happen.’ Trust says, ‘I am becoming who it will happen for.’”
If you’ve been gripping the steering wheel of life so tightly your knuckles are white, this conversation is your gentle permission slip to exhale.
Because the leap from control to trust isn’t just where peace begins—
it’s where your power begins.
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