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Make Your Life A Living Ritual With Jess Magic | # 49

This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Release Date: 12/29/2024

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Shownotes

  • Why a spiritual practice is training for your entire life

  • The truth that life happens to you, for you, through you and as you

  • How Jess manages stressful situations

  • The importance of looking for the lesson in everything

  • Why the most glamorous thing of all is to feel the full spectrum of aliveness

  • Jess’ Lineage of Lovers Philosophy

Bio

Jess Magic is a “heARTist”, a soul-stirring songstress, a ceremonialist and a muse for today’s generation of visionary leaders and change-makers.

As a transformational facilitator and musical storyteller, Jess creates compelling invitations for people to interact with life from an open heart. In a world where so many are longing for deeper levels of connection, authentic expression and intimacy, Jess uses her humor, music, movement practices and storytelling to effectively weave a "spell" of love and connection that reveals relatable aspects of the human experience that penetrate and crack open the hearts of those who are touched by her presence.

Jess weaves together like-minded communities from San Francisco to Bali and beyond, offering her virtual Free Your Voice programs, Permission retreats, Gospel of Love Brunches and Soul Salons.

Her work has been seen in The New York Times and The London Sunday Times and has supported thousands of men and women from all walks of life in overcoming the shame, fear, and self-judgment that have inhibited their ability to discover, experience and express their feelings, their creative expression and their capacity to create intimacy with themselves and others. Her signature saying is “We don’t sing to be good. We sing to be free." 

Learn more about Jess’ work on her website.

Timestamps

00:02:03 - Guest introduction

00:04:57 - What does it mean to live life in ceremony?

00:06:58 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:09:17 - A spiritual practice is training for your entire life

00:12:53 - Life happens to you, for you, through you and as you

00:15:20 - What would it look like if every day was a ceremony?

00:20:47 - Jess’ trick for managing stressful situations

00:22:53 - The opposite of trauma is play

00:26:42 - How resistance to challenges prolongs them

00:27:00 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:31:32 - The importance of looking for the lesson in everything

00:36:25 - Learning to believe that life is trustworthy

00:39:40 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:40:49 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:41:58 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:46:25 - Trusting that anything can happen in life

00:49:57 - Why the most glamorous thing of all is to feel the full spectrum of aliveness

00:53:44 - Enjoy MOOD™ Sex Magic

00:54:58 - Jess sings about MOOD Sex Magic

00:59:41 - How to measure your trauma healing

01:02:01 - How Jess learned to be such an exquisite placeholder for others

01:08:20 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

01:08:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

01:09:54 - Jess’ Lineage of Lovers Philosophy

01:13:19 - The edges Jess is currently experiencing living her life in ceremony

01:17:33 - Conclusion