The Top 4 Rituals to Supercharge Sex and Connection in Your Relationship | #51
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Release Date: 02/09/2025
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Shownotes The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner One of Dr. Tatkin’s top ways to create safety for your partner The biggest mistake people make in modern dating Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises...
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Shownotes Layla’s most powerful manifestation ritual Why you have to grieve to step onto a new timeline The key to digesting a negative or heavy experience How to do Sex Magic in 10-15 minutes Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™...
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Shownotes Why the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother Why rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen How the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationships Why we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us Mel’s best advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone Bio Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and...
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Shownotes The story behind the quasi-cheating incident that ended the relationship Why Ryan and Layla’s first kiss went horribly wrong How to take full responsibility for your actions and impact on others Why Ryan showed up at the Stanford campus in a full-on chicken costume How radical love is different than self-sacrificing What Ryan and Layla learned from opening their relationship Bio Ryan Cheney is a therapist, seeker, and guide devoted to the process of inner transformation. Based in Austin, TX, he works with individuals and couples to uncover what...
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Shownotes What people misunderstand about the feminine How to surrender into letting life be good What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership Why men are attracted to different life force energies in women Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion What it truly means for a man to be present sexually How submission is different than surrender Bio Nina Lombardo is a teacher and mentor for women, specializing in conscious intimacy, polarity and sacred feminine practice. She supports women and couples in embodying their deepest...
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Shownotes The science behind nervous system imprinting in childhood The importance of going through both concealing and revealing cycles in life How Layla knew there was something inside her worth fighting for The power of turning your pain into medicine Exactly what led Layla to the Tantric path How to break free from the story that we have to be special to be worthy Why the theory of Tantra is nothing compared to the actual practices Bio Layla Martin: Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to...
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Shownotes 4 Sacred rituals to enhance your relationship How to break down the facade of perfection and replace it with what’s real Why inspiration is always supported by action Essential things you need in order to develop your partnership Important ground rules for safe communication 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast! Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people...
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Shownotes Why 1+1=3 in love and relationships The 6 ingredients to build a lifetime of love Why attunement is one of the most powerful tools Dr. Nasserzadeh’s “soak together before you sink together” method How to show up with compassion even if you don’t understand someone Sexual harmony vs sexual chemistry Bio Building world peace, one relationship at a time is the mission of , a globally renowned and award-winning author, speaker and relationship expert. With a PhD in Social Psychology and specialization in the fields of human sexuality and...
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4 Sacred rituals to enhance your relationship
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How to break down the facade of perfection and replace it with what’s real
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Why inspiration is always supported by action
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Essential things you need in order to develop your partnership
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Important ground rules for safe communication
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5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities
Here to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast!
Bio
Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.
Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.
Layla’s programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.
Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads.
Timestamps
00:00:43 - Introduction
00:01:27 - The 4 types of rituals that can enhance your relationship
00:01:49 - What does sacred union mean?
00:03:08 - What exactly is a ritual?
00:03:48 - The way you look at your partnership matters
00:04:33 - Who Layla used to compare herself to when she was dating
00:05:54 - When you compare yourself to perfection, you’ll always fall short
00:06:52 - There is no perfect man on this planet
00:08:22 - How to break down perfect and replace it with what’s real
00:09:17 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:10:56 - Most spiritual traditions have their own version of sacred union
00:13:18 - Inspiration is always supported by action
00:15:02 - We’re not taught rituals for getting the most out of our relationship
00:17:02 - 4 Essential things you need to develop your partnership
00:17:38 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples
00:18:20 - Ritual #1: The gratitude ritual
00:20:51 - Ritual #2: The safe communication ritual
00:22:54 - Ground rules for the safe communication ritual
00:24:37 - Ritual #3: The intimacy ritual
00:24:42 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality
00:27:43 - Ritual #4: The erotic ritual
00:29:09 - 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities
00:33:27 - Conclusion