The Top 4 Rituals to Supercharge Sex and Connection in Your Relationship | #51
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Release Date: 02/09/2025
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4 Sacred rituals to enhance your relationship
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How to break down the facade of perfection and replace it with what’s real
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Why inspiration is always supported by action
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Essential things you need in order to develop your partnership
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Important ground rules for safe communication
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5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities
Here to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast!
Bio
Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe.
Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology.
Layla’s programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.
Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads.
Timestamps
00:00:43 - Introduction
00:01:27 - The 4 types of rituals that can enhance your relationship
00:01:49 - What does sacred union mean?
00:03:08 - What exactly is a ritual?
00:03:48 - The way you look at your partnership matters
00:04:33 - Who Layla used to compare herself to when she was dating
00:05:54 - When you compare yourself to perfection, you’ll always fall short
00:06:52 - There is no perfect man on this planet
00:08:22 - How to break down perfect and replace it with what’s real
00:09:17 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:10:56 - Most spiritual traditions have their own version of sacred union
00:13:18 - Inspiration is always supported by action
00:15:02 - We’re not taught rituals for getting the most out of our relationship
00:17:02 - 4 Essential things you need to develop your partnership
00:17:38 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples
00:18:20 - Ritual #1: The gratitude ritual
00:20:51 - Ritual #2: The safe communication ritual
00:22:54 - Ground rules for the safe communication ritual
00:24:37 - Ritual #3: The intimacy ritual
00:24:42 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality
00:27:43 - Ritual #4: The erotic ritual
00:29:09 - 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities
00:33:27 - Conclusion