How Surrender and Polarity Create the Hottest Sex with Nina Lombardo | 54
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Release Date: 03/09/2025
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Shownotes The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner One of Dr. Tatkin’s top ways to create safety for your partner The biggest mistake people make in modern dating Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises...
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Shownotes Layla’s most powerful manifestation ritual Why you have to grieve to step onto a new timeline The key to digesting a negative or heavy experience How to do Sex Magic in 10-15 minutes Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™...
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Shownotes Why the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother Why rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen How the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationships Why we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us Mel’s best advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone Bio Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and...
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Shownotes The story behind the quasi-cheating incident that ended the relationship Why Ryan and Layla’s first kiss went horribly wrong How to take full responsibility for your actions and impact on others Why Ryan showed up at the Stanford campus in a full-on chicken costume How radical love is different than self-sacrificing What Ryan and Layla learned from opening their relationship Bio Ryan Cheney is a therapist, seeker, and guide devoted to the process of inner transformation. Based in Austin, TX, he works with individuals and couples to uncover what...
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Shownotes What Eva learned through menopause that she wishes she had known The science behind body changes in perimenopause and menopause Some of the key practices Eva recommends for midlife How meditation supports perimenopause and menopause How Eva’s needs with men and relationships changed through menopause Why Eva calls Kali the Patron Goddess of Menopause Bio Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of...
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Shownotes Exactly what Internal Family Systems therapy is The actual mechanism that creates the most profound level of healing Psychedelics as a loving catalyst to know ourselves more The truth about psychedelic stigma Why it’s important to prepare your set and setting with psychedelics The difference between doses of psilocybin Bio Nick Brüss, EdD, LMFT, is a leading licensed psychedelic therapist, researcher and educator who is passionate about inspiring and helping people heal, grow and live creative lives. He’s pioneering treatments and programs that...
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Shownotes What people misunderstand about the feminine How to surrender into letting life be good What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership Why men are attracted to different life force energies in women Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion What it truly means for a man to be present sexually How submission is different than surrender Bio Nina Lombardo is a teacher and mentor for women, specializing in conscious intimacy, polarity and sacred feminine practice. She supports women and couples in embodying their deepest...
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Shownotes The science behind nervous system imprinting in childhood The importance of going through both concealing and revealing cycles in life How Layla knew there was something inside her worth fighting for The power of turning your pain into medicine Exactly what led Layla to the Tantric path How to break free from the story that we have to be special to be worthy Why the theory of Tantra is nothing compared to the actual practices Bio Layla Martin: Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to...
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Shownotes 4 Sacred rituals to enhance your relationship How to break down the facade of perfection and replace it with what’s real Why inspiration is always supported by action Essential things you need in order to develop your partnership Important ground rules for safe communication 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast! Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people...
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Shownotes Why 1+1=3 in love and relationships The 6 ingredients to build a lifetime of love Why attunement is one of the most powerful tools Dr. Nasserzadeh’s “soak together before you sink together” method How to show up with compassion even if you don’t understand someone Sexual harmony vs sexual chemistry Bio Building world peace, one relationship at a time is the mission of , a globally renowned and award-winning author, speaker and relationship expert. With a PhD in Social Psychology and specialization in the fields of human sexuality and...
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What people misunderstand about the feminine
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How to surrender into letting life be good
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What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership
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Why men are attracted to different life force energies in women
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Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion
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What it truly means for a man to be present sexually
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How submission is different than surrender
Bio
Nina Lombardo is a teacher and mentor for women, specializing in conscious intimacy, polarity and sacred feminine practice. She supports women and couples in embodying their deepest spiritual-sexual expressions, allowing them to experience the union they crave with life, their lovers and the divine. The depth of her work is informed through her devotion to her inner practice, over 15 years of training and studies in the realms of healing, embodiment, feminine spirituality and sacred sexuality, her long-term intimate partnership and more than a decade of facilitating thousands of one-on-one client sessions, in-person retreats and online programs.
Learn more about Nina’s powerful work at her website.
Timestamps
00:01:08 - Introduction
00:02:34 - What people misunderstand about the feminine
00:05:54 - How do I show up when life is pulsating through me?
00:08:47 - The beauty of connecting to your feminine essence on a deeper level
00:10:51 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:11:29 - What exactly is surrender?
00:14:40 - How to surrender into letting life be good
00:17:12 - What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership
00:21:15 - Manifest your deepest desires using my free Sex Magic Practice
00:23:58 - Men are attracted to different life force energies in women
00:25:18 - Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion
00:32:42 - All humans thrive in appreciation
00:34:18 - Unlock outrageous pleasure and self-love inside Crystal Pleasure
00:36:55 - How do you transform tension into surrender during sex?
00:40:05 - What it truly means for a man to be present sexually
00:43:37 - Nina and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™
00:49:16 - How to experience longing as the fullness of life
00:53:10 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples
00:54:01 - How submission is different than surrender
00:57:17 - The difference between active submission and passive submission
00:58:47 - Nina shares a practice for single women to soften into their pleasure
00:59:19 - Nina shares a practice for couples to intentionally cultivate polarity and deeper intimacy
1:00:00 - Conclusion