Attunement, Empathy, and Connection: Learn the “Soft” Skills of Sex
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Release Date: 08/24/2025
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This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
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The Hidden Teachings of Mary Magdalene and the Radical Love We Were Never Taught
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What This Acclaimed Sex Therapist Wants You to Know
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What It Really Means to be Multi-Orgasmic
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Shownotes Take your business to the next level with my Different ways we unknowingly leak our sexual energy in modern life Key ways to begin rebuilding your sexual energy How exchanging energy with your partner leads to increased pleasure What obstacles men face in becoming multi-orgasmic and how to fix them A simple practice to feel your Qi in less than 30 seconds Bio Lee Holden is a Qi Gong Master who has brought ancient tradition to the mainstream. He’s the author of the bestselling book Ready, Set, SLOW and a PBS favorite with shows such as Less Stress, More Energy...
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That One Time I Had Sex in a Cemetery (and Other Tales About Desire)
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Shownotes Take your business to the next level with my How the American approach to pleasure compares to other cultures Layla shares one of her favorite cemetery sex stories The #1 way to get back into a sexual headspace How to approach shame around your sexuality Dr. Kate shares a take home practice you can use to connect with your body sexually Bio Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D is a Licensed Psychologist (Clinical and Forensic) in California, Florida, New York, and Illinois. She’s a Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist – Supervisor, and PACT III...
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Beyond Love: The Hidden Keys to Lasting Connection with Andrew Horn
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What To Do When Your Childhood Trauma Is Hijacking Your Relationship
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Shownotes Take your business to the next level with my How Shay’s childhood taught her the impact trauma has on adult relationships Why we have a tendency to draw in partners who are a perfect match for our wound How to know if you’re in a dead end dynamic in your relationship The one question Shay asks herself when her inner saboteur comes up The importance of loving your parts so they don’t hijack you in destructive ways Bio Shay Aiyana is the best-selling author of Becoming the One and the founder of Rising Woman, a global community dedicated to self-healing, relational...
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What to Do When Your Life Is "Perfect" but Your Soul Is Screaming
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Shownotes What Sarah’s awakening and transition into feminine magic looked like What sacred feminine ceremony actually is How Sarah’s marriage was impacted by her awakening Why women’s true happiness lies in their connection to themselves The hardest parts about learning the Priestess path The process Sarah went through to overcome her witch wound Bio Sarah thought she was destined to have an "in the box" life after going to a top college, working in advertising and then creating a successful emotional eating company. All of that changed when Sarah was introduced to...
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This Therapist Taught Me How to Go from Hot Mess to Girlfriend of the Year
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Shownotes The difference between individual empowerment and relational empowerment Which quadrant of the grid Layla is on and how she got there Why Terry calls our relationships our “biosphere” Terry’s best advice for shifting out of anger and into connection A powerful guided boundary practice to follow along with Bio Terry Real is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker and best-selling author committed to helping you build the lasting, loving relationships you deserve. The author of four books, including the recent New York Times...
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How to Awaken Your Cervix and Experience Cosmic Pleasure
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Shownotes Why the cervix alters your state of consciousness How to move through a violation with your cervix What basic cervical dearmoring looks like inside your body The importance of understanding sovereignty in a relationship The phases of dearmoring safely Olivia’s advice for reaching exquisite cosmic cervical orgasms Bio Olivia Bryant is the founder of Self:Cervix and creator of the Cervical Awakening Pathway – a profound journey into the body, love and creative power through activating the cervix. For over a decade, Olivia has explored the cervix as...
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The importance of focusing on connection instead of healing
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How to describe your feelings from your body instead of your head
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The most effective way to teach attunement to men
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Why lack of attunement feels like apathy
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The difference between suppression and containment
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What it feels like to be present inside of yourself
Bio
Steven Jaggers is a somatic educator, practitioner and the founder of SOMA+IQ™ Breathwork, a powerful modality for nervous system healing and embodied transformation.
He has trained over 2,000 practitioners in a unique method that rewires the body’s response to stress, trauma and connection through potent tools like breath, co-regulation and somatic self-inquiry.
Steven’s approach bridges ancient healing traditions with modern neuroscience, offering experiential tools for emotional integration, authentic relating and whole-body aliveness.
His work has been featured in university-accredited programs, major podcasts and global events. Learn more about Steven and his work on his website.
Timestamps
00:00:45 - Guest introduction
00:04:54 - Steven explains what meta skills are and their importance
00:08:25 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:09:34 - The importance of focusing on connection instead of healing
00:13:14 - How to describe your feelings from your body instead of your head
00:17:20 - Steven shares Eckhart Tolle’s definition of stress
00:21:05 - Others can feel your alignment in their nervous systems
00:23:24 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification
00:24:35 - Discover MOOD SEX MAGIC™ Elixir
00:25:36 - Steven’s definition of eros
00:25:47 - Layla shares her definition of eros
00:32:13 - The most effective way to teach attunement to men
00:42:53 - Why lack of attunement feels like apathy
00:47:26 - The difference between suppression and containment
00:51:52 - Enhance your sensitivity and pleasure inside Crystal Pleasure
00:53:19 - Steven explains the 4 modes of communication
00:55:01 - Steven guides Layla through a powerful breathwork practice
01:06:42 - What it feels like to be present inside of yourself
01:07:05 - What it feels like to not be present inside of yourself
01:12:08 - The 3 potentials that can happen for a client during coaching or facilitating
01:16:57 - Conclusion