Ep4 - Living Sober: Why Quitting Drinking Was the Best Decision of My Life with Lotta Dann
Release Date: 08/06/2024
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info_outlineThis week I'm joined by Lotta Dann. Lotta is an addiction recovery advocate who has published three best-selling books that draw on her personal experience to promote sober living and recovery, including - The Wine O'Clock Myth: The Truth You Need to Know about Women and Alcohol, Mrs D is Going Without, and Mrs D is Going Within.
She is partnered with the New Zealand Drug Foundation to run 'Living Sober', a website that helps over fifty thousand people a year to manage their relationship with alcohol. Lotta is a Project Lead at Blueprint for Learning for the Addiction 101 workshop, designed to increase awareness and reduce the stigma associated with addiction. She was recently made a Member of the New Zealand Order of Merit for her work in addiction advocacy.
In this episode, Lotta shares how lost, miserable, and terrified she felt before deciding to quit drinking and how it was the best decision of her life.
We talk about:
- Lotta’s journey with alcohol addiction and what keeps her grounded
- Moving from - fun drinking Lotta - to feeling sad and embarrassing
- Being locked in an intense 3-year inner battle about drinking and making the terrifying decision to stop
- The hard bloody work of learning how not to get the instant release and asking yourself, ‘How do I move around this world without alcohol?’
- The coming shift in drinking culture (E.g., Sober Curious)
- The mysterious nature of addiction and shifting the stigma and judgment
- How being honest and truthful with yourself puts you on the track to recovery
- Lotta’s 3 top tips for stopping drinking
- Understanding that being human is hard, emotions are pesky, and life's tricky - so be kind to yourself and choose your soothing instrument wisely!
- How alcohol helped push aside uncomfortable feelings and the importance of connecting with her emotions (after hating navel-gazing!)
- The gift of mindfulness for not getting so swept up in her mind (which she could never have done when she was drinking)
- Modelling being real and having courageous conversations with the people you love
- The importance of values work, and having fun without booze
- Lotta’s new book (available soon) on diet culture, body image and food.
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Connect with Lotta:
Website - https://livingsober.org.nz/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mrsdisgoingwithout/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mrs_d_alcoholfree/
Connect with Kerene:
Website - mindfulatwork.co.nz
LinkedIn - Kerene Strochnetter
Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/kerene_strochnetter