Ep. 20 - Listen

You know, it’s funny how inspiration strikes sometimes. Just the other day, I was jamming out to my brother’s latest track, and there’s this line at the end that really got me thinking: “watching and listening, grinning all the while.” So, it feels fitting that today, we’re going to take a moment to really listen.

First things first, let’s start with a little gratitude. Gratitude is like a magic potion that floods us with positive energy. I’ve found that starting meetings with a positive note, both personally and professionally, sets the tone for success. Even in my own relationships, focusing on the good stuff has been a game-changer. This week, I’m particularly grateful for the opportunity to host a VIP dinner for some of our select clients at Camo Crew Junk Removal. Over the years, we’ve had the privilege of serving over 6,000 clients, and each project has been a stepping stone in my entrepreneurial journey.

Now, let’s get into the meat of today’s episode: effective listening. It’s easy to get caught up in how we communicate, but being a good listener is just as important. One key lesson I’ve learned is to understand the goal of the conversation. Sometimes, people just need to vent, and other times, they’re seeking solutions. Clarifying the purpose upfront can save a lot of misunderstandings down the road.

I picked up this gem of wisdom about 20 years ago at a friend’s wedding, believe it or not. They talked about the triangle effect in relationships, where both parties grow closer as they align their goals. It’s a simple concept but so powerful in resolving conflicts and fostering understanding.

Next up, we have the art of asking open-ended questions. Instead of leading someone towards a specific answer, let them explore their thoughts freely. It’s amazing what insights you can uncover with a well-placed “why” or “tell me more about that.”

And let’s not forget the importance of regulating our emotions in real-time. Trust me, I’ve been there, ready to charge into battle at the drop of a hat. But taking a moment to step back and refocus on the end goal can make all the difference in steering conversations towards productive outcomes.

Lastly, let’s keep it simple, folks. Complexity has a knack for muddying the waters. Stick to the basics, allow for moments of silence, and remember to tailor your approach to the one you’re talking to. What works with one person might not resonate with another, so stay flexible and adaptable.

As we wrap up today’s post, I leave you with three simple yet powerful reminders: Do the fucking thing, tell the fucking world, and always show the fuck up. Thanks for reading, and I’ll catch you all next week!