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This Is For Us

Release Date: 01/13/2025

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Hey y’all, welcome back to This Is For Us! Today’s episode is called “Building the Muscle (And I Don’t Mean Working Out)”—because this one is all about flexing your courage muscle. Whether you’re facing fear, second-guessing yourself, or standing at the edge of something new, I want you to know: the strength you need is already inside you. I’m sharing three personal stories—from a shaky first time on live TV to a powerful “no” that protected my peace—and the little ways I’ve learned to say yes to myself, even when it’s scary. 🎧 In this episode, we’ll talk...

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Hey y’all, welcome back to This Is For Us! Today’s episode is called “Building the Muscle (And I Don’t Mean Working Out)”—because this one is all about flexing your courage muscle. Whether you’re facing fear, second-guessing yourself, or standing at the edge of something new, I want you to know: the strength you need is already inside you. I’m sharing three personal stories—from a shaky first time on live TV to a powerful “no” that protected my peace—and the little ways I’ve learned to say yes to myself, even when it’s scary. 🎧 In this episode, we’ll talk...

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Hey y’all, welcome back to This Is For Us! 🎧 In this episode, we’ll talk about: ✔️ Why big life changes feel so scary ✔️ The beauty of starting over ✔️ How to reframe the discomfort of new beginnings ✔️ What to remember when you’re feeling stuck or behind ✔️ Why the next version of you is worth the risk Whether you're graduating, switching jobs, or stepping into something totally new — this quick pep talk is for anyone who’s standing on the edge of change. Noelle reminds us that starting over doesn’t mean starting from scratch. You’re wiser now....

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Hey y’all, welcome back to This Is For Us! 🎧 In this episode, we’ll talk about: ✔️ What to do when jealousy creeps into your friendships ✔️ Why bragging isn’t always what it seems ✔️ How to separate someone else’s shine from your own worth ✔️ The secret behind “she’s always winning” energy ✔️ When to reevaluate a friendship that leaves you feeling small Resources & Links Connect With Me: Instagram: Facebook Group: Podcast Website: Additional Resources: Inspo Pinterest Board: Inventory List: My LTK: ✨ Loved this episode? Take a...

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Hey y’all, welcome back to This Is For Us! ✨ This week, I’m sharing a story straight from Disney World (and straight from my heart). It’s about broken suitcases, dream shoes, unexpected compliments—and the beautiful reminders that we are magnets for miracles when we choose gratitude and positivity. 🌸 In this episode, we’ll talk about: ✔️ Why flipping the script on negativity changes everything ✔️ The ripple effect of speaking kindness out loud ✔️ How to recognize when everything is working out for you ✔️ Why your energy is magnetic—and why it matters...

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Hey y’all!
Welcome back to another episode of This Is For Us. Today’s episode is unscripted, unfiltered, and brought to you by an afternoon snow day, a cute champagne glass, and a hefty dose of real-life chaos.

I’m diving into the realities of my day—a snowstorm in Knoxville, chili that didn’t go as planned, dogs in snow boots, and the unexpected overstimulation that comes with trying to make “perfect” memories. If you’ve ever felt like your day is a comedy of errors, this one’s for you.

Let’s talk about the beauty of imperfection, the lessons in letting go, and why it’s okay to lose your cool sometimes. Spoiler alert: the chili turned out okay, the chandelier got installed (mostly), and we’re all fine in the end.

Grab your coffee, tea, or a glass of champagne, and join me as we navigate the chaos together.


Highlights

  • Snow Day in Knoxville:
    A rare snowy day turns into a comedy of errors, from missing gloves to dogs in snow boots.

  • Chandelier Chronicles:
    After years of waiting, I finally got a chandelier installed in my closet—but not without its hiccups.

  • Chili Fiasco:
    When the grocery store shelves are empty, you make do... even if the chili doesn’t taste quite right.

  • Overstimulation and Overreactions:
    The honest truth about how a perfect day in your mind can spiral into frustration—and why that’s okay.

  • Finding Gratitude in the Chaos:
    A gentle reminder that even on the wildest days, there’s something to be grateful for.


Quote from the Episode

"Sometimes the perfect day in our minds doesn’t turn out as planned, and that’s okay—because life’s beauty is in the messiness, not the perfection."


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Thank you for spending your time with me today! Remember, none of us are perfect, and that’s what makes us beautifully human. Let’s embrace the chaos, laugh at the mishaps, and celebrate the little moments of joy.

I love y’all, and I’ll talk to you soon!