70. Answering your questions: feel the fear, and do it anyway
Release Date: 01/27/2025
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info_outlineWelcome back to another episode of This Is For Us. Today’s episode is inspired by a listener’s question: What is your biggest fear in life? I’m diving into this raw and unscripted, sharing my honest thoughts on failure, self-doubt, and the pursuit of magic.
If you’ve ever wrestled with imposter syndrome, the fear of not living up to your potential, or the struggle to find your spark again, this episode is for you. I’ll also explore the importance of facing fears, embracing our own magic, and leaning into courage—even when it’s scary.
So grab your coffee, tea, or whatever makes your day magical, and let’s dive into this conversation together.
Highlights
1. The Listener Question
- A heartfelt Instagram question sparks today’s topic: What is your biggest fear in life?
2. Fear of Failure
- The roller coaster of high highs and low lows.
- Learning to let go of external validation and become your own biggest cheerleader.
3. Facing the Fear of Quitting
- Balancing guilt and alignment when something no longer serves you.
- Recognizing when it’s time to walk away versus pushing forward.
4. The Fear of Not Living in Your Purpose
- The constant pursuit of meaning, magic, and alignment.
- How fear can propel us to chase our dreams and face challenges head-on.
5. The Monster Under the Bed
- How the fears we create in our minds can be faced and overcome.
- The power of turning on the light and looking at our fears with courage.
6. Finding Magic in the Mess
- A reminder that trials and tribulations often lead to our greatest triumphs.
- Pursuing magic in every part of life, from relationships to daily moments.
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Thank you for spending your time with me today. Remember, fear doesn’t define us—it challenges us to grow, to learn, and to find our magic. Whatever you’re facing, know that you’re not alone. Together, we’re figuring out this beautifully messy life one day at a time.
I’m so grateful for each of you, and I can’t wait to talk to you again soon. Until next time, keep pursuing your magic and embracing the courage within you.
xoxo,
Noël