034 - Say “Yes, And!” to Resetting with Penny Zenker
Release Date: 06/30/2025
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In this episode, I talk with Penny Zenker—the Focusologist—about her Reset Mindset approach. We dive into what exactly a reset moment is, explore her three‑step framework (Step Back, Get Perspective, Realign), and apply it to everyday life—from emotional triggers to workplace pivots. Penny also breaks down how to ask powerful questions like “What else?” to shift thinking, how to scale reset practices, and why it matters now more than ever. Key Takeaways Recognize Reset Moments: These are small or large interruptions—your alarm, emotional trigger, organizational shift—telling...
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In this episode of Yes, And with Avish Parashar, I’m joined by Toni Thomas from Challenger, Gray & Christmas to explore a topic that doesn’t get nearly enough attention: offboarding. While onboarding gets the red carpet treatment, too often the way people exit an organization is abrupt, impersonal, and damaging — to them and to the company. Toni shares why offboarding is more than collecting a laptop and cutting off email access — and how handling it with empathy and intention leads to better outcomes, less litigation, and a stronger employer brand. We also dig into what it’s...
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In this episode, I sit down with one of my oldest friends and longtime ExxonMobil leader, Alexander Bolkhovsky, for a deep dive into leadership, motivation, and navigating organizational change. Over his 27-year career with ExxonMobil, Alex has held roles across engineering, technology, sales, and global strategy. But more than the titles, it’s his mindset—curious, adaptable, and people-first—that makes him a standout. We explore everything from leading massive reorganizations and setting “impossible” goals to staying energized when your to-do list feels endless. Whether you’re...
info_outlineIn this episode, I talk with Penny Zenker—the Focusologist—about her Reset Mindset approach. We dive into what exactly a reset moment is, explore her three‑step framework (Step Back, Get Perspective, Realign), and apply it to everyday life—from emotional triggers to workplace pivots. Penny also breaks down how to ask powerful questions like “What else?” to shift thinking, how to scale reset practices, and why it matters now more than ever.
Key Takeaways
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Recognize Reset Moments: These are small or large interruptions—your alarm, emotional trigger, organizational shift—telling you it's time to pause.
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Step Back → Get Perspective: Use curiosity (“What else? How else?”) and tools (time constraints, breathing cues) to shift thinking.
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Realign: Set next-step actions that align with your goals or values; intention plus follow-through matters.
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Reset Mindset vs Growth Mindset: Penny builds on Carol Dweck’s model—dynamic reassessment & adaptability are key today.
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Mini Reset Hack: Try breathing out longer than you breathe in (“sigh breath”) at the top of every hour to activate calm.
Relevant Links
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Penny’s website & resources: pennyskeynote.com
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Penny’s book, The Reset Mindset
Penny’s TEDx talk “The Energy of Thought”