Why You're Still Stuck After Your Breakup (And How to Finally Move Forward) Ep. 132
Release Date: 07/27/2025
Why You Can't Get Over Your Ex: The Delusion Keeping You Stuck After a Breakup Ep. 140
Breakup to Blessing
When a relationship ends, it’s easy to get stuck in denial—replaying “what ifs,” clinging to hope that your ex will come back, or creating a fantasy that things weren’t as bad as they really were. But staying in this space only delays your healing. In this episode of Breakup to Blessing, I talk about the difference between denial and reality after a breakup, why false hope keeps you stuck, and how facing the truth (even when it hurts) sets you free. You’ll learn: The common signs you’re living in denial after a breakup How denial protects you emotionally—but also keeps you...
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Stop Chasing Outcomes: How to Actually Get Your Ex Back or Find Love Ep. 139
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Encore: Why loneliness has nothing to do with being single (Being single vs being lonely) Ep. 138
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You Are Not Defined by Your Ex: Healing Self-Worth After a Breakup Ep. 137
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Breakups can leave you questioning everything about yourself — your value, your identity, even your worth as a person. You might be doing all the “right things” people recommend after heartbreak — staying busy, seeing friends, diving into hobbies — yet still come home to that deep, overwhelming emptiness. In this episode, I explore why so many people feel worthless after a relationship ends, and why it can seem like you only exist in relation to your ex. Together we’ll unpack: ✨ The missing piece most people overlook when healing after a breakup ✨ Why you’ve been giving your...
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How the Decisions You Make After Heartbreak Define Your Future Ep. 136
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What if the pain you’re in right now is actually the turning point of your life? When life falls apart — through heartbreak, betrayal, or unexpected change — it can feel like everything is over. But what if this crisis could be the moment that transforms you into someone stronger, wiser, and more authentic than ever before? In this episode, I’ll share how to stop staying stuck in anger and blame, and instead use disruption as a catalyst for growth. You’ll learn how to see relationships more clearly, build deeper connections, and make choices from courage instead of fear. Whether...
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5 Things For You to Do Immediately After a Breakup Ep. 135
Breakup to Blessing
Going through a breakup and don't know what to do with yourself? This episode is for you. Whether you're in shock, having a breakdown, or feeling completely detached, all reactions are normal. Instead of the typical breakup advice, I'm sharing 4 practical, actionable steps that will set you up for your next chapter - one that's better than before and intentionally focused on creating your best life. What You'll Learn Why your breakup reaction is normal (and often learned from childhood) The 4 unconventional steps to take immediately after a breakup How to use this ending as a catalyst for...
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How To Find The Parts of You That Need Healing Ep. 134
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In this episode, we dive deep into the often unseen—but deeply felt—impact of untreated emotional wounds and how they shape our everyday lives, choices, behaviours, and relationships. Whether you’re someone who feels “stuck,” overwhelmed, or confused by recurring patterns in your life, this episode will help you understand how unhealed pain manifests and why acknowledging it is the first essential step toward healing. 💔 Topics Covered: Why emotional wounds don’t disappear with time or avoidance How unresolved pain can influence your choices and decision-making The role of...
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How to Fix Relationship Problems: Foundation First Approach Ep. 133
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Why You're Still Stuck After Your Breakup (And How to Finally Move Forward) Ep. 132
Breakup to Blessing
Are you stuck in a loop of anger and hurt months or even years after your breakup? In this powerful episode, Sylvia explores the crucial difference between resistance and acceptance—and why one keeps you trapped while the other sets you free. If you've been replaying what happened, wishing things could go back to how they were, or feeling like life is happening TO you instead of FOR you, this episode will show you the path forward. What You'll Learn: The Two Paths After Heartbreak: What resistance really looks like (and why it keeps you powerless) How acceptance differs from giving up or...
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Breakup Anxiety and Loneliness: What It Means and How to Cope Ep. 131
Breakup to Blessing
Welcome back to Breakup to Blessing. In today’s episode, we’re diving into two of the most common – and most challenging – emotions that come up after a breakup: loneliness and anxiety. If you’ve ever felt isolated after the end of a relationship or found yourself spiralling into “what ifs” about the future, you’re not alone. We talk about why these feelings show up, what they’re really trying to tell us, and how we can begin to respond with compassion and connection rather than fear. We explore: Why loneliness and anxiety are normal, not a sign of failure The loss...
info_outlineAre you stuck in a loop of anger and hurt months or even years after your breakup? In this powerful episode, Sylvia explores the crucial difference between resistance and acceptance—and why one keeps you trapped while the other sets you free.
If you've been replaying what happened, wishing things could go back to how they were, or feeling like life is happening TO you instead of FOR you, this episode will show you the path forward.
What You'll Learn:
The Two Paths After Heartbreak:
- What resistance really looks like (and why it keeps you powerless)
- How acceptance differs from giving up or condoning what happened
- Why acceptance is the key to reclaiming your choices and your future
The Science Behind Staying Stuck:
- Why negative emotions can become addictive (featuring insights from Dr. Joe Dispenza)
- How your brain gets wired for familiar pain
- The chemical patterns that keep you craving stress and drama
Breaking Free from the Victim Mindset:
- The real reason we resist taking responsibility (it's not what you think)
- How to move from "life is happening to me" to "I'm happening to life"
- Why feeling "ready" is a myth that keeps you waiting forever
Practical Steps Forward:
- The confronting question that changes everything
- How to use your breakup as fuel for creating the life you actually want
- Why arguing with reality always makes you lose
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This episode contains references to the work of Dr. Joe Dispenza on emotional addiction and neuroplasticity.