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EP. 3: The Hidden Trap of ADHD Motivation: Why Fear & Urgency Are SABOTAGING Your Success | ADHD with Jenna Free

ADHD with Jenna Free

Release Date: 04/14/2025

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ADHD with Jenna Free

You can join the free ADHD workshop here - Chapters 00:00 Understanding ADHD Symptoms and Fight or Flight 03:17 The Connection Between Anxiety and Overthinking 08:48 Emotional Dysregulation Explained 12:47 Real-Life Examples of Emotional Responses 18:31 The Impact of Fear and Urgency on Motivation 25:33 Decision Fatigue and Overwhelm 31:38 Overcoming Executive Function Challenges 36:47 The Path to Regulation and Understanding ADHD Summary In this episode we explore the intricate relationship between ADHD symptoms and the fight or flight response. We talk about the importance of awareness in...

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EP. 3: The Hidden Trap of ADHD Motivation: Why Fear & Urgency Are SABOTAGING Your Success | ADHD with Jenna Free show art EP. 3: The Hidden Trap of ADHD Motivation: Why Fear & Urgency Are SABOTAGING Your Success | ADHD with Jenna Free

ADHD with Jenna Free

You can join the free ADHD workshop here - Chapters 00:00 The Freedom of Choice in Regulation 02:22 Understanding Motivation and Its Impact 07:12 Transitioning from Fear-Based to Desire-Based Motivation 11:27 The Journey of Regulation and Overcoming Resistance 20:45 The Importance of Connection and Enjoyment in Life 26:01 Personal Transformation Through Regulation Work Summary Today we are exploring the difference between fear-based and desire-based motivation, highlighting being in fight or flight (motivated by fear) can lead to a cycle of stress and burnout. I encourage you to recognize...

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EP. 2: The MISUNDERSTOOD Truth About ADHD & Your Nervous System: Why Traditional Regulation Methods Are FAILING You | ADHD with Jenna Free show art EP. 2: The MISUNDERSTOOD Truth About ADHD & Your Nervous System: Why Traditional Regulation Methods Are FAILING You | ADHD with Jenna Free

ADHD with Jenna Free

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - Please rate and review the podcast to allow more ADHDers to discover this approach! Chapters 00:00 Understanding ADHD and Nervous System Regulation 06:43 The ADHD Reset Approach 9:37 Identifying Dysregulation 20:50 Interrupting Dysregulation 26:17 The Journey to Regulation Summary Today we are diving into the importance of nervous system regulation for ADHDers. I will share how dysregulation can manifest and the impact it has on daily life. We will discuss the ADHD Reset approach, emphasizing the need to identify dysregulation and practice...

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ADHD with Jenna Free

You can get your free ADHD Regulation Guide here - Chapters 00:00 Rethinking ADHD: A New Perspective 11:38 The Journey to Regulation: Finding Balance 19:07 The Impact of Regulation on Daily Life 26:03 Awareness and Acceptance: The Key to Transformation Summary Hi! I'm Jenna Free, therapist for ADHD with ADHD here to share a transformative perspective on ADHD, emphasizing the importance of understanding that we have ADHD but we are also in fight or flight and that is the true problem. I discuss the concept of dysregulation and how ADHDers often find themselves in a chronic state of fight or...

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ADHD with Jenna Free

When you're tired of trying the latest ADHD tips and tricks it's time to do some deeper work. This is what we do here. No more rushing to get everything over with so you can go lay down. We are here to regulate and start truly living (and enjoying) your life.   Through Regulation work and 'The ADHD Reset' we will change the way you experience life with ADHD (think more fun and less dread).

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You can join the free ADHD workshop here - adhdwithjennafree.com/adhdworkshop

Chapters

00:00 The Freedom of Choice in Regulation
02:22 Understanding Motivation and Its Impact
07:12 Transitioning from Fear-Based to Desire-Based Motivation
11:27 The Journey of Regulation and Overcoming Resistance
20:45 The Importance of Connection and Enjoyment in Life
26:01 Personal Transformation Through Regulation Work

Summary

Today we are exploring the difference between fear-based and desire-based motivation, highlighting being in fight or flight (motivated by fear) can lead to a cycle of stress and burnout. I encourage you to recognize your resistance to change and the impact of being in a dysregulated state on your ability to connect with others and enjoy life (isn't that the whole point!?)

Takeaways

  • Regulation work provides the freedom to choose our behaviors.
  • Fear-based motivators can lead to burnout and are not sustainable.
  • Desire-based motivators are gentler and more effective long-term.
  • Being in a dysregulated state consumes a lot of energy.
  • Connection with others is hindered when in fight or flight mode.
  • Enjoying life is difficult when focused on survival.
  • It's important to challenge beliefs that keep us stuck.

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