63. Navigating the Domestic and Erotic Balances in Marriage
Release Date: 12/02/2025
72. The Art of Forgiveness in Marriage: Overcoming Conflict for Lasting Intimacy
Undressing Intimacy
Do you find yourself fighting to win arguments rather than fighting for your relationship? In Episode 72, Greg and Amy dive deep into the difficult but necessary work of forgiveness and why holding onto resentment is a barrier to true intimacy. If you are stuck in a cycle of defensiveness or feel like you constantly need your spouse to validate you, this episode offers a roadmap out. Greg and Amy discuss: • The Trap of Validation: Greg shares his personal struggle with being a "validation seeker" and how constantly looking for credit prevents true self-reflection and growth,. •...
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71. Why Expectations Kill Desire & The Trap of "Virtuous" Service
Undressing Intimacy
In Episode 71, Greg and Amy break down why "eroticism hates a job description" and how to shift from demanding outcomes to sharing authentic desires. If your intimacy feels like a "to-do list," this episode is for you. Greg and Amy discuss: • Redefining "Wholesome": Why true wholesomeness isn't about moral purity, but operating from a "whole sense of self". • The Expectation Trap: Why "expectation is neediness" and how turning a desire into a dependency kills the erotic spark. • The "Virtue" Defense: How women often hide behind "virtuous service" (doing everything for everyone) to avoid...
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70. Empty Nest Marriage: How to Shift From "Parents" Back to "Lovers"
Undressing Intimacy
The kids are gone, the house is quiet... now what? In this milestone episode, Greg and Amy navigate the emotional and relational transition of becoming empty nesters. They open up about their own recent experience dropping their youngest off at college and the identity crisis that often follows. If you are wondering how to fill the void when the "domestic bucket" of parenting shrinks, this episode is for you. Greg and Amy discuss: • The Identity Shift: Moving from "Co-CEOs of the Household" back to being partners and lovers. • The Two Buckets: Why the "erotic bucket" often feels empty...
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69. Is Hyper-Focusing on Sexual Positions Killing Your Intimacy?
Undressing Intimacy
Is your sex life becoming a "to-do" list? In this special 69th episode, we are tackling the elephant in the room: sexual positions and the pressure to perform. Many couples think that introducing a specific act—like the 69 position, a new toy, or a fantasy scenario—will magically fix their connection. But often, hyper-focusing on the "act" actually kills the intimacy. Join Greg and Amy as they break down the difference between Production vs. Connection. If you are trying to "produce" an orgasm or "achieve" a position, you aren't present with your spouse. We discuss why setting sexual...
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68.Finding Meaning: From Domestic Routines to Erotic Rituals
Undressing Intimacy
In episode 68, we kick off the new year by reflecting on a rejuvenating holiday in Sedona, Arizona, and delve into the transformative power of rituals in marriage. Inspired by Esther Perel's work, we explore the significance of balancing the domestic and erotic aspects of life with actionable advice for creating meaningful rituals. We share personal stories, including our journey from routine to ritual in various aspects of our relationship, offering insights into how these practices foster deeper connections and intimacy. Join us in discovering ways to make 2026 the year of enriched...
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67. Sexual Intimacy Without Words: Connecting Through the Limbic Brain
Undressing Intimacy
In this episode, we explore the intriguing connections between human and horse nervous systems, particularly the limbic brain. We discuss how calming the limbic system enhances human and horse interactions, making horse riding a more connected and intuitive experience. Reflecting on personal stories and recent articles, we delve into the significance of regulating emotions for deeper connections in marriages and intimate relationships. Join us as we share insights on calming practices, the importance of daily rituals, and how understanding the limbic brain can transform relationships.
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66. Waking Up to Sensuality: The Path to Intimate Fulfillment
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In episode 66, we dive deep into the topic of body image issues and how they impact intimacy and self-worth. Amy, despite being under the weather, joins us as we explore the emotional and mental barriers women face about their bodies. We discuss how societal expectations and personal criticism often lead to a disconnect from the body and its pleasures. Through personal anecdotes, we share the journey of waking up to one's desires and learning to embody sensuality. We also highlight the importance of a supportive partner in this journey. Join us as we unravel the complexities of body image and...
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65. Holding On: The Role of Touch in Strengthening Bonds
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In episode 65, we delve into the phenomena of couples fighting more during the high-stress holiday season. We discuss the importance of physical touch and connection to replenish emotional bandwidth and reset the nervous system. Through personal anecdotes, we underscore the need for grounding moments of holding each other without any expectations. We explore the concept of being on the same team, learning to coexist with differences, and the role of non-demanding physical touch in maintaining emotional intimacy. Tune in to understand how to navigate holiday stress and fortify your intimate...
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64. The Male Sexuality Manifesto: A Journey to Understanding and Empowerment
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In episode 64, we explore the significance of our online community and dive into a discussion about the core concept of intimacy and co-creation in relationships. Reflecting on personal experiences, we share insights about the challenges and growth related to writing, business ventures, and understanding integral values in sexuality. We also delve into the stages of adult development, the importance of integrating personal desires with our partner's needs, and share practical tools such as the Melt Stories app to create mutual fulfillment. Join us as we discuss how co-creation, honesty, and...
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63. Navigating the Domestic and Erotic Balances in Marriage
Undressing Intimacy
Welcome to episode 63! In this episode, we discuss the importance of balancing domestic work and erotic passion in a marriage. Reflecting on our and personal experiences, we talk about the invisible labor and mental load often carried in relationships, especially during the holiday season. We emphasize open communication, partnership, and checking egos to create a thriving marriage. Join us as we unpack these dynamics and share tips for fostering intimacy and teamwork during challenging times.
info_outlineWelcome to episode 63! In this episode, we discuss the importance of balancing domestic work and erotic passion in a marriage. Reflecting on our community gatherings and personal experiences, we talk about the invisible labor and mental load often carried in relationships, especially during the holiday season. We emphasize open communication, partnership, and checking egos to create a thriving marriage. Join us as we unpack these dynamics and share tips for fostering intimacy and teamwork during challenging times.