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The Conversation We All Keep Dodging: Estate Planning

Between Sips

Release Date: 01/21/2026

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Estate planning has a reputation for being heavy, uncomfortable, and easy to avoid. Between sips of a Rhode Island coffee, Jessica and Emily talk about why that avoidance is so common, even among thoughtful and successful people, and why it can create more stress down the road.

This conversation reframes estate planning as a way to protect your life, your relationships, and the people you love, not a checklist for the end of life. From incapacity planning to outdated documents, they explore how small decisions today can create clarity and peace of mind later, without making it overwhelming.

 

0:00 — What We’re Sippin’ on Today

2:12 — Whole-Life Lens On Estate Planning

4:50 — Why Successful People Delay

12:55 — Incapacity And Clarity In Crisis

17:19 — Guardianship And Wills For Parents

22:11 — Outdated Docs And Beneficiary Traps

26:18 — Will vs Trust And Funding A Trust

31:20 — Powers Of Attorney And Directives

36:05 — Getting Started And Practical Next Steps

39:31 — Reviews, Audits, And Advisor Support

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Please see important podcast disclosure information at https://monumentwealthmanagement.com/disclosures

 

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