Ep 118 - When Nothing Makes Sense: Learning to Influence (Not Control) Diabetes with Kaycee Parker
Release Date: 08/11/2025
Type 1 In Midlife: Support for Women with Type 1 Diabetes Facing Perimenopause, Menopause, Hormonal Changes, Insulin Resistance, Weight Gain, and Blood Sugar Struggles
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info_outlineEver had one of those days where diabetes just doesn’t make sense—no matter how “perfect” your routine was?
In this episode, I’m joined again by Kaycee Parker, author of Devotions on Diabetes, to unpack the heart behind Day 3 of her devotional: “Nothing Makes Sense.” Together, we dive into those frustrating moments when familiar routines stop working, insulin sensitivity vanishes, and you’re left asking: Why?
We talk about:
- Kaycee’s recurring low blood sugar every Sunday at church—and what it taught her
- Why “control” is the wrong word, and “influence” is the better mindset
- Hormones, stress, movement, and meal timing—and why they can shift our insulin needs overnight
- The emotional and spiritual weight of unpredictable blood sugars
- Scriptures that offer peace when the body feels unrecognizable
We also talk about the importance of observing trends without rushing to change pump settings, letting go of perfectionism, and trusting that peace comes not from perfect glucose graphs—but from the presence of God in the midst of the unknown.
Kaycee also shares a sneak peek into her next project: a new cookbook, Diabetic Meals Made Easy!
Verses Referenced:
- James 4:8 – “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.”
- Philippians 4:6-7 – “Do not be anxious… and the peace of God will guard your hearts and minds.”
- John 16:33 – “In this world you will have trouble, but take heart—I have overcome the world.”
Connect with Kaycee Parker:
- Devotions on Diabetes — available on Amazon
- Follow Kaycee: @devotionsondiabetes on IG and Facebook
· Visit her website http://devotionsondiabetes.com/
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Disclaimer: Nothing you hear on this Type 1 in Midlife Podcast should be a substitute for professional medical advice. Please always consult your medical professional before changing your diet, insulin dosages or health care plan.