Serving on Nonprofit Boards and Finding Your Perfect Fit
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
Release Date: 07/17/2025
The Truth About New Year’s Resolutions and Why We Wait to Change
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
In this episode, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff dive into the New Year with their signature blend of humor and honesty. As they kick off another trip around the sun, the trio tackles the tradition of New Year’s resolutions. Why do we put so much pressure on January 1st to spark change? You'll hear Paul talk about his simple resolution to "work hard and be nice" (with a strong emphasis on not being a dick), Kimber reflect on why she avoids big resolutions to sidestep self-sabotage, and Jeff share why he prefers to keep his goals personal but can’t deny the pull of that symbolic fresh start. Tune in...
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Screen Time vs Face Time: Navigating Remote Work, Interviews, and Modern Communication
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
In this episode, "Screen v Face," your hosts Paul, Kimber, and Jeff dive into the ongoing debate between virtual connections and in-person interactions, especially in the world of work post-pandemic. The trio brings their unique perspectives as a self-proclaimed nerd, a teacher, and a hockey player, exploring how technology like Teams, Zoom, and texting has reshaped everything from job interviews to everyday meetings. They share personal anecdotes about screen fatigue, the benefits of Face Time (the real kind), and why shaking hands or seeing the inside of someone’s car might tell you...
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Grateful Hearts, New Beginnings and the Power of Saying No
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
Welcome back to "A Nerd, a Teacher, and a Hockey Player"! In this episode, hosts Paul, Kimber, and Jeff welcome back Audra, founder of The Thread, for a deep dive into the seasons of life—how different stages shape our mindset, careers, and relationships. Whether you're in Wichita, Kansas or listening from afar, join us as we candidly explore how age, experience, and transitions bring new wisdom and opportunities. 00:00 "Fall's Beauty and Transition" 04:58 "Business Challenges and Family Balance" 07:29 "Seasons of Life and Growth" 11:54 "Choosing Family Over Scenery" 15:10 "The Power...
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Navigating the Shades of Grey in Business, Technology, and Life
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
In this episode, our dynamic trio (Paul the nerd, Kimber the teacher, and Jeff the hockey player) dive into a candid conversation about the importance of process, procedures, and the ever-present need for flexibility in business and life. Whether you thrive on policies or live in the gray areas, you’ll find plenty to relate to as they swap real-life stories, tackle questions of when to stick to the handbook, and celebrate the value of learning from mistakes and adapting to change. Get ready for a relevant yet irreverent look at finding balance, where rules matter, but growth comes from...
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Bad Santa and Broken Ribs: Irreverent Holiday Tales from Wichita
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
Welcome back to A Nerd, A Teacher and a Hockey Player where irreverence meets insight in our holiday special. Join Bad Santa, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff as they dive into the chaos, comedy, and capitalism of the season, from Black Friday antics to eggnog recipes potent enough to ignite the night. This episode doesn't shy away from the real talk: holiday pet peeves, family traditions, and the joys and pains of surviving this festive stretch between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Plus, the crew swaps their favorite offbeat holiday movies, debates whether "Die Hard" counts as Christmas canon, and...
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Ego as a Barrier to Growth: Lessons from Leadership, Technology, and Self-Awareness
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
Welcome back to A Nerd, Teacher and Hockey Player! In this episode, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff take a candid look at the ways ego can hinder personal and professional growth. Kicking things off with real-life stories from the office and a few laughs along the way, the trio digs into the importance of setting ego aside to truly learn from those around us. Whether it’s your boss, your employees, or even your clients. They share how generational differences, communication styles, and the ability to take feedback all play into how well we grow and adapt. If you’ve ever found yourself convinced...
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Filling Your Cheese: Delegation, Self-Awareness, and Growing Teams in Business
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
Welcome back to another episode of A Nerd, A Teacher and a Hockey Player! Today, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff are joined by Kristen Selby, owner of Timely Executive Assistants, for an insightful (and pun-filled) conversation titled "Filling Your Cheese." The crew dives into how leaders and business owners can identify the "holes" in their skillsets—those tasks that drain their energy or fall outside their strengths—and strategically fill those gaps through delegation and outsourcing. Kristen shares her expert framework for deciding when to tackle a skill yourself and when it's smarter to hand it...
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How We Do Fall Y’all? From Full-Size Candy Bars to Gag Gift Shots
A Nerd, A Teacher, and A Hockey Player
Welcome back to A Nerd, Teacher and a Hockey Player! In this episode, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff welcome autumn with their signature irreverent yet relevant humor. The crew dives into their favorite fall traditions from Halloween costumes and full-size candy bars to charity jars gone rogue and memorable family gift exchanges. Kimber shares her creative approach to trick-or-treating (think: both candy and jello shots), Jeff reminisces about unique family holiday traditions, and Paul reflects on classic high school memories and the change of seasons. Plus, there’s talk of dogs, Marvel movies, and...
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Dad Life and Work Life Balance with Sam Foreman
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Welcome back to another episode! Today, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff are joined by Wichita attorney and devoted dad, Sam Foreman, for a candid, humorous, and insightful conversation about the ever-elusive quest for work-life balance, especially in the world of parenting. Sam opens up about the joys and challenges of being a father of two young kids while running his own law firm, and shares how he navigates the tightrope walk between career commitments and quality family time. Along the way, you’ll hear about the importance, and comedy, of dad jokes, the reality of blending work with parenting...
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Burnout, Boundaries & Brakes: Finding Balance and Saying No Without Guilt
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On this episode, Paul, Kimber, and Jeff dive into the all-too-relatable topics of burnout, boundaries, and breaks. Broadcasting from Wichita, Kansas, the trio mixes their signature humor with honest, practical advice about navigating the pressures of modern work and life. Paul shares his eye-opening experience of fully unplugging on a Caribbean escape, while Jeff offers tips on setting healthy boundaries in an always-connected tech world. Kimber gets candid about the struggle to say “no” and the road to self-worth beyond busyness. Together, they explore how to notice signs of burnout in...
info_outlineWelcome back to A Nerd, A Teacher and A Hockey Player for another lively roundtable with Paul (the Nerd), Kimber (the Teacher), and Jeff (the Hockey Player)! In this episode, the trio kicks things off with a playful chat about their T-shirt choices—ranging from rock concert memorabilia to quirky gift shop finds—setting the stage for their signature blend of humor and camaraderie.
But the real heart of the episode is a deep dive into giving back through community boards and nonprofit leadership. Paul and Jeff share their first-hand experiences serving on local boards like the Wichita Independent Business Association and the Humane Society, reflecting on what inspired them to get involved and how it’s impacted their personal and professional lives. Kimber, meanwhile, opens up about her aspirations to join the Wichita Public Library board and discusses the practical considerations of board service, like time commitment and aligning your skills with a board’s mission.
Whether you’re curious about how to make a difference in your city, wondering how much time it takes to serve on a board, or just here for the banter, this episode offers valuable insights—and plenty of laughs—about finding the right way to give back and knowing when it’s time to let someone else take the reins.
Timestamps:
00:00 "Terrible Idea, Kimber Shirt"
04:09 Networking Through Nonprofit Boards
09:19 Align Boards With Your Interests
12:13 Board Engagement: Maximize and Transition
13:20 "Give Back Locally"
If you’re interested in making an impact in your community, this episode breaks down exactly how—and why—you should get involved. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes!
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