S9 Ep39: Should I Tell My Ex I’m Filing or Just Have Them Served?
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Release Date: 12/19/2025
S9 Ep72: What Happens When Parents Ignore Court Orders?
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#ChooseGoldman Court orders are mandatory legal directives that parents must follow to avoid serious legal penalties and maintain their credibility with the judge. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that ignoring these orders can lead to dire consequences, including jail time, fines, and the potential loss of custody rights. • Court orders are not suggestions; they are legal commands that must be followed exactly as written. • Failing to follow a parenting time schedule can result in being held in contempt of court. • Judges may impose harsh penalties for non-compliance, such as...
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S9 Ep71: What Are the 3 C’s of Divorce
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#ChooseGoldman Success in a Michigan divorce often depends on mastering three essential pillars: communication, cooperation, and compromise. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains how these factors influence court decisions regarding joint custody and the overall efficiency of your legal process. • Communication: Maintaining professional and respectful dialogue is critical for proving to the court that a joint custodial situation is sustainable. • Cooperation: Working together for the benefit of the child prevents the judge from granting all decision-making authority to just one parent. •...
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S9 Ep70: What Is the Biggest Mistake in a Custody Battle
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#ChooseGoldman Making mistakes during a legal dispute over your children can lead to a total loss of custody and legal standing. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan courts prioritize parental cooperation and will rule against those who use children as weapons or ignore official orders. • Using children as leverage or weapons is a massive mistake that causes parents to lose their case once the court discovers the behavior. • Trash-talking the other parent signals to the judge that joint custody is not viable due to a lack of cooperation. • Disobeying court orders regarding...
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S9 Ep69: How Is Child Custody Determined in Michigan
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#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan courts determine child custody based on a rigorous evaluation of twelve "best interest factors" rather than making arbitrary decisions. These factors prioritize the child's psychological well-being, medical needs, and overall environmental stability to ensure a safe and supportive upbringing. • The court evaluates approximately 12 "best interest factors," including emotional ties, parental guidance, and the ability to provide basic needs like food and medical care. • Stability is the primary goal, with judges looking for the...
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S9 Ep68: What Hurts a Child Custody Case?
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#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains how Michigan courts evaluate a parent's judgment and daily reliability to determine the best interests of the child. Making poor choices on social media or failing to show up for your children can quickly damage your standing and credibility in a custody battle. • Dangerous or poorly judged social media posts can create a permanent negative record that hurts your standing in the court environment. • Missing scheduled parenting time destroys your credibility, making it appear that you are just putting on a show for the court. • Substance...
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S9 Ep67: What Not to Do in Custody Court
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#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan courts evaluate your credibility and emotional control based on your courtroom conduct, warning that simple behavioral mistakes can derail your custody case. Staying professional and honest is the most effective way to show the judge that you are a fit and responsible parent. • Never interrupt the judge, as the court views this as a sign of poor impulse control and a lack of respect for authority. • Avoid attacking the other parent or engaging in emotional rants, which can make you appear unstable and damage your credibility. •...
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S9 Ep66: What Happens If One Parent Won’t Communicate About the Child
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#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan courts will intervene with specific communication tools or legal sanctions if a parent refuses to cooperate. When one party remains unreachable or acts in an unproductive way, the court can adjust custody and parenting time to ensure the child's stability is protected. • Michigan courts prioritize the child's needs and require parents to communicate effectively for the sake of the child. • The court can mandate the use of non-inflammatory communication platforms, such as specialized apps, to ensure all interactions are tracked...
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S9 Ep65: Child Custody Attorneys in Michigan
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#ChooseGoldman Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that Michigan custody cases should focus on the promotion of a stable environment and the best interests of the child rather than parent conflict. Navigating these legal challenges requires careful planning and a strategic approach to ensure the child’s long-term health, safety, and welfare. • Custody is not about winning a battle against an ex-spouse; it is strictly centered on what serves the child's best interests. • The promotion of stability is the most critical factor in ensuring a child’s health and emotional well-being. • A...
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S9 Ep64: Is Everything Really Split 50/50 in a Divorce?
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#ChooseGoldman Many people assume marital assets are always divided exactly down the middle, but Michigan law focuses on achieving a fair and equitable result based on the unique facts of your marriage. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains that while 50/50 is often the starting point, the court has the discretion to adjust percentages to ensure true fairness for both parties. • Equity Does Not Mean Equality: Michigan law prioritizes a fair distribution (equity) over a strictly equal split, which may result in an unequal percentage if the circumstances justify it. • Defining the Marital Estate:...
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S9 Ep63: Can My Ex Spy On My Texts and Use It In Court?
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#ChooseGoldman This episode discusses the legal complexities of digital privacy and whether an ex-spouse can admit intercepted texts or emails as evidence in court. Attorney Akiva Goldman explains how Michigan law evaluates the legality of accessed messages based on the reasonable expectation of privacy. • Generally, there is no legal right to spy on an ex, and evidence obtained through stolen passwords or hacking is often excluded. • Shared accounts and joint passwords significantly diminish your expectation of privacy in the eyes of the court. • If an account is considered joint, a...
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Deciding whether to warn your spouse about a divorce filing or serve them unexpectedly depends heavily on your safety and their likely reaction. While being open can sometimes reduce drama, giving advanced notice might backfire and cause unnecessary conflict before the process begins.
• There is no "cookie-cutter" answer; giving notice can either de-escalate drama or simply buy you a "week of misery" depending on the person.
• Giving advanced notice often leads to harassment, guilt-tripping, or family pressure before the legal process even starts.
• You are the expert on your spouse's behavior and are better equipped than your lawyer to predict if they will negotiate peacefully or retaliate.
• Always prioritize safety; if there is a risk of violence or extreme emotional abuse, surprise service is usually the safer strategy.
• Consulting with an attorney is essential to determine the best strategic approach based on your specific relationship dynamics.
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