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How to Handle Life's Hardest Moments: Learn this Mental Model for Resilience

Bold Journeys Podcast

Release Date: 01/13/2026

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What if you could develop a systematic way to build grit and resilience, a mental model that would help you handle life's hardest moments without falling apart? 🌟 Join us in this profound episode as we explore Jay McBain’s journey of systems thinking—a way of living that’s both practical and transformative.

Jay McBain is one of the most respected voices in the tech channel world, known for helping companies understand where partnerships and ecosystems are heading. He’s widely recognized for helping businesses navigate the fast‑changing world of partner strategy and go‑to‑market models.

Growing up in Canada, Jay’s childhood was filled with pivotal moments that shaped his logical and resilient mindset. Discover how early lessons in financial planning, sports, and technology prepared him to face life’s toughest challenges, from the heartbreak of divorce to the failure of a tech startup.

This conversation is essential for anyone seeking courage, clarity, faith, or reinvention. You’ll come away with practical strategies for: 

1️⃣ Compartmentalizing life’s challenges to avoid overwhelm.

2️⃣ Using statistical and logical thinking to overcome emotional hurdles.

3️⃣ Embracing gratitude and acknowledging privilege in personal success.

4️⃣ Finding adventure in travel and life’s unexpected turns.

Jay’s wisdom offers a fresh perspective, empowering you to approach your storm with a heart full of determination and a mind ready for calculated action. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that will elevate your sense of possibility and prepare you to face your own storm with a resilient heart.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to System Thinking

01:31 Jay's Early Life and Family Background

02:17 Childhood Memories and Early Influences

04:00 Pivotal Moments and Early Career

06:59 Financial Lessons and First Motorcycle

12:57 Building a Future and Facing Adversity

22:31 System Thinking and Resilience

26:04 Prostate Health and Genetic Testing

27:29 Family History and Genealogy

29:41 Christmas and Family Traditions

31:13 Adventurous Travels and Rollerblading Tour

35:21 Skydiving Proposal and Rapid-Fire Questions

41:49 Reflections on Life's Challenges and Advice