Survive and Advance: Derek Lewis on Turning Pain Into Purpose | The Soul Story® Show

In this soul-stirring episode of the Soul Story® Show, host Brooke-Sidney Harbour sits down with Derek Lewis—author of Survive and Advance—for a powerful conversation on resilience, purpose, and faith. From growing up in a broken home in Washington, D.C., to leading at the highest levels of corporate America, Derek’s story is a testimony of transformation.

 

Together, they explore how childhood dreams can become blueprints, why legacy matters, and what it truly means to “live without compromise.” Derek opens up about his battle with cancer, how faith and family shaped him, and how he's now stepping fully into his next chapter as a go-giver, mentor, and entrepreneur.

 

🔥 Topics Covered

• Why he wrote Survive and Advance (and what almost stopped him)

• The truth about growing up in chaos and choosing a different path

• Family secrets, generational healing, and rewriting the story

• The 3 B’s: Bet on yourself. Believe in yourself. Be yourself.

• How he manifested his childhood dreams through discipline and faith

• Living without compromise in a world that pressures conformity

• How his marriage to Sherene was built on shared vision and trust

• What sports taught him about leadership, parenting, and legacy

• Golf as a spiritual and strategic practice

• Derek’s perspective on DEI rollbacks and why equity is still worth fighting for

• Writing as legacy: why everyone should document their story

 

💬 Memorable Quotes

“Many Black families are connected by secrets and complexity… We are part of a hidden system of people who were never permitted to claim each other, to be families, and to act as one.” – Derek Lewis

“You can’t deliver for your family, company, or culture if you’re not the best version of yourself.” “I’ve shifted from go-getter to go-giver.”

“The triangle is simple: consumer, culture, and community. You can't grow without honoring all three.”

“Survival isn’t the end of the story—it’s the beginning of the breakthrough.”

 

📚 Grab the Book

Survive and Advance: Lessons on Living a Life Without Compromise by Derek Lewis

📖 https://amzn.to/3HrlS5D 

 

📲 Connect with Derek

Instagram: @realdereklewis 

Website: https://realdereklewis.com

 

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